Bill T.

It's a horrible website that will suspend your account if you say the wrong thing. If you give criticism about the women on the website, mind you my opinions were specifically about how I felt that OKCupid caters to Caucasian women on the website, and mind you I'm a Caucasian man, if you say ANYTHING negative or in the ballpark of negative about women in general, especially Caucasian women, they will suspend your account. A friend of mine who used to be on OKCupid warned me to be very very careful about what you say in your profile or else they'll suspend your account, and that's exactly what happened to my account.

So be careful creating a profile, answering all their questions (which takes forever), because if they don't like what you put on your profile they will suspend you without warning. Another friend of mine was communicating with a woman on their site, everything was going great, then all of a sudden his account was suspended and he was like, what the heck? Come to find out they didn't like how something was worded in his profile.

It's a site that caters to Caucasian professional women. You should read what some of these women say in their profiles about men! It's amazing! It's a horrible website. Be careful. The amount of time you invest in their questions and profile, by the time you get comfortable, God forbid you say something which they deem inappropriate, because they'll suspend your account. And, when you email them to ask what's wrong what happened, they'll ignore your email. They're horrible!

I know friends of mine of color that have been on there that have had the same thing happen. I can only imagine one of their delicate Caucasian women probably complaining about the scary African American man and they suspended his account. They are HORRIBLE!