Been on and off of pof for a few yrs now. Had a couple of relationships, one night stands, and fwb situations. Bottom line, 90% of the women either have next to impossible standards or are very emotionally damaged. I'd say the 10% that are looking for something real won't respond to your message unless you fit a certain profile (money, model looks, fake bad boy image). If you use this app dont expect to find "the one"on there.