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Overview

OkCupid has a rating of 2.38 stars from 1,237 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers complaining about OkCupid most frequently mention fake profiles, customer service, and phone number problems. OkCupid ranks 688th among Dating sites.

  • Service
    97
  • Value
    101
  • Quality
    98
Positive reviews (last 12 months): 16.7%
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Top Positive Review

“Great dating site to find serious love partner”

Peter L.
11/11/23

This is a great dating site to find serious love partner. Most profiles are real people. Dated several there and married one too.

Top Critical Review

“People don't respond”

George B.
1/14/24

People don't respond much on here and they want more money to have you profile shown more often when others are searching. I pause 59 for the subscription what a waist of money never again

Reviews (1,237)

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Thumbnail of user peterl119
30 reviews
48 helpful votes
November 11th, 2023

This is a great dating site to find serious love partner. Most profiles are real people. Dated several there and married one too.

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Thumbnail of user crystalachamba
1 review
0 helpful votes
November 1st, 2023

Excellent service and expert knowledge of the best company.Very helpful professional very well experienced and qualified

Thumbnail of user roberts5234
7 reviews
21 helpful votes
February 14th, 2022

OkCupid is a dating app worth checking out. For the most part I have been disappointed with my dating app experiences. I have been pleasantly surprised with the results from OkCupid. There seems to be an endless supply of genuine women interested in a relationship. After several weeks of using the app for free, I decided to become a subscriber. I have been satisfied with my decision.

Tip for consumers:
If you want genuine potential matches and not scammers and catfish, give this app a try.

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Thumbnail of user kaittayg
1 review
0 helpful votes
January 24th, 2022

5 years ago, the sweetest soul messaged me through Okcupid and we have been together ever since. Okcupid is the only dating app where I was able to meet people who didn't want to just hook up. I was able to find someone genuine who actually wanted a relationship and we never would have met without the app. I would give this app 1000 stars if I could.

Tip for consumers:
The app was very easy for me to use and pretty straightforward. You should not have much trouble navigating it. Just go in knowing what you want and only accepting those who want the same thing.

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Thumbnail of user amandaj178
1 review
20 helpful votes
February 18th, 2019

After ending a long-term relationship, I decided to give dating another try. Meeting people isn't my strong suit and most of the guys I met in person weren't right for me. OkCupid allowed me to find exactly what I was looking for. I'm now engaged after meeting a man on OkCupid after dating for a little over a year. I highly recommend. They match you very well, he and I had a 97% match!

Thumbnail of user katherinek294
1 review
2 helpful votes
August 31st, 2021

I only used the free service. Went on a few dates with guys who claimed to want to build a proper relationship but seems they would have been more suited to other apps for random one nighters style of things. But hey guys lie whatever app you use... but then a real genuine kind and funny man found me on ok cupid and literally swept me off my feet. Ok cupid gave us a match score of 92%, some of the algorithm it uses are good and some not so. I can't believe how much we have in common despite very different personalities, we compliment each other so well in every aspect. We have been inseparable since our first date, he moved in within a month, helped me to care for my dying dad in my home, has helped to support me in raising my kids, been on holiday together. We have shared every moment of joy and sadness together in the past year. May we have many more together.

Thumbnail of user mikel1176
1 review
22 helpful votes
July 8th, 2020

My name is Mike and am VERY happy to say that I have met my true love on okcupid.com in late February of 2019 Laura's daughter made her an okcupid account. At that time I had just made an account myself, I was the first person to send Laura a private message. We chatted on the site for free, for a couple of weeks, before exchanging phone numbers. We found out that we lived about 5 minutes apart but, we had a really hard time setting up our first date, due to weather, illness, and crazy work schedules. On March 12th we finally got a short meeting face to face. On March 15th, we had our first date. Okcupid gave us a 91% match but we say that it's more like 100%. On July 4th 2020 we became husband and wife. We never would have met without okcupid and it's then free messenger service. Thank you okcupid.

Thumbnail of user cathy.4
1 review
0 helpful votes
May 27th, 2022

I haven't chosen anyone from there yet. However, I think it's the best app I've ever seen, because I'm able to write endless description about myself to make sure only the relevant ones will send me a msg haha :) also happy to have a match percentage there and actually I go through this often before I reply to anyone

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Thumbnail of user matth967
1 review
0 helpful votes
July 1st, 2023

Messaged over seven female profiles get banned. I never did anything. In the past when I was on there women were rude and nasty. I deleted my account. This time I get banned for no reason.

Tip for consumers:
Worst dating App with likely fake female profiles

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Thumbnail of user paulb300
2 reviews
7 helpful votes
March 31st, 2023

I met my wife on OKcupid, so it worked for me. I think the trick is to answer their questions truthfully, beware of liars and players, and only meet those you match over 90% (my wife and I were a 99% match!)

Tip for consumers:
Use OKcupid's free service. Set your search distance to local so you don't have to travel far to meet your match.

Thumbnail of user akinolae
3 reviews
3 helpful votes
July 11th, 2019

You. An be friends with some people for years and later realise they are not friends with you. This will make them feel detached

Thumbnail of user yasira12
2 reviews
4 helpful votes
May 10th, 2019

It's good for dating but it's not show all available profile Available near by. Only few high ranking but overall experience good and reliable

Thumbnail of user chantellet1
1 review
3 helpful votes
March 16th, 2017

I want to thank okcupid. Im from South Africa met my "now" husband on okcupid. His from America. We started talking and hit it off. He came to visit me in South Africa got engaged and started applying for a visa for me. I'm married to him now and staying in the states. We are really happy and starting a family. I recommend the site you will find the right one for you.

Thank you okcupid

Thumbnail of user cranec
1 review
4 helpful votes
July 11th, 2016

I talked to several men, but only met two. The second one is now my boyfriend, and we'll be moving across the country together this month. Truly, he is the most amazing, kind, loving, handsome, patient, intelligent man I have ever met. I'm blown away with how quickly I found someone (2 months), especially someone like him. I'm very, very pleased with this service. Also, it's very easy to use. I recommend it to all my single friends.

Thumbnail of user cynthiam962
2 reviews
2 helpful votes
November 3rd, 2020

Yes, there were hundreds of duds, dudes and do-dahs. But then I met my (now) husband, so nothing but warm fuzzies from me. Back when I was dating, the site worked really well, not sure how it differs now.

Thumbnail of user karent29
12 reviews
42 helpful votes
February 12th, 2018

So I'm divorced after 20 years of marriage and starting over and moved to Arizona from Pennsylvania, no friends, alone no man. So have to start somewhere, don't want to spend money on a fixed income when I don't know what will work. Match.com kept sending me men in Pennsylvania, not Arizona when I changed everything, they charge way too much up front the whole 6 months upfront. The auto Renew is a pain to cancel with many sites. So to the point, OK Cupid in Arizona, I think is great. I've met 4 men in two weeks, one I like very much. They are professionals, all have good careers except one. I'm 63years old female, semi retired, but really young looking, very athletic, from NY, NJ, PA and now Arizona for life. This site is easy to navigate, free to search matches, free to send and receive messages, where can you do that on the web? Keep in mind that your information is being exposed and pictures to the world, so be safe. But where can you meet men or women for free, message and replies. You may find some fake men or women scam artists, just understand it's free you get what you get for free. I never found that situation. Make sure to watch behind when I'm leaving a date, maybe purchase some protection, keep it on you, if there is something weird with the person. Just give your cell phone to people you feel you can trust. I decided to pay for 1 month cost me $15.95. I turned off the auto renew subscription, so that's for 1 month only. I asked them to tell me if I did this they actually replied back to me. Customer service is pretty good when emailing them, you might have to wait a little for an answer by email or email them again. They will help you upfront, reply back with answers for you. I would recommend this site for dating just really been great for me. I do not work for this company or web, this is a totally independent current review 2/11/2018.

Thumbnail of user audrianam1
1 review
1 helpful vote
July 9th, 2021

I am extremely grateful for the promise that was delivered. This is the Truth! Fear is overwhelming in many ways, so why live with it when delivery is near. Make the move and enjoy life. It's time

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Thumbnail of user silviac19
1 review
9 helpful votes
January 10th, 2017

I never ran into any bots, just worse, men who only took me as a pretty face. After about 20 dates with men that wanted nothing meaningful I was about to give up. The last date I went on was meant to be the last I'd accept from okc. We are now getting married after 2 amazing years together. He is everything I never thought existed and everything I ever dreamed. I would have never found him if not for those 4 horrible months of juvenile dating experiences. And with any site, that's just what you accept to endure in exchange for the help. At the end of those 20 dates I found the love of my life. Give it a chance.

Thumbnail of user rachelh57
1 review
18 helpful votes
December 16th, 2015

I never really took okcupid seriously until I received a genuine message from a handsome man who wanted the same things out of life as I did. If it wasn't for this site I never would have met my boyfriend and the man who makes my heart melt. He's changed me into such a better person and has shown me what love truly is and actually makes me look forward to my future and our future together! So thank you okcupid

Thumbnail of user tonyb1023
1 review
0 helpful votes
February 9th, 2022

OKCupid ia a dating app where you meet friends and lover's. But also scammers make use of this as a means of meeting victims a to scammer out of their hard earned money,
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Thumbnail of user maryj2353
2 reviews
0 helpful votes
October 15th, 2021

Really nice website that helped me to have the most fun dates in my life.
All the guys matched my taste and interests

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Thumbnail of user dra163
2 reviews
1 helpful vote
July 11th, 2021

Good company and we are this as a company in now time Thanks for company
Thanks for management for company
Dralaa

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Good site

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Thumbnail of user wolfys
3 reviews
0 helpful votes
September 15th, 2021

This app is great for meeting people. In my free time I enjoy talking with friends that I met through this app. I have also met my girlfriend through this medium. I can only say... thank you!

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Thumbnail of user claudiaa18
1 review
2 helpful votes
February 26th, 2017

Amazing website if you are looking to settle down or dating... I found my soulmate! I met the love of my life 3 day after signing up, he messaged me and we starting dating right away. He completes me and thank you okcupid for the help!

-CA

Thumbnail of user anad67
1 review
3 helpful votes
September 15th, 2018

I met my husband on this website and fell in love immediately! We our now happily married with a beautiful family!

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