NoStringsAffair

Im comfortable using this site because I only use it on my phone (which my wife never checks) and ive used a false name as a username. I like that the profiles outside the log in area are all blurry and that theyve got confidential stamped right across the site so you know they take privacy seriously (no wonder, its the most important thing to anyone looking for an affair). As long as a site like this is discreet and safe, it will get members. I went for three months and will probably stick with it for longer when that time is up.

I've been a member of NoStringsAffair.com for about 7 months and I must say, I find this site one of the best I have ever used. I've tried VM and AshleyMadison back in the day, but NoStringsAffair.com is the site I had more luck with. There are no additional fees if you want to wipe your data off the site and it costs less.

Few tips: have your profile filled with information about yourself (show how smart and interesting you are), upload your best picture. Don't waste your time on supermodel looking ladies - 99% guarantee that they're fake. Get yourself 6 months membership, as it takes some time (and patience) to find someone willing to have a proper discreet date and if you manage to have an affair with someone within a short period of time, you'll be able to continue using the site with your subscription.

Good luck!

I had always been suspicious of my husband who would never answer direct questions about other women. He told me repeatedly that I was paranoid and that he'd never crossed the line. I tried to believe him but kept having recurring dreams where I'd catch him in the act and my dream self would slap him in the face.

After hours of trying to convince myself not to break into his e-mail, I caved in. His user name and password were saved on our computer, daring me to know what was going on. When I got into his inbox I felt like a bank robber, violating every rule of common decency.

I discovered multiple e-mail trails between my husband and women from from affair dating sites (the ones he's been using were ashleymadison.com and nostringsaffairs.com). He had invited one of them to go out hours after he told me that doesn't cheat on me. They had been flirtatious for a month.

My world fell apart. I was utterly distraught. He was my world – my friend, my only lover – and he has completely betrayed and hurt me to a degree beyond my comprehension.

You people cheating behind your spouse's back are noting more than sinners that will burn in Hell for turing their back on God and The Bible!
Stay away of these sites!

So, I signed up at about 2 a.m. Within 3 minutes, I had 5 hits from all over the country. That in itself is highly unlikely at 2 am, for an average looking guy. Then over the next few days 30 or 40 more messages, cards etc. etc. From girls less than half my age. Again, would be nice, but highly unlikely. However, because I wanted to be a believer, I clicked on their profiles and thats when I had to call it total BS. 18 year old beautiful girls interested in men between 18-55.21 year old pretty girls, looking for a guys between 21-67. Yeah right! How many hot 21 year olds are looking to hook up with a 67 year old, unless he is worth millions? I'd say NONE! I also noticed that half the girls allegedly interested in me, are from a small little city about an hour away. Unless, there is some sort of very vague and general location identifier, it is inconceivable to me that there are 10 young attractive women, in one small town, all looking to hook up with a 52 year old average looking guy, who is not sitting on the hood of a Ferrari in his pics One woman said she was looking for a guy between 50-90. Yes 90! Come on. I wish it were true, but it is totally ridiculous. I thought Ashley Madison was a joke, but this one takes the cake. The truth is, if a woman wants to hook up, she has to do little more than go to the grocery store and smile, or wink at a guy and it's a done deal, so I just can't believe that there are this many good looking young girls, looking to have an affair. Now, if this is a sugar baby website and I didn't understand that, then ok. Still don't believe it. But maybe a 21 year old, would hook up with a 52 year old, for a substantial gift.

Completely disagree with Dave. L I joined a while back and soon discovered that most of the men were NOT the same men as in their profiles, much older, much fatter and all married

I was skeptical going in but was glad to be found wrong. Chatted with quite a few women and had some, that i thought, possible matches. Went out with one woman and we had most wonderful time together.
It is all about patience guys!
Also don't get yourself fooled. Look for real looking women. Remember super models don't use dating sites (sigh)

You can tell the site has been created by women, for women just by looking at it - and that's probably why there are so many women like me:)
I'm running through divorce process right now and having a nice affair was so much needed.

I've been on the site for about two months and have met up with and had sex with one woman. It's a very slow and patient process. I'm mid 30's, in good shape, but a bit picky.
I'd say about a third of the attractive women are either fake profiles trying to get you out of the site or or sugar babies trying to get money from you. However, when you are able to meet up with someone, it can be incredible.
As a test, I have created a fake woman profile and gotten bombarded by men. For those folks complaining, take a look in the mirror and learn how to write some good copy. Women can get away with $#*! Ty one sentence messages but men have to articulate. The numbers are against you.

Ive been using this site for a couple of weeks now and I must say, it has won me over. At first I was pretty unsure about joining and didnt think it would live up to the promises. The first few days I had a couple of messages but nothing too exciting. But I kept going (I had paid so I figured, I might as well get my moneys worth) and just when I was ready to write a bad review, I got a very interesting reply from a woman in Surrey who knew her husband was cheating but stays with him for the kids. And from there things got a bit more interesting, lets just say! Anyway, Ill be sticking with the site a bit longer now and hoping my recent success will prove more than beginners luck!

Open relationships may be taboo to many, but it works perfectly for me and my wife. And we're happy with our lives being married for 12 years.
Both of us make it seem like we're having an affair to the person we're sleeping with, but we alwasy let each other know the real truth.
We're using several sites, but ashleymadison and nostringsaffair.com are the ones we use more often then other ones.
My wife is more lucky with AM (probably because there are much more men than real women, while I'm happy with nostringsaffair.
If you're having hard days in your marriage, but still want to save it, then maybe open relationship is the solution. But of course what works for one person may not work for another.

I am happily married, but my husband can't have sex after car accident, so we both came up with a solution to satisfy my sexual needs by meeting up with other men and having no obligations to turn it into something else.
I use the site for quite some time and we browse profiles there together with my husband, so I always get approval from him before I go out with someone. Maybe it sounds weird to you, but please don't judje me.

Sure, this site is far from perfect, lets be strait on that from the start. I got the usual loads of messages before I paid and then the amount dropped by a lot. But the key point I still get messages. I get replies from real married ladies and ive even had one or two contact me first in the few weeks ive been a member. So im liking the site and best thing is that its got a few safety badges and talks a lot about security so im feeling like they at least get whats MOST important here folks I dont want my goddam wife finding out im on this site trying to bang half of Manchester! Its a shame other cheating sites dont understand thats the key difference between me joining a site for married people and me joining some standard casual sex site like aff, I need that extra lair of security. Definitely would recommend this site to friends, except that wouldnt be a good idea as they might tell my wife LOL!