I'm a male who has used various sites over the past 6 months to talk to and meet women who are willing to have an affair. This site is probably the best for doing that as it has yielded my only affair so far. Admittedly, I haven't tried very hard on other sites, but at nostringsaffair at least you don't have to wonder about why the other person is there or what they are looking for. The hard part is already exposed for you... the other person is married and looking to have an affair. I am currently in a wonderful affair as the result of this site, it has been a long term, mutually satisfying relationship and I credit NSA for supplying it to me. It's true that you need to watch out for "phishers" who are simply there to get you to buy a membership to contact them for no response. Just know that no woman on that site will ever initiate contact with you... period. You are responsible for initiating contact. If you receive first contact from a woman on there, you are being phished.