I just signed up for eHarmony this month and I have two more months until my membership expires. I will NOT sign up again. The main reason is because of the lack of responses from women I have messaged. From what I have seen, if a woman doesn't respond it is very likely that they have not been active on the site. So, I the unsuspecting user thinks that various profiles are active, when in reality they are not. This site is very much a scam, because the developers of eHarmony could easily change this feature to show which users have been active. However, if they change that feature, then that may mean less money for the company. Once users find out who isn't active, they won't waste their time or money. The scheme is quite unfortunate, because it is built on the hope of people finding the love of their life. I would never recommend eHarmony. Not only is the price not worth it, but the site itself could have been created with the user in mind. I have only received messages from 4 women. 3 out of 4 disappeared on me. It didn't quite work out with one woman I messaged due to a disagreement about personal beliefs, but that aside, the message ratio has been quite low. I have received smiles from women I wasn't interested in, and a few looks. Other than that, this site is complete junk! Don't waste your time or money with this.
Dear Cory, thanks for your feedback. I'm sorry to hear you're dissatisfied with the site after just recently subscribing. Please know that it can take time to start receiving responses. Like anything worthwhile, using eharmony takes time and patience. There may also be other reasons why you might not be getting responses and we'd be happy to see what we can do to maximize your communication potential. Please email us back at membercare@eharmony.com from the email associated with your account.