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Overview has a consumer rating of 2 stars from 5 reviews indicating that most consumers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. also ranks 198th among Dating sites. The most common issues with are around customer service, which is not as good as expected by some customers.

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Top Positive Review


Mark T.

Ok, listen up. This is one of the very few dating websites which is legit and won't scam you. Being New Zealand-based, it subject to NZ law, including the Fair Trading Act. Yes, it is well policed/moderated, but this is to protect subscribers from being scammed or subjected to various forms of online abuse. I've had a lot of dates from this site, all interesting genuine people, and would recommend it highly.

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Top Critical Review


Ann P.

They will steal your money and disable your site. STAY AWAY! I was charged for services then my account was disabled within minutes. Why hasn't someone shut this site down! Bloody thieves.

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Reviews (5)




1 review
0 helpful votes
December 29th, 2019
They will steal your money and disable your site. STAY AWAY! I was charged for services then my account was disabled within minutes. Why hasn't someone shut this site down! Bloody thieves.
1 review
0 helpful votes
July 28th, 2018
Bloody scam. They monitor every picture and message and if you are not hot lady they will block your account.
3 reviews
14 helpful votes
August 22nd, 2014
Heavily policed site, they control and monitor photos, and all messages.

The general expectation of the women is that they play the game and get a relationship with all its trappings automatically.

There are no chilled out ladies on this site, there are the following though

(i) Gold diggers. Their husband who works at Microsoft has just kicked them out for a much younger version....their house income now has a significant shortfall.....and yes you guessed it, you're the solution to their problem.....

(ii) Fruit loops. These come on all shapes and sizes and they are likely to be attractive. Your mates eyes will water when they see them with's just you have to hide the kitchen knives everytime they come around....

(iii) Pseudo men. These are again mostly tall and attractive ladies....who have forgone their natural desires to chase a professional in their late 30s they suddenly find themselves alone and seeking a a man. Having worked in career path of men, they exhibit all the same characteristics of men. The only men that can fit into their lives are such "pull throughs" they are not attracted to them. Are you ready to be a YES man?

(iv) Desperate breeders. At a unknown age mostly around 35, something clicks in some women and they decide to have children. Its just they are single and have no one to fund this costly exercise. These ladies have one thing on their mind, reproduce NOW!. Are you ready to FUND their breeding program and of course start changing nappies and never sleep properly again forever?

(vi) "Trade downers" These ladies are extremely intelligent, well qualified and professional and often tall and attractive. They do not like to be challenged. And they like someone to run around after them. They prefer men that have no qualifications, poor grasp of the English language and have a menial job. Are you ready to be their SLAVE?



Tip for consumers: avoid it like the BLACK plague

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