I first tried Datemyage 2 years ago for the same reason everyone else does. I was ready and wanted a relationship. Creating my account was breeze and my well curated profile was up in less than 2 minutes. Whitin 5 minutes, I had at least 35 chat requests and emails. I was more than surprised. It think that's when I first noticed the designation on participants profiles that reads "Featured Member*. If you are at a lost as to what a Featured Member is or does, that's ok, I also had no idea. It turns out, that only goodlucking members get the designation of "Featured Member". If you perhaps believe that my comment is missguide and based on misandry, I invite you to check. The polarity between the Feature Members and the "others" is more than obvious. If you thought there was a chance that the guy with the extra weight but beautiful smile and fantastic attitude was going to how up to be a "Featured Member", think again. All 35 of my chat requests and emails were from "Featured Members. Not a single non Featured. I found that odd. I am a middle of the road looking woman and only the most handsome Featureds reached out? But guess what, you can talk for free to non Featured Members. For Featured Members you have to pay for every single interaction no matter however miniscule you think it is. And by the way the boys pay NOTHING. The entire expense of this quest for love will be yours, even if you miraculously find it with an actual Featured Member.
Within a couple of days the candidate pool had started to dry and one man stood out. He seemed very interested and I was getting excited and unfortunately feeling hopeful. We chatted and texted CONSTANTLY for about a month. Think about this, a month of dollar texts and $30 dollar calls. Several daily. And here I am going to take a second to explain what communicating with a Featured actually costs. On average a token costs anywhere from $0.30 to $0.55. This is what each interaction actually costs. CATEGORY COST PER ITEM
Basic Chat 1 Credit per minute
One-Way Video Chat 4 Credits perminute
Two-Way Video Chat 6 Creditsperminute
Panorama View Video Chat 24 Credits per minute
VR Video Chat 6 Credits per minute
Offline Message sending 1 Credit per item up to 160 symbols
Mobile App Message sending 1 Credit per item up to 160 symbols
Email (Love Note) 10 Credits per item
Sending/Viewing photos or videos 15 Credits per item
Sending/Listening voice messages 10 Credits per item
Sending stickers up to 20 Credits per item
Sending animated smileys 1 Credit per item
Sending Virtual gifts from 1 to ******* Credits per item
Virtual Space 200 credits per item
Items in a Virtual Space from 50 to 1000 Credits per item
Viewing video in profile 10 Credits per item
Let's Mingle 5 Credits per use
Present delivery up to 6500 Credits per item
Cost of present delivery 49 Credits per delivery So, to spend $50 dla on 150 credits buys you 50 texts(160 characters only) and 17 minutes on a two way video call. How many credits do you think you need when you're doing your part so things flourish? And you're the only one paying for calls and texts and "gifts". After about a month I brought up again the fact that I thought it was time to move platforms, I really didn't want to spend like I was and a couple of days earlier he had agreed. He kept making excuses and asking me for more time and I did capitulate for a couple of days while bleeding money I didn't have because in my idiocy and loneliness I had let him convince me that we were on a great path and things were moving forward. When I put my foot down and finally told him I was quitting the site, he didn't even want my number. He had said everything he had to say to make me have hope and lower my defenses. And I ended up loosing a lot of money to Datemyage. But I couldn't blame the app then. It was a one off by a bad man as far as I knew. But again I got lonely and I ended up there. Hoping that I would not run into that twisted person who get pleasure from inflicting pain on others... and I didn't. But the same thing happened, as if orchestrated and rehearsed. This time I decided to ask the Featured their options on the fact that they do not have to pay for the service, I asked all of them if they'd ever actually had met and had a relationship with anyone outside of the platform or why it is that the members classified as Featured can interact with anyone on the site, except oppsit sex Featured? Not a single one answerd me and they all quickly disappeared from the screen one by one. I think I now believe that this is a scam behind the fasad of a legitimate online dating app. I think Datemyage is taking advantage of the deep loneliness, sadness and need for connection the world craves at the moment. And that makes them ugly. I forgot to mention that I have looked and tried to find them but not one of the Featured Members I have looked up had ANY social presence.
This people are not only scammers but emotional vultures of the worse kind. When people are lonely and looking for human connection they make themselves vulnerable and it is absolutely evil and cruel to to purposely give people hope, only to keep them hooked on that hope so you can continue to steal their money and destroy people's dreams and desires and evaporating their self-esteem and sense of worth. Your company has personally caused me severe mental and emotional anguish from which I still
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This message is for everybody who makes comments about them. They give a damn about you. It doesn't matter what you say to them. They all reply with the same idiotic excuses or either they are stupid or do not understand English. They stay behind them 100% because they make money for the company, so no matter what you say, they are not gonna remove them because they represent money. They send pictures in an email of the popular members "free members" that are already in relationships with someone, to motivate cheating. They sent a picture of the guy that I am in a relationship with to my daughter telling her that he is interested in her and he is her perfect match. I can't believe those disgusting men with their putrid intentions and awful character would even think about ditching the site for just one woman when they can play around with multiple women! I can't even imagine the kind of videos they might be sending, maybe naked videos or engaging in cyber sex with different women. A real man of integrity would never sink so low, but those scumbags are the ones they choose. I know one of their free members that they gifted a free membership to; he mentioned that the site is full of prostitutes who send explicit photos and ask for money. This is one of the guys they support and speak badly about them. Now, on TikTok, they showcase those couples who supposedly found the love of their lives. They boast that the site is safe, no scammers, and genuine men looking for relationships. 🤣🤣 Lies, and don't you think they do, but they don't take an attitude because they will lose money. They are EVILS; he doesn't care about people's well-being. How disgusting and low these people are. I wonder how they feel if someone would send a picture of someone else to their wives and husbands telling them that this man or woman is interested in them? Those words are not from him. Those words are from the site, motivating people to talk to each other, even though one of the terms & conditions says that they don't influence relationships between members. I think they don't know the meaning of influence; they should look it up in a dictionary. They send massive emails with the title in bold letters to catch people's attention. They give them free membership because they are aware that nobody can afford to send videos/letters/voice messages and pictures, etc. Those guys have been there for years and I have proof of that. They have been there for more than 5 years having relationships with several people and everything for free while the paid members spend a lot of money on those disgusting animals, and the only goal is to make money for the company. Whoever came up with the idea of credits is the headmaster of crooks. They are disgusting human beings if you can call them human beings because for me they are the lowest people on earth. Everything that I am writing I have evidence of everything. I know these people for 6 years and I know how they operate out of Malta. We are in the US; we can't let these people run the show. They are hurting people. We need to do something about this. We can't take it for granted. I sent clear evidence about one member and there is no excuse and they are still investigating, and there is nothing to investigate; any idiot can see it. They must have been investigating how much money they are going to lose if they let this crook go. They make too much money with him. * Please don't come up with excuses that your company takes all the complaints seriously because you don't. Do not waste your time telling how good your company is because I DO NOT WANT TO HEAR! I ask everyone to help to defeat them. They cannot take advantage of people. WE ARE STRONGER TOGETHER. We need to complain to the FBI, district attorney, write a letter to TikTok, Facebook, etc. to remove them. Do not let them hurt people. We have so much suffering in this world we don't need to add on. Remove them from social media; do not let them run their deceptive advertising. Please help; do not let those sons of b**win. You know lawyers or influential people; ask for help.there are too many cases and too many are heartbroken. They are not coincidence.Thank you all for reading this and hopefully will close down their operations. ( this is not my Id) Thanks 🙏
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After fooling myself at this website for 15 months, spending over $1000 more per month, I finally QUITTED this site.
It is completely effortless and in vain to meet any future partners, at least from my experience. This site proclaimed that there are constant over 100 emails every day, Yet, not a single guy will be willing to exchange any other communication medium EXCEPT thru the platform which means more refilling and feeding the system. It is very expensive to refill for $399 for 1000 points and all guys are trying to chat with you, using all your credits. I used over 500 points over 2 days. The guys were dragging and one proclaimed to be surgeon and said that he was having anxiety for his procedure for his patient and wanted me to be with me online a few hours. I fell for the trap without thinking cautiously about this SCAM trap.
Interestingly enough, those guys proclaimed how much their loves are, and how you were their world and everything. Yet, when you suggested private connections, they all had the same reasons: being scammed prior, not a good idea, not other means, some were simply disappearing immediately, some said not enough time to understand each other (after couple months of day and night chatting, Really?) some said no other means EXCEPT this platform. They were all poets, writing beautifully with emails, even though you were asking them not to write email as it was expensive to open, they did not listen as they were only the computer bots, not a human being. They sent the emails the next day to me as if they were not listening what I told them. To prove a point, so there had REAL HUMAN INTERACTIONS.
A few guys told me that they were seriously thinking to set up private medium. I WAS EXCITED at that time. Then they said they did not know how after they promised. I explained repeatedly to them. All in vain. They ended in the same results: ALL DISAPPEARING. Obviously, dishonored their promises when they started the communication. Then, later, those guys kept SENDING EMAILS to me AGAIN. Like they did not listen what we agreed. They were NOT HUMANS.
Then, those guys can chat with you even though it was their midnight or EARLY morning. Or whatever time, they were up. How come? This is very UNREAL. I cannot say it is SCAM because it is subject to personal experience, My experience is awful.
If you are looking for pen pal, do not DARE TO TRY this PLATFORM, if you are looking for life partner, please walk away. There is NOTHING TO GAIN, BUT LOSE FROM THE BEGINNING.
This is personal experience, and I cannot wait to write and share and alert those perspective members, This is completely NOT worth your time, emotions, feelings, and MONEY because you have a HIGH probability to be disappointed. DO NOT EVER try...
I gave this site 15 months' experiment and time, that was awful.I cannot afford any more. Completely SCAM. Also, some guys just gave you the contacts by other social medium and I tried that to see test my judgement. Again, those guys are SCAMS, claiming Doctors, pilot so and so in Syria, peace keeping mission, and asking for money, some are from Ukraine when the Profile said they were in Washington. OH my God. The list is very long and please WALK. Away. To do yourself a favor.!
Thank you for this sharing this honest reviews. I am a very education person with high integrity. Again, this is only personal experience, having no intention of giving out fake and derogatory comments. Thank you for your understanding.
Please RETHINK again...! Do yourself a favor... Run..
I am very honest and completely want to share my experience with others so that no one like me fooling at the DateMyAge site. SCAM ALERT
I started to create an account today with this website, thinking it was a regular social site. I decided to do a Google search after seeing a lot of international responders. What I found on Google was not good at all! I contacted datemyage and was told after voicing my concern about the accusations of deceptive charges and credit card abuse and they claimed that they were being meligned by competitors and that they are a legitimate honest company who does not assess fraudulent fees and charges. So I gave them the benefit of the doubt and paid the $19.99 membership fee. Except it's not a fee for a membership it's a Crazy Draw Down Scheme, whereby they charge you everytime you reply to someone,or read a note or watch someones video, or breathe! So If you are signing up thinking that this is like a normal dating or meeting website it's not, they are crooks, modern day pimps who are capitalizing on the fact that there are lonely Seniors out there some who simply want someonto talk to. I am a Health Care Professional who is concerned about the reoort of the amount of lonely Seniors out there, post pandemic, I also wanted to make some new friends as my occupation affords me very little free or personal time, so I researched a bit to determine a viable site catering to Seniors, and looking to accomplish both of my objectives, this was an epic wrong turn. I called the company and a very rude British boy! Was belligerant from the moment he answered the call. Date My Age is nothing short of a low grade pyramid scam, Even though I was amazed at the large amount of people who sent me messages, I immediately cancelled my account. The Level of DECEPTION by this website is SHAMEFUL!
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GAMBLING site the dating site with credit. Addictive. When your credit goes they bring in a whole lot new messages quotes from what they perceive your type is. So you will buy more credit and spend. Today 8.10 pm saw email hotti.com open sent 14th. From Valentino. He was from the other site. Open to my horror above it,it read sensual chat service which re enforced my horror. Omg I thought why have they done this. This is like for sex talk. I'm not like this. I don't want to be viewed this way. ID *******0031 my ID name there and in interest box and another box. Looks just created. The guy was forward I look beautiful in profile. I went to profile and it's new copied from the other site yet no info. This is how the others where created. I panicked went into settings manage account delete. Password asked. I out in other accounts one has they use same one for all of them. Give reasons why I want it deleted. I tick others has true reason n box was not there. Click bottom box confirm. After a pause it went to another page and on top it popped up in red. You are not authorized to do this. 8.28pm settings again and white blank screen on top blocking me from accessing my settings to remove it. 8.29pm because I had to go off that page and go back using Valentino link by this time they kept putting a big box up stopping me it told me to put email address and password in to sign in or use Google to sign in. I wouldn't do that. Because they can say I signed up to it. 14th 8.16 pm Valentino responded. I went to bottom of that email cancellation policy *******@hotti.com and livesupport which didn't open or work. 8.41 pm sent email to *******@hitti.com asking them to remove that account and few words notice at bottom said can take 72 hrs. I bet they may delete my others site date my age where iv made links. I also spotted yesterday online a link to muslima.com which should be a religious marriage site it stated that it was a site for Arab married men to have affairs I was so appaulled. Where does a women of my kind go. This site linked to all the others and it's not run in any religious or decent format. It allows men to approach decent women and ask for sex and be offensive sexually if a women does not wish to consider a man for marriages. The site also allows men to make false allegations of a women without any evidence the site will block the profile till the women ticks a box stating she won't do any of the list of things she has not done. When I tried to speak to the site after and ask for evidence has you can only message on their site. Messages are saved. That site refused to comply. I told another site members to contact me on muslima site so we could converse soon has I went on muslima 30 mins later I was blocked. So I believed muslima did it made up the allegation has I did this before and muslima acted exactly the same way. We need some decent ligit dating marriage sites on. Iv thought about it. If I had the skill I would set it up low profit and volunteer based. I could organize it myself with the skill. Infact I will look into it. If someone else could do it. I would roll in volunteers. They are a corrupt organisation. Using women form of pimping. My reputation which has been unproachable is getting damaged. My profile states decent so why would they put it in a sensual hotti chat. Disgusting behaviour from a professional dating site management.
I wouldn't fund a site that is just about profit making ripping people off as it's expensive. Imagine a slot machine where you keep putting in ten pence pieces all day that's how your money goes here. They have their ways scamming your money. Avoid it if your not hooked. It is like an addiction because you want to believe some profiles are real. But many keep coming back with the exact same messages. Exactly which don't seem right . Now they put credit details on before they didn't . Read print
Panicked to get my profile removed from hotti.com I even sent in email but they seemed to have either let one go or blocked it from going through. I don't have much choice about muslima and datemyage there is nothing else. . The men are either idiots and can't read the whole profile or the site is blocking what the men can and can't see. Because I wrote no credit not lieing can't read emails or answer back and most guys complain I won't reply back . Some of these have to be the site trying to get my money so I reply back . When a man comes on showing a child is a widow and another stating is it because he's a single father . I had really good prospects on that site it would made my life easier the other option my life would of been much harder. I don't want that . Just over that sites profit my life could end up hard and I could suffer more . If I had paid a third time my credit would of gone by the long list of message the site accumulates to drain ones credit. Emails 15. Msg are 10. One way conversation per min is 6. 8 for two way. But they don't allow one way lots times and I can never hear them . They allow random pop ups on your phone without any consent or warning or sound. I am very uncomfortable with how the sites are run and looking for an answer to get some normality and start speaking on the phone has this site dangerously encourages you to meet without knowing each other. If your worried about money running out while your conversing with someone how is that going to work . This site gets us to inform does it actually do something about it. Is it at all run by the same organisations that we complain about? Wouldn't datemyage keep an eye on its reviews. Most people stop their complaints here. If anything iv done free labour work for these sites . It takes all your time up. Slave labour. What did I get out of it. No real contact. All the men assumed I was chatting to men. No not any chats. Just read messages. Profiles that's it.