Bill F.

We men think there is a lonely Ukraine/Russian or other Eastern Block women just dying to escape, or some other fantasy! This site seems to have an easy flow and lots of pretty profiles to choose from. You will receive 100's of letters in your mail box per week, they are all bull$#*! letters. What I mean is none of them are an actual women interested in you, just a computer generated version of a letter with your name on it.
I met a women here and choose her. She didn't choose me. I wrote a letter and waited, after approximately 3 days I got a reply (she was not on the site during that time) from her which seemed genuinely her or at least a real person based on my questions in my intro letter. I do have experience with other sites so I wasn't expecting much. This was actually a good start though. We agreed to meet at a certain time of the day on the site. I didn't look at or correspond with any other women during this time period. My mailbox was blowing up with generated letters from other women. When i was online it was equally bombarded with offers to chat. Having a scheduled time to chat was helpful in avoiding some of this nonsense. Anyway our conversations were very good and I moved our course gently to communicate outside the site as quickly as I could without being pushy. This is key with these sites, if you have a real chance get them off the site, in my opinion otherwise they are just bleeding you through the site. She of course was reluctant to move so quickly, this is a typical statement in this regard. Often you will hear they don't have other means, no other social networks etc. At this point ( If I'm really interested in this woman) because maybe i enjoy this I seek the help of a professional in the country, the cost is modest usually $100. From that I usually get social networks, address, phones and various other personal info. From that info I can do my own further research and usually find out a great deal about the woman in the photos, because all these women love social media. Often you'll see their modeling pictures from the profile in their social media pages and all their buddies offering accolades. Armed with a fresh insight as to whom this person really is I begin to ask questions gently and carefully to confirm if I actually speaking to the women in the profile or an operator/agent from the site running the profile. I have had both my friends so trend carefully! In the case of the agent its apparent usually quickly. Mistakes about cars they might own, whether or not they went to a particular college etc. even things as simple as landmarks in their city which they have posed to have photos displayed on their social network. You can catch them easy! Now the real girls, this is something entirely different. I usually find they are reluctant to offer too much and sometimes its difficult to determine 100% I call this the Ukraine expert liar. I've tried to determine why a woman would bother to be on this site or any other and then play such a game as to lie about social networks, profess their interest in me and continue to lie about her own personal life, maybe it obvious and I can't see the reason. You can determine the answer to that riddle yourself. What I gather from these sites ALL of them. They are (the sites) purely entertainment and expensive at that! If you believe your are going to beat the system and win over a woman half your age who is as they say a 10, no mater what you look like or how old you are! Well you will enjoy these sites and this one is no different then the rest. Be prepared for endless chats and spending your money faster than a one arm bandit at the casino! Its fun sure, its expensive too! The winning jackpot is, don't get emotion because my friends its total fantasy nothing more than that. J4L to me is a little better than some of the others with fast tracking to your heart and wallet. I included a pic of my little honey. When I did expose who she actually is with proof from her personal networks she went silent, and I also connected on some of those networks of hers after which I was blocked. Mine you this is after she is telling me how wonderful I am on the site. You would think a woman might find you more wonderful if you found them in their social network, unless of course they are not sincere, as to why they play this game, some say its the earnings from the site. That might be true. I think some of the girls enjoy the big head they get from men all over the world clawing after them. I could go on and tell stories of at least three others which resulted with similar endings once I use a pro to give me an edge. At least one of them was honest at that point and asked me not to cause problems for her and her family, she divulged a lot about the how these sites work, that's a story for another time. You have been warned my brothers!