Despite reading many positive reviews of this site made by people who are pretending to be experts I strongly disagree with them. The first mistake by the people who run the site is in allowing profiles to be made that do not show a face or even the overall build of the people who join their web-site. Secondly one can not view a profile properly or read anything about another member unless they first pay for the ability to view it. But why should someone pay to see profile after profile of other members who they do not find attractive? Thirdly If I had wanted to join a gay hook up site I would have searched for a site labeled as such. I found that adding photos of myself did not help since only paid members can view the photos and very few attractive women seem to be paid members. The only thing they seem to have done right is that they are allowing nude photos to be used in the main profile photo. I found it did not help to post other photos of myself since they apparently were only seen by gay men who paid for a membership or older out of shape women that I had no interest in meeting. To sum things up I found the site to be useless. Many of the main profile photos posted by their members are quite revolting. Also I did not see any clear explanation as to how one could cancel a so called upgraded membership and this leads me to believe it would be a hassle to stop automatic renewals.