It's a inadequate design dating site... frustrating when trying to delete incompatible messages... and can be misleading for when you sign up for "free"... and go thru the time and trouble of filling out profile just to find out you have to upgrade your membership in order to communicate with any compatible desirable people that my had messaged you! After upgrading it seems there are profiles on the site that are falsified and used for luring in memberships! I'm very disappointed with coast to coast promoting such a site.