Its a funny thing to complain about but as a new female user on Xmeeting I have to say theres too much choice lol! Never expected to see so many guys, it gets to the point where you dont even need to search, you just reply to emails! Ill need to hire a secretary just to get through all the messages I get! So if you have a lot of time ladies, check this site out for sure as the variety is AMAZING! I probably prefer hookuphangout.com as its free and although there are a lot less guys they tend to be a bit more interesting and I have more time to chat with them. But either way, both sites rock and its crazy to complain about having too much choiceid never do that in a make up shop lol!