There is definitely a learning curve to using the site. It is much easier if people have more info/pictures of themselves. I wish zoosk would filter their smart pics and choices more. You can do it yourself in your searches but again would be nice to have more filters in their picks for you. Take time and go into all the icons and options. It will save time in the long run. You can block out peps that show interest in you but you have no interest in them. That was helpful to learn. I may have found that person for me on Zoosk. Maybe you will as well. Oh and pick a few qualities and don't compromise on them. You can always compromise a little more later in the process.