I don't know if I am just one lucky guy but I met a cougar last week and had hell of a time. Everyone throws s#$? At this site but I joined and hooked up without any real trouble. This is the second cougar site I've been using. First one was Cougars69 which was even more crazy and I am still a member but by now I almost had all of the cougars listed in their member base/at least in my city, LOL, so I wanted to try something new... and BAM! Worked again.