MillionaireMatch

I am an attractive (I think? LOL) professional widow who still works as a nurse and am 56. My first attempt at a dating site was match.com and within a matter of days I was asking them to cancel the membership and remove my profile. Unfortunately, I paid the year because although I didn't expect to meet my match immediately, I felt if I was to give it a try, it was probably a good idea. Needless to say, thru the experience and the matches which were completely incompatible with me, I swore it WOULDN'T happen again! I had read reviews that recommended Millionaire that were essentially good as I expected no one is going to be 100% satisfied. It was made clear that although there are millionaire's on the site, the predominance were not but were professional people seeking like minded individuals. I wanted someone I could have a stimulating conversation with and who wasn't just about a hook up. I'm not a prude but there is plenty of time for that beyond the FIRST date?! Anyway, alot of the "likes" are coming from 35 - 40 year olds. To top it off, I got a message from what now appears to be a scam as his picture looked like a Hollywood type and his message sounded like he was applying for a job as to me, any professional 60 year old isn't going to be going on and on about being a "petroleum engineer" servicing multimillion dollar companies and then talk about an occasional night out for dinner for "Chinese or Pizza". Not that these aren't also appetizing but there was incorrect verbs and missing words and then the message ended questioning about how I feel intimately. It just sounds fake and disappointing! When I was going to respond after our 3rd or 4th message and request a face time call (as he went on and on how he wanted to meet me and my mother too) his profile expired and he didn't renew it. Something just didn't smell right! I read it to my girlfriend in TX and she said he got a very similar message on a completely different dating service! As a result, I reported the profile to Millionaire Match Customer Service and have not yet heard anything back. Lastly, I have received alot of messages from men who state their membership is expiring that very day. A financially successful individual (or Millionaire if you wish) who is really interested in someone wouldn't shed a tear over paying another month or two to extend their membership. Needless to say, I will not be extending mine and I paid $170 for 3 months! I keep telling my self "SUCKER again!" So sad for people who really hope to meet someone, particularly in the world we are in now with minimal social activity and avoidance of many "packed" public places:-( As well, a widow like me of 5 years who finally thinks she is ready and is already BURNED OUT over 2 different dating apps. DONE!

I am not a paying member and the reason I am not is bc everytime I get a smile I try to open their account only to learn it is disabled, This has not happened once or twice but about 40 times... so every 'guy' interested in me sends a smile only to be removed? I called and although the operator couldn't say why, she claimed the members are removed, so what does that tell you... FAKES! Also as a non-paying member I cannot open messages, once in awhile the odd msg can be opened and then voila, the member is disabled, the others I can't open unless I pay, So I asked the operator to do me a favour and open one or two of my unopened msgs to see if they are real members only, I didn't want any more info. I told her my joining as a paying member depended on if I can trust the 10+ msgs were real. She said she wasn't allowed to do that. So here I am, a non-paying member contacted by yet another fake today. I don't trust it is full of lonely millionaires, yes there are legit members but it is real hard to make a connection without paying and since there are so many scammers it deters people from joining.