Months ago, I had been wanting to grow more in my relationship with Jesus and agreed to be discipled by an Asian couple at my church; A few days ago they had suggested I try looking INTERNATIONALLY, specifically for a Filipina lady, as they have had good experiences with such people in the past. That night, I was conflicted about that specifically having had so much failure trying to date locally in my city since 2016 with not even as much as a real conversation-- So I go home that night, I had never truly considered searching through people internationally before; but that night I decided to truly give it an honest try-- I had searched up some words into youtube, that I have never searched before including an international focus; and https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FA_mY_VXdJE is what came up, that I decided to try watching, and he literally lists Christian Filipina first, so I took that as a good direction to go; given the intimate conversations which had transpired just hours since then.
So I get on, and pay for the 3 month membership without having verified my profile yet, and get to writing; I find two nice ladies, and leave it alone. The next day I am requested to have a call with Jona where I am convinced to do a 1 year term instead to which I accept, she had a very bright attitude and told me I would be getting a councilor to speak with; to help me learn cultural differences and listen to my story so far. I have been historically very antisocial, and have been utterly burnt out from trying this whole thing on my own for so long, and having overwhelming rejection and failure and it was just so uplifting to be able to say my piece and that someone actually listened to me, processed it, and had conversation (Thank you Karen).
I'm hoping God will open doors and give green lights for the lady whom i've already met; but if it be someone else then so be it.
For no other dating service would I have ever gone to such effort to even make a presentable story for you, and everyone else to see. This one is built different, and the only fear and hurdle you will have is an international flight in the future (which is no small fear), If God also leads you here; pray for a peace which in he will take care of you, because if you ask he will, and you can take that promise to the bank. God bless.
Verify your account first before trying to pay for anything, email click and 2 photos, and an actual bio, have it centered around God, maybe tell a synopsis of how you got where you are?
Ladies with 1 photo are not likely to be people you would want to message; try finding people with bios that are actually meaningful in some way and have a handful or more pics.
To start…Rodelyn at CP asked me to post a review about Rob and Pinky's experience on CP. I am 48…I dated and married a Filipina from Chicago back in 1996. This included 5 years of dating and 25 years of marriage…unfortunately I had been contemplating divorce for at least the past 20 years based on having no relationship with her that was meaningful, just roommates. We just recently divorced and will be finalizing early next year. So there were times of infidelity by me in the relationship since that part of the relationship with my soon to be ex did not exist. I felt very alone in the relationship, but wanted to make sure I was there for my only daughter until she went to college. I had tried a number of websites in the past that were nothing but sexual hookup sites…that is until I found Christian Filipina. After the first two days on the site I had hundreds of winks and many messages from Filipina women that just wanted a better life. I chatted with four or five, and then one or two women for a couple days pretty regularly until I realized after day 2 that I had met someone truly special and I wanted to find out if it was meant to be. Pinky immediately made me feel amazed just by her honesty, respect for god and self, sense of humor, importance of family and both of us wanted to spend every minute of every day chatting and video calling one another. I remember she told me before the first video chat that she was not very pretty but that she had a good heart. She is 39 and I am 48 years old, and I asked her if the age gap made a difference to her…she told me it did not and that I was perfect. I remember the first time the video chat started with Pinky and we saw each other for the first time I was absolutely shocked by how beautiful and happy she was…and we enjoyed talking on the video with one another and wanted to know everything about each other. Other than the birth of my daughter, there is no other time I'd been happier than just chatting online or video calling with Pinky. There are 14 hours time difference between Houston and Hong Kong where she and her younger sister work taking care of an elderly retired football player. I remember the fourth day on November 20th I was lying in bed chatting with Pinky and some of the things we talked about were just so deep and thoughtful…I typed the words "Will You Marry Me". She responded in a few seconds and said "pssst I say yes…hehehe". I lied in bed and didn't look at my phone again for about five minutes while my heart was pounding harder than it ever did before with the realization that mine and Pinky's lives would be changed forever and ever and that we were destined to be together forever. When we said yea to each other, she told me she was one of 5 sisters and one brother and were from Dagupan NW of Manila. She asked me to meet and speak with her elder sister Imelda. I was a little bit nervous but agreed and called Imelda on FB messenger. Imelda has a good head on her shoulders and I respect her a lot. She thought Pinky and I were crazy at first but I explained to her…I have been planning what I wanted to do with the right person for 25 years; Pinky had many sexual relationships with boyfriends over the past 20 years but never got pregnant and never married. So by both of us definitely knowing what we don't want we were able to know by deep thoughtful honest conversation with each other what we did want…and we are a perfect match. I told her that I would never plan on having sex with Pinky…because we would make love instead. When I got off the phone with Imelda, I could tell that she could tell I was serious, but who in their right mind would entirely trust my intentions after 4 days of knowing each other. Well, it was at this point when I became FB friends with Pinky, sister Imelda, sister Sheila, sister Flor and sister in law Joan who lives in Dubai with Pinky's only brother. Over the last few weeks, we have gotten to know one another via searching each other's FB profiles, talking on video and chatting on FB Messenger. For Pinky she was very happy and proud I was developing a good relationship especially with Imelda and Sheila. I challenged them to ask me questions, any question, and we have had a lot of good chats with total honesty. I went to Las Vegas from Dec 1st thru 6th…it was during this trip that I decided to formally propose to Pinky. I went to the ring store and recorded myself for about five minutes speaking with the employees helping me…I then selected a simple elegant 1 carat Diamond with white gold ring…the Diamond is almost flawless. Simple and elegant…just like my babe who will make the ring look good, not visa versa. Saturday morning when she hot up on Dec 4th I sent her the video, pictures of me at the store, and then a picture of the most beautiful Diamond you'll ever see…and I professed my love for her emotionally and honestly. She told me yes again and cried tears of joy. Imelda messaged me and called me with tears of joy as well…and was the first time she called me Kuya and I now call her Ate. Pinky is the most perfect person I could ever imagine myself with and the way she looks at me makes my heart beat fast and we want each other in every way. I continue to talk about cooking, have cooking competitions, sing karaoke videos to her, and learn as much Tagalog as possible before I sing an original song to Pjnky at our wedding next November or December in the Phillipines. Pinky…asawa ko, Mahal kita magpakailanman, Magusta Ka, Guapa. I am definitely getting more simple and we are each other's everything moving forward with our life together. Thank you CP…you are definitely the vessel that allowed Pinky and I to meet each other…it was destiny and we are truly meant to be.
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Prior to providing my review for Christian Filipina (CF), I decided to read some of the other reviews that were posted. Based upon what I read, I decided to provide you post and a summary of my experiences with CF.
1. I am an I. T. professional and I fully understand the issues that occur and make it difficult to communicate with someone physically located in another country somewhere on this planet. To be fair, the communication bandwidth issue is not CF responsibility. That is the responsibility of you the client and the Filipina. CF cannot control that. Not every country is going to have the same network protocols in place to accommodate our communication with each other; and don't forget the geographical location and configuration.
2. This pandemic and quarantine have driven a lot of individuals to be online for various reasons. Because of this there has been a fast increase in cyber fraud and scamming. CF is no different that any other company during this time. Human beings have been figuring out ways to take advantage of other human being since the beginning of time, and now is no different. Instead of being robbed on the road to Damascus the surprise attack takes place in cyber space.
3. For me, this is my pandemic/quarantine has forced me to try online for this new chapter in my life. I was very dishearten from my previous experiences with two prior online sites. When I came across CF, pleasantly surprised because their foundation for business is rooted in Christ. So, I signed up. I was surprised to receive a phone call to assist me with taking full advantage of the website and all it has to offer. Yes, it was more than I anticipated to spend, and it was a leap of faith for me to sign up for the one-year package and program. So far, I do not regret the decision. I am very pleased and happy that I did. Because of my background, I can navigate around the website, and take advantage of all the features.
4. I love the 24/7 support. In my opinion, it is right up there with AMEX, BOA, and the "Big" companies. I have called them many times, and someone is always available and answers the phone. Not so with these other online dating services. If the service or question I have can not be answered, they are truthful and always schedules a follow with a knowledgeable individual at the time agreed. I have never experienced CF not following up and I have called at different time of the day. If they miss me, they leave a voicemail and follow up with an email letting me know how to reach them based upon my schedule. In Summary – Awesome Customer Service. Top Notch!
5. When it comes to the Filipinas, who have posted profiles, my experience has been enjoyable and nice. I am a Believer in Jesus Christ and that is the main reason I signed up. All the Filipinas I have encountered have been "real" and have responded back in some fashion. Now, are there "fake" profiles out there? You better believe it. In my opinion, no online dating site can monitor and police all profiles. I must do my due diligence and "weed" them out. I have been able to figure out fake, potential, and real profiles from each other. I am not going to list my technique here because this is public.
6. I do agree that it is important to video chat each candidate to verify that a) they are real, b) they look like they picture. This could be a cultural or age "thing." I do believe the "age" of the Filipina does play a role in this. To be honest, I experienced the same thing on some of the other online dating sites as well. They majority of women, worldwide, know that men are visual and visually stimulated. So, it is possible that they may believe that to get a male to "stop" and read their profile, they will have to appeal to their visual sensory perception. So, always request a video chat.
7. I am going to close with this. I am enjoying my experience with Christian Filipina and I am glad I had the decision to join. The services offer to me have been just excellent and first class. All the Filipinas I have viewed and chatted with are Christians. That is very important to me. No business id perfect, but CF is doing an excellent job providing Christ based environment for Christians to meet each other. Thank you maintaining integrity and honesty during a time like this.
Hi. I joined in 2014 and agree that it is a little expensive. I spoke with over 50 women, the last becoming my wife.
I had alot of expectations about my wife after talking everyday and night on Skype. We met several months later in Manila. And decided to marry then. After returning home to the U.S., it took about 8 months to process the Visa application to bring her here. After 1 month, I realized I made a BIG MISTAKE. She was NOTHING like the woman I had talked to and later met.
Firstly, we were "unequally yoked". She gave the appearance of being a Christian and even said the things which led me to believe she was. But I was blinded by my attraction to her and we were not compatible.
Also, she was bipolar and a manic depressive. Her anger and temper were unlike anything I ever saw.
She told me she was crazy and wanted to die several times. She wanted to go home after a month of being here. I talked her into staying and regret doing that to this day. We got pregnant which was an unwanted thing. She was terrified of becoming a parent and so was I.
I have to say our son is handsome and very special. I love him dearly. Unfortunately, I cannot say that about his mom. We quarrel often and I am a victim of " TAMPO" whenever she is angry. Which is very often.
I pray continuesly for her salvation.
I am emotionally, physically and mentally drained after almost 4 years of marriage. My health is failing from stress and don't think I can stay in an abusive marriage much longer.
My main reason to post a comment here is to WARN those looking for a spouse on here or any Philippine dating site for that matter. Alot of these women, girls are seeking a relationship for many different reasons. Most will become "old maids" if they don't marry before 30. So they are at times desperate to prove something to their peers and immediate family.
I IMPLURE you to TAKE YOUR TIME, PRAY and seek advise from your pastors and close dependable friends. I unfortunately did NOT do that and am reaping what I have sown.
IF, and I mean IF, you think you have found a soulmate, DO NOT rush into a marriage without REALLY spending time getting to know the person and THEN and ONLY THEN, PRAY WITHOUT CEASING and WAIT for the LORD to speak to your heart to CONFIRM if this is HIS WILL FOR YOUR LIFE. I did not do this and am deeply sorry for what I am in now. God bless you all and TRUST IN THE LORD FOR EVERYTHING! :)