I have used MILFaholic in the past and I think there are like 90% male users so as a man you need to stand our from the crowd to get in touch with real MILFs. It obviously seems to be a little tougher than other sites like Cougars69.com, where I had my first hook up within the first week. But I am not saying that it is impossible. You just need a little patience and some kind of solid 'strategy'.