Ultimate temptations Staff unlike fubar mingle with all there members and if you need anything they respond right away if there on! Unlike another trashy site i no UT has not been takin over by the bully monster and greedddddd for fun and making freinds join ut ! To be trashed and spammed by bling pk beggers wanting to show you naked pics of 400 pound women join the other one hagd
i dont understand how anything on this site works... could use less html coding and more java or flash. difficult to navigate and honestly the color scheme is a little rough on the eyes.
Most will think that I am on here writing this out of revenge, actually it is just the opposite, I had a review on here once before and took my whole Site Jabber account down because the owners of Ultimate Temptations, there is no reason to name names yet, lol, they most certainly know who they are. My real friends are already gone from this site, and two left with me today when I was banned for the 5th time, yes I said that the fifth time. I do not intend on coming back here on reading the little threats the uppers on this site will put in response to this because the site and they themselves are worthless, and this time, I am not being guilted to taking this account and my review about them down, because the fact of it is this, I WON'T. They have called me to come back 5 different times because my husband and I were big spenders nothing more, the friendship they proclaimed to me was phony just like they are. A few months ago a bunch of close friends of mine were either banned or left following that banned person which was Psycho, here is the reason why this person left. What makes the owner of a site allowed to spread something about another member no matter what it is, this particular thing happened to be none of this persons business, and yet the owner told him anyway and the banned person had every right to be upset, I saw every YIM conversation coming from this owner to my best friend Psycho calling him insulting names , and trying to provoke him, there is NO reason or excuse for that, it is immaturity that is inexcusable. Again many people left as a result of my best friend himself and his whole family being banned, oh how I should have listened to Corey back almost two months ago when I saw the cold hard proof of the unfairness and and the cold hard cruelty that this woman was projecting and unloading on others, just like a child, that isnt the way you run a "so called" business" trust me you will fail Hope. For the record here are the things that were said within those Yim conversations between Hope and Corey my best friend, quite frankly made me sick to my stomach in defense of Corey. Nobody ever has to resort to the point of putting someone down, by asking them if "they are that scare of bubblegum too?" You don't call my best friend a "kook and a "pussy" and remain in the eyes of everyone else as a saint, it doesn't work that way, your true colors are showing Hope.:) The bottom line is I had friends there when she banned me for the fifth time today saying all of these things that I had done, all I was focused on was having my friends know where I was going and I was successful with that, sorry but you won't take that away from me Hope. Coral Rose is getting messages all over her yahoo about where I was. Yes we called Coral Rose, didn't you know she is a very good friend of mine, and you can say what you want to her, she won't change her mind about me or Bulldog, try her, she is one tough lady, and the best friend that a girl could ask for. Oh one more thing before I get into the bulk of this, what gives you the right Hope to go into someones elses account and not only remove, but put up a status all your own humiliating that person, that person being me.:) I comfronted you when this happened and you danced around the subject and the fake person that you are you wouldnt even admit to your own wrong doing, typical of people from New York right?lol Might I remind you as I wrote in my first review on here that I was guilted into taking down that it isn't good business practice to get mouthy with your customers on the phone, saying things like "I don't give a $#*! if you shove 16 needles of heroin up your $#*!ing ass Kristina!". I would have thought that was an obvious thing not to do, that you just don't say something like that especially to someone in recovery, you could put them in a state of mind to actually hurt themselves, not that you give a $#*! about anybody but yourself Hope. Apparantly that must be a New York thing too, inconsideration to others, which seems to be a little common and very old coming from a website that my hubby and I have put our hard earned money and ALOT of my time taking new people showing them everything to start them out on UT, we have been there nearly a year and were number one on the couples chart for sometime now, and this is the thank you we get. Once again I reiderate from my former review that the owners read your mail, and I still stick with that, from the most personal of things(which is none of their damn business) to your everyday conversation. Starting from the beginning my hubby Bulldog and I were on UT just shy of a year, we started on November 6th of 2010. The first 4 times Hope claims that my mouth got me banned, (which really means that they don't want the truth to come out.:) The 4th time being really the straw that broke the camels back, they let what was a "sage" (back then) on their site take control, and I was abused verbally by this person, and was not allowed to fight back, the very last thing that was done and said in this matter was I had one night were I ran four Ultimate Hours (like Happy Hours) back to back in tribute of my mother who had died a year ago due to cancer. That was my business to do, being that I paid for it, I got remarks from this sage at the time his name is Spiritwolf, and I tried to defend, that was MY mother, I think anyone would have done the same, but where it got really bad was the next day this man Spiritwolf posted what is called a "limelight" which is something that goes public so that everyone could see. Well he compared my dead mother to his pet rock.:( And that was it, I let him know just what I thought of him, that was MY mother. Once again nothing was done at that time about Spiritwolfs behavior, not until Hope and Lou saw him try and take their site over the day they were moving, well things have now progressed to the point of a lawsuit and this is what she uses to threaten people that comfront her on things that she is very obviously wrong in. It is always "I have the best lawyer and I know this and I know that, and I put 2000 dollars of a retainer down for a reason" You know what? Talk is cheap Hope. I always ultimately respected you Hope, we had our ups and our downs, and I always came back and always obided by what you said, but there are just some things that don't fly with me and that are unforgivable, that one thing of recent that I can think of is YOU Hope going into my account and erasing my status, and making one of your own just to humiliate me? I already went into this earlier, but isn't there some kind of privacy law you broke there? I won't ever forgive you not for that, and not for what you said about Corey, and further thinking about it, I don't forgive you for anything that you have done to me or David. You shouldn't be allowed to go into someone elses account and change their personal information, sorry but I know that you think you know everything, but I heard something about that being against the law Hope, somebody I talked to after this happened today, you do what you want, your threats, and everything coming from you makes me sick.Okay now I will go back to where I left off at the beginning when my mother died and and I got banned for the 4th time for basically telling people what I thought and what was actually the truth about what happened with regards to my mother dying and the abusive comments that were made from Spiritwolf. We were banned for three weeks that 4th time and then I wrote a review here, and isn't it coinsidental that I get a phone call from one of her stooges that we are allowed into our accounts and they want us to come back? My guess?? Because they saw the review that I had up the day before, and they were missing their money, they are greedy people, I leave it at that. I was informed from a friend of mine on the fourth of July weekend that we were 11 of their 14 sales, I think you guys just slit your own throat Hope.lol We ended up going back yet again, and complying with their rules, with her saying always to me how well I was doing and that she would come to my defense no matter what, and also she promised that she would never delete my account again, yet again another lie. I have seen many, many other people that have had bad days on that site, and they put up a negative status, so I will point this out, why were my husband and myself constantly pinpointed and picked out of the crowd to pick on just to be mean. In fact I have seen alot worse as far as statuses go, but I am sure Hope will find a wonderful excuse up her sleeve for that too. So today I get a letter in my inbox, stating that she and Lou had decided that I could not be on UT because I owed a bunch of people money?? Go to Guppy, Ms T, Labritude, The Intimate One, and Sweetness, they will vouch for me 100% the opposite direction, and the things that I payed back still remain on the back of their page, so where are you coming from Hope? Outer space again?? Hey you have put me down so many times I figured I owed you one, and for Corey too, you have and are on one hell of a power trip to think that you can do the things that you do to people and get away with it, I think Corey just may have been right in every single thing that he said about you, you are a two faced back stabbing...... you can use your imagination there. Oh and the second thing that was brought up was this~~Back in December, I met a man on your sight, and in person, back when I was not sober, just being honest which people seem to have a big problem with these days, and his name is Desert Outlaw, He came to get me here in California. He then took me to Tucson Arizona where he raped me 2 times and was extremly mentally abusive towards me, I was there for 6 days because honestly I could not get out of bed because I was so sick from prescription drug withdrawls that he made me come off of cold turkey, he tried to think he was some kind of doctor I guess, I could have died out there! I don't need to give a whole bunch of detail here, because the man is a pig for doing that to me, the reason I could not press charges? Because I left with him of my own volition. He made me late for my bus getting home because he felt he had to do it just one more time to prove that he was in control. To you Dan, you are one sick, and twisted individual. Later on I came to find a YIM conversation between my best friend Corey and Desert Outlaw (Dan). The conversation went like this~~Desert Outlaw says "I scewed up." Corey says "Gem?" Desert Outlaw says "Yep!" Desert Outlaw then finishes by saying that "I should have left someone out in the desert dead while I had the opportunity"~~There is a validated and true copy of that conversation between Corey and myself. Hope didnt want me to tell people to stay away from him on her website, she didnt want me to warn anybody, and I am sorry but I have been through enough, and I won't have another woman go through what I did if it can be helped. I tried to reach out and help the current woman he is with, but she didn't listen, that is no longer on my heart. I tried, so if she is hurt, I cleaned my side of the street as I like to call it and I tried to keep her from harms way, but some people have to learn for themselves. Hope, DO NOT call me for a 6th go around with you people, I won't have it and I don't want it, as a matter of fact we are changing our numbers, I don't want to here from you ever again, enough is enough, you have drug me down 5 different times, and my friends will follow me, so that is not my concern, I have phone numbers for all of them, like I said we have already talked with Coral Rose, I brought her there didnt I Hope? She won't put up with you, and you know that, you know that I am soft hearted and thin skinned and you walked all over me, took advantage of that fact, and stabbed my hubby and I in the back 5 different times, if I recall that is not the definition of a friend, is it??lmao! Once again I don't wish to ever hear from you our your "so called" administration again, so don't send your stooges to do your dirty work yet again, it is TIRED Hope. Goodnite and GOODBYE, I am actually relieved, I am in a place were I am not bothered and the owners don't go into your account to mess with it. The best thing? I have my true friends that came with me, and several have called and they will come too, you can say all you want to cover your ass, you really can't as Corey said. LOL Have you ever heard of people that you just shouldn't have f*cked with? You f*cked with the wrong family this time. Please go back to the person that raped me since you allow a rapist on your site but kick off legitimate people. And please don't go there by saying that "I am only doing this because I want a membership with UT, I could give a $#*! Hope, take your website and you know where you can shove it.:) To the people that I might not ever hear from again, I will be at musicworld.mmrhosting.com. Stop by and say hi, this was in no way directed at you.:) It was directed mainly at two people, they know who they are. I love you Coral Rose, Intimate One, BadAssChevyGirl, Guppy, MsT, Fatboy, (I will talk with you everyday!) S2 who will be with me, Sweetness (who will be with me) and Humper, thank you Daren for always being my close friend, and thank you for standing right behind me.:) I love you all~~To Hope and Lou, forget you ever heard the names Gem Girl and Bulldog, I will not be checking back here, so it is a waste of your brain cells(if you have any left) to try and get me back in anyway for this, you will not hurt me ever again, the one thing I will reiderate from my first review~~Someone in here once said (if you read through the reviews you will see it) You had better have medical insurance if you choose to join this website, cause you are sure to have a knife, or two, or five or ten, in your back. Thank you to those who love me, I love you too, and you all know where I am.:)xoxo~~Kristina aka Gem Girl and Bulldog44
UT is a wonderful site, i have never had any issues with anyone on the site. The Admins and everyone are always helpful and friendly. I prefer it to many other sites, i can do things at my own pace, i can return things when i want to and i never have been asked to spend any money. i have been a member since before it became known.
UT is GREAT n Lou n Hope who works tirelessly 2 run what a social network'n site REALLY is are KIND, GENEROUS, REAL ppl. Anyone who has a beef w/UT is just butt hurt cuz they were banned.I LOVE UT 4 EVER!!!!
This site is absolutely awful! DO NOT TRUST HOPE AND LOU FOR THEY ARE NOT TO BE TRUSTED. Perfect example....Hope and I had a discrepancy over the phone, and her response was "Kristina, I don't care if you shove 16 needles of heroin up your ass. First off you never say things of this nature to a newly recovering addict. It could cause them to go off track and overdose. That is merely one of the many put downs that I received from Hope. Thank God I am gone. I asked to come back only because my best friend is back there. He got asked back after being banned so I thought that I could come back. That wasn't the case though.....they pick their favorites, and that is that. A definite THUMBS DOWN!
Cheap ripoff of Fubar with a lower class of people that make Honey Boo Boo's family look classy.
This site is great if you like rednecks and hillbilly's. Not worth your time or money.
It doesn't get much worse than this. I've tried several times to work with and comply with the owners requests of this site, and tried to be professional with her (Hope) because she was and is the owner of the site, and respect her as a woman, but it was to no avail, she treated me and my wife (Kristina S) with vulgarity and disrespect. As a member/customer of her site, I spent on the average of 1000 dollars a month for both my wife and I to participate and accomplish the goals we set for this site. It didn't bother me so much with her lack of respect and her filthy mouth, but I did not appreciate it with my wife Kristina. As a previous business owner of 40 years, you do not disrespect and treat the people that provide you with the income to keep your site or business going, for a lack of better terms, "don't bite the hand that feeds you". I approached Hope about this several times but she seemed to have a big problem with letting the small amount of authority that she did have going to her head. Over the period of time that we were on this site, and I have to say we were banned six different times total, because we would not comply with her mood swings, when someone on this site would say something disrespectful to my wife, we would status a statement but we seemed to always be the ones in the wrong, instead of the person that started the problem in the first place. I am not a computer genius, but I approached her a couple of times that someone had "hacked" my profile (which she did openly admit once). When I said that a member on her site (Desert Outlaw) had downloaded pics to my profile that neither my wife or myself had put there, she refused to take any action and basically called me stupid. I do not believe it was the cyber fairy that did this. lol You can go to any member on this site and they will not have a single bad thing to say about me, with the exception of Hope and Lou who continue to spread lies around UT about my wife and myself. Prior to the last time that she deleted our accounts, the reason being I would not lower myself to playing her stupid childish games. I have valid proof from others and I have it myself, these people (Hope and Lou otherwise known as Midnightmare and Brooklynrocks) read your personal mail and will hold it over your head if you don't comply with whatever they ask you to do. Hope has also been known to share private information of mine directly to someone such as Desert Outlaw amongst others, who have no business knowing anything about me or my wife. There is also a "click" or a group that we like to call her "stooges" that have a free reign and can do no wrong. This a very unfair site and to explain it very simply, I don't recommend Ultimate Temptations to anybody. They are a cheap imitation of Fubar, and as much as I dislike Fubar, I think I'd rather be there.:) Dealing with Hope is a reminder of being in elementary school playing ball, and if she doesn't get her way, she runs home crying. lol
Rated it one star.(wish that had half stars) lol
Ok I am here for two reasons to do an honest review and to defend my name due to slander from this site and even tho it is unintentional a friend that is actually stickin up for me but due to the bs from the site I just want to bring it all out in the open. Now...when I joined UT March 10,2010 I liked the place pretty good. Yanno everyone has their on group so its learned very quickly to not wander outta your group. Kinda like in school which is !COMPLETELY STUPID! but no big deal. Then the lounge wars started. I had a successful lounge there not so much because of the style of music some did like it but when given a chance and actually talked to us some found out my group wasn't so bad. So a new lounge came and the one big event we tried to have in our lounge that lounge tried to block...didn't work but they tried nonetheless. BUT when I retaliated when attempts to ask for help was ignored I got threatened to be deleted but the other person could do no wrong. Eventually that battle passed like gas and then a new battle started. Two members was offendin and trashin in some eyes other members. Again all attempts for help was ignored and the battle was left for me to 1. either keep my mouth shut and be ridiculed or 2. stand up for myself which I did and deletion threats were made again. And again that passed like gas just in time for another battle to start. My lounge and co owners of my lounge was tryin to help a good friend that had just recently went thru a life threatening ordeal and we had a pic link on our page that directed to a fundraiser site for this person. We occasionally flew statuses promotin this as well but had stopped for almost a month because other new lounges was havin Grand Openings and we helped promote them as well so for at least a good 3 weeks nothin was advertised about the fundraiser at all except for the pic link I chose to keep posted on my personal page.Then one night this friend was in the lounge and asked us to stop helping him that we needed to promote UT. I knew immediately that it was bs and exactly who it came from. He was told that people felt guilty about not donating so they stopped buying the site extras...GREED. Also during this time I was involved in a custody battle and funds was short so I was going to let my net go to pay my lawyer cause my son was more important than a trashy site. I told Gem this situation and she immediately insisted on payin it I repeatedly thanked her and told her no I'll get it back just gotta do this right now...went on like that for about 2 weeks I think. My wife print screened our bill and showed her thinking ok its $144.20 and thats alotta money so she will be like oh I wish I could help but that is just so much I'm sorry I can't do that yanno. Well she was slick :) she got the info and paid it anyway. I have offered to pay it back many times and Gem & BD refuse they say its a gift. They won't take it. Well even tho that was personal and private somehow the snoop owner found out and got mad cause the money wasn't spent on the site and she attacked me. She then went on to another member and told him and who knows how many more and thats not all. For 3 days in a row I was attacked in yim and my account basically made a mockery of me. I have yim archives print screens and eye witnesses to back me up. I made the decision to leave and leave with a bang and NEVER return. My lounge was then stalked by them as well as members that joined the other site we were at. Now still to this day I hear bs comin from them at their site and then hear about this stuff bein posted here so I decided that if my name was gonna be put out there I may as well put my side in there too. So yeah I was treated like crap there and will NEVER EVER go back there again and I will tell people what I think of the place and some of the people there. Don't get me wrong there are still a few good people there at UT. I have learned who my true friends are there. And they aren't the ones that stopped talkin to me because I went against the cruddy site owner. If I was a kewl friend before that I should be one now too my only beef was with the two owners. Now I would appreciate it if I didn't hear or see my name out there in regards to this fart stain of a site again. I haven't attempted to log back in or make a new page there since I left and don't plan on it.
I was invited to this site by an ex member and it didn't take me long to see how they roll there. The few nice members that are/were there are just there for the few friends they have or as favors for those friends. The main members that are there are rude and has positively no idea how to run a site in fairness. They are not readily available to help if an issue arises and if you try to handle an issue on your own you get threats or deletion. I originally came here to review another site and saw something about Ultimate Temptations so I decided to put my input here as well. I have read all the reviews and there are many good ones but trust me in the length of time I was a member there I can tell you that all the good reviews are from the staff and the ass kissers who will eventually one day get the boot out. So as many as there are out there promoting this site I as will others will be out there promoting other places any place but Ultimate Temptations. Its Freedom Of Speech isn't it and this is a review site well this is my review. Its a total disappointment and a waste of time.
I have been on this site for quite some time. Although there have been a couple unpleasant experience which were my fault, am overall more than thrilled and contented with it.
The owners themselves will work (actually bend over backwards) with any member to enure their stay is enjoyable and needs are met. Even when the owners suspect and/or know they are are being being lied to and/or taken advantaged of, they will give a member a 2nd, 3rd, and even a 4th chance. Most the members are less forgiven and normally when a member is given a 3rd and 4th chance, are distantly tolerated if not ignored or considered an outcast. Fortunately, those members do not normally stick around long.
What is really impressive is that the entire site has been coded from scratch, no copycat design, fill-in the blank forms, just a custom appearance board, etc. Therefore, the code continues to be improved, security tightened better than any social site I have seen and have seen PLENTY! When some members learn of a trick to take advantage of a possible hole, the code is is corrected immediately leaving the member who had been using the trick to be upset; kinda like the kid caught with his hand in the cookie jar.
Within the past few months the improvements that have been made and implemented are simply amazing, especially since all the coding is done by one person and not a team. Profiles and pages are loading faster and the lounges work flawlessly! When the photo pages for each member eventually speed up, UT will be unreal. In the event a site instant messaging service is done, UT will indeed be the ultimate social site on the entire net.
Most the members are there to have fun but just like in the real world, there are a few cheaters, scammers, liars and thieves. The good thing is that it does not take long for the owners to learn those members of questionable character and address the issues associated with that member who can be quite creative with their excuses rather than just stating the truth.
So if you would like to check out a social site that is actually a small community growing into a planned city, then check it out. Like any place, what makes a community are the people and most the people on ultimate temptations are great!
I have to say that my experience on Ultimate Temptations has been nothing but BLISS! There are many people on there who are... Always smiles, a smile just waiting to happen, or sending you a smile. :) I believe that those are some of the best players for these on-line game. The people who keep it lite.
The owners work very hard to keep it that way, but it isn't always an easy thing to do. There is always going to be something, or someone that makes it difficult. No different that in everyday life.
I believe that if you are happy go lucky, easy going, and know how to have fun without jumping to conclusions, assuming, or expecting things from others, you will find that you can have a blast!
I personally believe that if one were to make these on line games their life, it would be easy to get "caught up and lost in the shuffle." Which no on should not do!!! There should be moderation just as with anything else in life. It's like the saying... Too much of a good thing
Excess may do you harm.
this site has a 3.7 out of 4.0 rating i would say that's pretty good for a new site. it appears to me the only negative comments are from disgruntled ex members who i would say from reading their comments, are completely filled with personal drama, so the fact they are no longer a part of the site is probably a good thing. much luck and continued success ut owners and congratulations on a job well done.
I have to say there are more high ratings rather than not so well ratings. Ultimate Temptations is a social site... so yes if that is something you cannot handle, most likely its not for you... but if you are someone who is into the virtual social scene it's definitely for you. Virtual drinks, gifts, and dazzle to send to your friends, lounges with live dj's to relax and chat in, a scroll to allow you to know who is logged in and active, and showcases/limelights to place in quirky status's or even advertise your lounge are some of the features of this site. It is a great experience to meet people from all around the world while sitting in your own comfort zone :) This site has come far and will go further. There is so much more to come!!! Hope to see you there... are you tempted??? I'll be waiting! xoxo
First I am not a disgruntled ex member of this site...I was recruited to come and help promote the site and act as a "Sage" which is no more than a glorified site Mod..I enjoyed the site and all the people there and was made to feel very welcome until I stopped spending money which was due to the fact that the site owner chose to get into my private life and try and drive a wedge between my G/F and myself by telling her information that she already knew. In short The site owner likes to play God and involve herself in other peoples private lives and her loyalty can be bought for very little money...So if your looking for a total drama site then this is your place only be fore warned the site owners DO read private mail and also DOES use any private information to use against members that she can find if you don't conform to what she considers to be a "Paying" member....out of a 1-10 I give this site a solid negative 10 all the way....Drama and BS abound on this site so steer clear at all costs.
This site is full of crap and lairs. They are only there for low life people that spend money if you are looking to make friends on it make sure your medical insurance is paid for as you may find a knife or 2 in your back The owners will read your personal mail sent on site as well as a few member have found a glitch in the programing that allows them to read your mail as well. SO if you don't mind anything personal you write and it doesn't matter that your information be shared this is the place for you
The thing i LOVE most about UT is that i have never ever heard them talk badly about any other sites. I have been on a few and its pretty disgusting to go into a support lounge and watch everyone talk crap about other sites,even the owner.. Bad taste. . . They welcome everyone from all other sites and even welcome them to UT. They are a young site and are working out the kinks and growing. It has a great atmosphere and its a good feeling to log into UT and just hang out and have fun. I wish them all the BEST... te quiero feo. !!. . besos papa !! :)
I love the owner's! Not only do they allow time to say hello but they also give out bling and vips to random members. They don't inflate their numbers to look big they are just what they are good people! I've been a top member of several social sites and this site by far is "Home"
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