NoLongerLonely

I've been on this site forever. I will tell you one thing you will come across on the site with many people that will help you and listen in your time of need. I have had exchanged gifts mutely with members for various reasons. I am not telling to join the sites so you can get gifts, its the meaning behind the gift that someone cares for you. There are some shady people on NLL that are just on some negative path for sure you will discover that in time, just like any where else. It's like that old saying goes, " there is always a bad apple amongst the bunch". Nobody is perfect and the site can at times can be helpful. As for dating its really hard to find someone that is local and tons of people are all over the USA and the world. Lots of long distance and online relationships. The web master used to seem to care however now it appears he is otherwise preoccupied or overwhelmed with the site. He does not return emails to members or take users off the site that have been proved to be abusive & unsafe. He believes in second chances which are good will of faith, We all mess things up from time to time nobody is perfect. People get in disagreements and have differences it happens. However these people will be allotted years and years of chances terrorizing and traumatizing other members. I used to moderate the site for years, I was really devoted to the community of NLL it once gave me a purpose. Sadly after some time, I could not handle the mischief in chat anymore and decided not to moderate; The site it has changed for the worst and it's a free for all. Yet still I am a member because I have a family circle of member that are through hard and good times. I basically keep in contact with certain members. I am not writing this to point fingers or call names everyone has there own personal experience. I encourage you take a chance see for yourself. I highly suggest to just beware of the people whom are unstable that are not there for betterment and personal growth. I hope you will try the NLL site because there are a few and far between good caring people are still on there if your in a crisis or need to talk to people whom are also suffering from mental illness.

I think all chat sites have some element of trolls, scammers, whiners, and drama queens. NLL is just like every other site. It gets its mix. Throw in a lot of mental illness, and you can really have some interesting days... The sitemaster could do a bit more babysitting... That being said, I will say, I have been on the chat site since October of 15, and have really enjoyed this site more than any other I have been on. I am not the leper on the wall with MI in a room full of people who don't get it. This is mostly about chatting on the site. Its free, you can pick your default font, there arent sexbots popping up every so many programmed seconds, and I have met some genuinely decent people there... One in particular, when I wasnt looking for dating there, ended up being involved with... so yeah, I an NLL success story, and I am thrilled I went there... even without having run into a wonderful person that I adore romantically, I have made several friends there, skype with several, and it keeps the lonliness at bay, which is why i went there to begin with... Isolation is very tricky adversary, and it breeds depression. I use NLL to combat that, and it works. Also, the lifetime membership is a great deal! I paid for one month once to have benefits to change my name, and Oh My, it was 3 bucks... didn't break the bank!

This site worked for me in the past, I had a Long term relationship from this site. It could use more active members. Despite that, it is one of the only dating sites for people with mental illnesses.