The activity level is close to zero. I'm an average-looking 43 year old man with good income. I sent 80 letters and got 1(!) response. If you value your time and have some self-respect, just use a bigger and more popular dating site and search for a Christian woman there and sooner or later you will get to the point of making a big and important decision, following your heart and choosing your One and Only woman. But just avoid ChristianMingle, don't get stuck on this fraudulent site.