I was here during when the site was new and when it was remodeled. It sucked both times.
The first time I was here it was more of a social media site than a dating site. Which was fun! Until I realized that the majority of the site was trolls. They were sexist and evil people that no one would want to interact with. There was one particular active user here who was completely openly sexist and was cruel. I tried to date him and he kept saying he was going to kill himself and when I found out he was sexist he said, "I thought you were different but then I realized you were common" and kept calling people "sluts". There was a religious poster here who acted like she had borderline personality disorder and if anyone knows what that disorder is like you know what I'm talking about (I used to have it and yes I was a bad person).
Then when I came back to the site years later I found that the awesome blog posts had been removed but the terrible chat room was still up. Most of the bad people hung out in the chat room! And the messages were free but only for a little bit. Other than that you had to pay.
There always were only about 200 active users. There's really NO ONE there. I did meet two good people. I met a nice Canadian man (before he turned evil) and a very VERY nice man from New York who I met on the site who moved in with me and lived with me for 3 years before leaving me because he said I was too dysfunctional (I knew him when he was sick but he got better).
So yes this is a 1 star site. I may have found an A+ man here but overall everything here really really sucks.
I will say this though, most Christian men won't marry a mentally ill woman. So if you're Christian and mentally ill maybe you should try here. I've never been able to find people who wanted to wait until marriage on the regular sites until recently. Basically Christian and mentally ill means you're undateable. Christians don't love the mentally ill they want people who are perfect.