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RudeFinder has a rating of 1.82 stars from 38 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers complaining about RudeFinder most frequently mention credit card problems. RudeFinder ranks 721st among Dating sites.

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Top Positive Review

“I am a real woman living in NC I joined this site under...”

shabba r.
11/18/14

I am a real woman living in NC I joined this site under a trial and worked for me. I met a few guys but was able to hit off with one. Idk about the other reviews about fake profiles but from the woman said the men are very real. The only thing I can think is that the people you're contacting are on a trial and it has expired and they can't respond. I recently logged back on mine after two years to messages from this past week but cannot respond due to expired account. I would udefinitely recommend

Top Critical Review

“I am thinking it is mostly a scam...”

Peyton W.
1/15/15

I am thinking it is mostly a scam... they do put a lot of spammers on there to draw guys in. But with that said, I am sure some real females do sign up. It's just a matter of finding them. Note: If you try it... do the free sign-up and then go to delete your account. When you do, there will be about 3 different offers to get lifetime membership. In the end, it is like a $9 one-time charge for lifetime.

Reviews (38)

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Thumbnail of user staciek1
4 reviews
110 helpful votes
February 6th, 2016

This site is useless and has nothing but a bunch of bots.

Thumbnail of user kenh59
0 reviews
5 helpful votes
May 16th, 2016

Ive sent loads of messages and hardly ever get replies on here. So frustrating as when you search you see so many hot chicks and then end up getting one reply for 20 or 30 messages you send. I had some good experiences on other sex sites like Hookuphangout.com and I suppose you could class tinder as a sex site when it started, but its pretty terrible now. Every female profiles says no looking for one night stand. So RF seemed like a good one to bolster my chances at getting laid every Friday. Not to be so far im afraid.

Thumbnail of user chuckn7
0 reviews
10 helpful votes
June 14th, 2016

This site is a time waster!

Thumbnail of user justint42
114 reviews
1,649 helpful votes
January 26th, 2016

Not sure if it works at all. It looks good though
I'll give it another week to try, but I don't see myself going far enough with RF. I have had 2 hot dates this month (with members I met on FlirtyDater), so I'm not in a rush at all :)

Thumbnail of user peytonw1
0 reviews
5 helpful votes
January 15th, 2015

I am thinking it is mostly a scam... they do put a lot of spammers on there to draw guys in. But with that said, I am sure some real females do sign up. It's just a matter of finding them.

Note: If you try it... do the free sign-up and then go to delete your account. When you do, there will be about 3 different offers to get lifetime membership. In the end, it is like a $9 one-time charge for lifetime.

Thumbnail of user richardp92
9 reviews
213 helpful votes
February 8th, 2016

I really like rudefinder, theyve been around for years and you can tell as the site itself is pretty much flawless and its so easy to do searches and all of that. I rejoined this rudefinder last month (along with a new site for me called flirtydater.com) after a couple of years of being away from the online dating scene (long story short, got into a relationship and it ended a few weeks ago so im back to being young, free and single lol!). Rudefinder has changed a lot and its got an app too, which im using almost every day on my iphone. Im still to meet a girl on rudefinder (met one last week on the other site I mentioned so thats given me hope!) but im sure it wont be long as I do get quite a few replies, maybe more than I did when I first used it back in 2014.

Thumbnail of user johnnyb33
0 reviews
8 helpful votes
October 18th, 2014

As always with these dating sites you seen to get all the messages winks an be favourite without even filling in your profile especially this horse $#*! site called rude finder. Com it even wants you to upgrade before you can read any of the women's profile what a load of $#*!, when you look at it with all these hot looking females do they really need to be on this site to get sex? I don't think so just to show how fake these profiles are they thought they would of catch me in their scam ha ha ha ha! Rude finder I got a brain so you can think again

Thumbnail of user jonass31
0 reviews
6 helpful votes
April 27th, 2016

I made the same experience as most other guys: This site is ok and sure better than average but nothing comes close to the two best hook up sites CasualDating4u and AFF!

Thumbnail of user willk23
0 reviews
14 helpful votes
March 22nd, 2016

If you think that after you join the site you'll insantly start flirting with other members - get down to Earth, as you won't (just like you won't on bunch of other hookup sites). But if you really want to get laid with help of a casual dating site:
1. Make sure your profile is looking attractive and doesn't sound stupid
2. Don't post pictures of your 'best friend'. You'll introduce it to her later if you're lucky enough
3. Send messages to the members. If you think you sent enough... send more!
4. Ignore model looking ladies, check their pics with Google search
5. Have yourself membership on couple other hookup/casual sites (FlirtyDater.com, AFF, HookupHangout.com, etc. - you choose)
6. Repeat 1-4

Good luck!

Thumbnail of user rickyj13
0 reviews
7 helpful votes
March 12th, 2016

I have used this site and compared to CasualDating4u, AFF, and a few other reputable Hook Up sites I think it may be harder to get laid on here. But I have not tested it long enough to make up a final opinion. For now, it seems "ok" but it did not convince me so far.

Thumbnail of user billyg11
0 reviews
3 helpful votes
January 4th, 2013

Been a pretty good response to email and there are alot of good looking women to view. Ive only got the one month plan. Thats plenty of time to do what i need to do. Then move on to the next site if needed...

Thumbnail of user cocod
0 reviews
3 helpful votes
January 7th, 2013
Thumbnail of user joshp24
0 reviews
5 helpful votes
February 9th, 2015

All the girls on their talk a lot of talk, but everybody wants to know more. Always asking to give them more about yourself but, when you fill it out in full, it's never enough. It seems real easy for women to get guys but, the women all seem to have an agenda... wanting a sugar daddy!

Thumbnail of user shabbar
0 reviews
2 helpful votes
November 18th, 2014

I am a real woman living in NC I joined this site under a trial and worked for me. I met a few guys but was able to hit off with one. Idk about the other reviews about fake profiles but from the woman said the men are very real. The only thing I can think is that the people you're contacting are on a trial and it has expired and they can't respond. I recently logged back on mine after two years to messages from this past week but cannot respond due to expired account. I would udefinitely recommend

Thumbnail of user dannyz2
0 reviews
0 helpful votes
February 22nd, 2016
Thumbnail of user nigelh19
0 reviews
5 helpful votes
February 10th, 2016

No one contact me 4 week from this site

Thumbnail of user websterl17
1 review
1 helpful vote
January 28th, 2014

I want to find my soul mate on there..

Thumbnail of user winstons23
0 reviews
5 helpful votes
February 12th, 2014

I signed up for a lifetime membership for a one time flat fee of $34. After one month of mediocre success, my "lifetime membership" was canceled by Company. Upon inquiry, they claim that they no record of my "lifetime membership". These guys are scam artists and ntotally unscrupulous. Don't give them your credit card number!

Thumbnail of user thomass80
0 reviews
12 helpful votes
October 6th, 2014

After filling out my profile, I received messages from members requesting that I add something to an empty profile. I sent messages that were never received by the members to whom they were sent. I never received any responses to any message. As a PREMIUM member, The only access to other members was to send winks, like pictures and send flurts. I requested help and was told to clear my cache or log in from a different device. I was informed the problem was at my side not theirs. Yeah thats the problem, i worked 10 years tech support and that is/reason to close a ticket would have never

Tip for consumers:
THIS SITE WAS NOT WORTH THE TIME AND MONEY. IT ONLY GAVE ME GRIEF. I HOPE YOU HAVE BETTER LUCK, YOU WILL NEED IR. I ALSO ASKED FOR A REFUND.... RIGHT... LIKE THAT WILL HAPPEN.

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Thumbnail of user joet19
0 reviews
3 helpful votes
July 23rd, 2012

The greatest ripoff site in dating. Sign up for a year then sign up for lifetime membership and all communications stop. I was so fed up that I cancelled my lifetime subscription. One gal has over 50 profiles, when reported to customers service there was no correction made. Complained over 5 times and nothing was done. Fakes and Scammers breed in the website.

Thumbnail of user darrent1
0 reviews
1 helpful vote
August 16th, 2012

T's OK for a dating site, i've used a few before and all seem the same. There are some Ok looking grils, but what I've learnt is to not try and message the really good looking girls on here, they must get so many messages from all the blokes, go for the average/below average women and you will be able to get sex.

Realistically, how many gorgeous girls are there in my area that jsut want to $#*!? I've stuck with the normal looking ones and got some action, thats what id recommend to others.

Thumbnail of user robertm130
0 reviews
10 helpful votes
Thumbnail of user scotth10
0 reviews
3 helpful votes
July 29th, 2011

I pay quite a reasonable amount of money to join this site and all i get is model girls that reply to questions and put strange answers usually involving the same answers like hows your weekend then no reply as per usual. 3 girls have the same bathroom from different areas and are identical? Some girls say there from a village and ive known the village it holds around 60 people and well never seen these women around i know everyone. Avoid!

Thumbnail of user garys28
0 reviews
2 helpful votes
September 14th, 2012

Over charged for what we recieve. No return mail. To many fake profiles. To many models just wanting a vote. I about forgot, my cc was frozen for suspicious activity...

I wish i had read all the reviews first. Every review has happened to me since ive been there, about three weeks. I just hope i can delete my i month subscription.

Thumbnail of user lewisg2
0 reviews
1 helpful vote
August 30th, 2012

I too have fallen victim to this site. I was charged an extortionate fee to sign up, conned into believing it would be a small amount per month. I am currently emailing them trying to get a refund, they have offered to reduce my subscription from 1 year to 3 months, claiming that you have the choice to pick the length of your subscription at the start, though I noticed no such thing. I have repeatedly demanded that they refund me and terminate my account but so far I've had no luck. As the other reviews state, the girls are all fakes, who mess you around, don't reply to messages and have obvious inconsistencies with their profile info. Stay away from this site!

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