ChnLove

It looks good so far but I am taking one step at a time. Online dating is tricky but this website has made it authentic with a huge database of profiles. I am in hurry and taking my time to look around and be sure before making the first move."

I have now been with Qpid - ChnLove and their other subsidiaries for 11 weeks. Spent around $6000 had contact with over 20 ladies. They are all lovely. Problem is that the site severely RESTRICTS the contact with these ladies. ALL contact has to be through them. ALL attempts to communicate directly with the ladies is expertly blocked. This means that you if you want to continue you have to pay around $7 for every message you send them AND $7 for every message they send you (the guy pays both ways). You can also do Live Chat at $1 a minute. Problem I found is their timer is incorrect. I have carefully TIMED the call on several occasions (with an iPhone digital stop watch) and stay below the time allocations and then get charged for a longer period. I have complained about this several times and they don't address this issue. They just quote the time shown in their system which is correct, but they don't address the fact I was charged MORE than the time shown.

I managed to arrange for one of the ladies to visit me after dozens of communications (hundreds of dollars spent). A few hours before she was due to arrive she sends me an email (another $7) to say she decided to have friend meet her because he was going to give her a birthday party and didn't want me to meet her after all. The question remains, was this all a set up? Was she real? Was she who she said she was? For all those weeks I was "the ants pants" she loved me, she couldn't wait for us to meet, all this was bull.

Why would she do that? Heaven knows I don't.

I also have another lady who was also coming. She says she has her visa and was ready to book but her girl friend went to hospital with pneumonia. Each time I inquire (more money) she says she is getting worse. This has been going on for two weeks. Is it real or just another string-along.

Do these women get a commission on every email I send or receive, BTW, it costs $7 for a photo and $14 for a short 15 second video (that they censor) and $7 a minute if you want to talk with them on the phone. Needless to say I only use the email and Live Chat. Apart from all that they censor your words or phases, even the phrase "make love" gets blocked with ***** instead.

Why do I stay? Because the ladies they have on their site are the best you will find anywhere (that is if they are real). In another 9 days my 90 days will have elapsed. That means I can then request the contact details from a lady providing there has been a minimum of 10 emails between us in both directions AND the lady agrees for her contacts to be given. Time will tell if this happens. I see in some online reports that this doesn't happen.

Finally, the ladies pay NOTHING and they wonder why I can't be sending them email twice or three times a day. So, I have to KEEP explaining the enormous cost which makes me sound like a cheap-skate. Three of the ladies offered to pay for some of the CREDITS I pay almost daily but the company would NOT allow it.

Trevor

I have been to a number of dating website and after due consideration, I decided to sign up with this site, even though my friend literarily forced me into doing so. In so many ways, I think this one stands out from the others. There are more pretty girls here than I have seen on the others dating websites and chatting with them is fun. I only problem with this one is that it is on the high side of pricing and I hope the site administrators will see the need to come together and review their price regime.

I have been registered on this site for almost a year. Have communicated with some ladies but will not commit because of the high prices and well lets face it, this is the Internet so is this a scam?

I was lucky as followed the normal dream of a Chinese woman but after 8 or so EMf I went to the Shandong agent for chn love and after some disappointment of ladies selected, the agent found me the most suitable woman for me in China and we are now getting married in Qingdao, (Sydney Of China) Shandong

I landed on chnlove after hearing about it from a friend.He was meeting and dating Chinese girls and now, so am I. I recommend it to everyone who is looking for real profiles and a huge number of options. Chinese beauties on this website respond quickly and are nice to talk to.

This is a speeding dating site and most of the members want to have a long term relationship, not just ONS or fool around. People should take online dating more seriously because it can go somewhere.

Hated it, just like charmdate.com, got all kinds of letters from ladies who never met any basic requirements, go elsewhere for real ladies.

I think this site is ok, not that terrible as what others complained, but no good enough. The services charge too much. So I would not be impulsive to use the services until I meet the lady I really want!

Online dating was never this exciting. I have met some real ladies on this site and I am looking forward to a happy ending with my special someone.The women on this website are quick with responses.The attention I have got here has made me so happy and confident.

This site is a Chinese dating website and you can find so many beautiful Chinese girls on it. It is users friendly and so many services on it. But one thing should be careful: usually some trap on this type of website, just keep them away, the others are ok.

I work odd hours and other sites just don't cater to my needs like this one does. No matter what time of day I have free time whether it be at 3am or 3pm there are always people online that are happy to talk. Maybe it's because the different time zones. The freedom to connect up anytime of the day is what has kept me coming back.

I joined earlier this year and it is so much better than I could have imagined. It is amazing how easy it is to connect with people on site and just start chatting. I have enjoyed it so much that I have even started using the app too.

OMG. I wish i have read these Reviews before i dropped more than 50 to 70 k here on chatting and sending gifts. I have been chatting with 1 laddie here for more than 15 months but have been chatting with at least 8 or 9 laddies for awhile until i narrowed it down to 1 laddie i have never seen in my life. 4 times we were to meet and something always came up always. One more thing for sure is you are not always chatting with your laddie i know that is 100% true unless she has the IQ of a house plant and the memory of a rock. I was always telling her the same thing. OMG i was and am so naive these laddie s are so smokin hot you want to believe it. Thing is you have to spend time and allot of cash to maybe you get to see her. I do very well so the money i spent kept me out of the party scene for over a year so i saved money is the way i look at it. But i would love to meet the 2 laddie s that i have been chatting with for so very long. I do not know what will happen but i can tell you this 2 of the laddie s i sent gifts to i told them to take picture of them holding the gifts. I yet to receive those photos. I do not think they get all the gifts i send. I think the translator gets them no $#*! that is the truth that hurts but believe it. Sad to say that but why cannot i get photo of them holding the Gift. $#*! this sucks but i laugh now. John

I was pleasantly surprised to find that the site includes all women from a variety of Asian backgrounds, and not limited to solely these Asian backgrounds but a wide variety of Asian cultures.

Chnlove used to be reputable, using the internet to get local marriage agencies together and give a channel out to the west. But now it's a cash cow sucking the credits and cash out of you. I'm sure there are many true ladies there BUT it's mostly agents answering the Live Chats. How to spot them? 1- If you find a lady you like, wait to start your chat and look at her profile at random times over a few days. If she's always online, agents on various shifts are waiting to chat in her behalf. 2- If you think you are chatting to an agent, ask something about a previous chat, like "remember what I asked you last weekend?" an agent isn't going to remember or wasn't on that shift, an excited lady having a real conversation would know. 3- Real ladies could lose membership giving out email/WeChat/QQ addresses, so may decline, but if they say they don't use them, that's BS all Chinese ladies love social media. 4- Chinese ladies would never make adult themed comments within the first couple of minutes of a new chat, agents will talk sexy to get you excited and burning up your credits.
If you are reading this, please pass on these tips to other review sites, we got to stop these rip offs and get back to how it was

Why not? This is the very first question I ask myself when I went to chnlove for the first time. I tired lot of ways to find my true one more than you can think, but still failed. But I don't give up. Now I got a Chinese girlfriend, thanks to chnlove. I do think that there's something between us and it is called ture love. Just give it a chance.

It's really simple guys, if you're desperate enough and dumb enough to spend hundreds of dollars messaging some girl you've never met you will get scammed. The site is not a scam, but there are scammers using the site and scammers can smell desperate like flies on $#*!. Just use your brains it's not difficult, if you can't get a girl in your own country and you believe that you can go on a website and find an attractive young chinese girl that's way out of your league you deserve to be scammed and you 100% will be because you're exactly the moron scammers love. The site has real girls on it, interested in meeting real guys, but if they're out of your league in your own country then guess what, they're out of your league in China. If you're some sad lonely guy that just wants an easy out of your league asian wife go to Thailand or Laos and buy a poor bar girl, because China will eat you alive, spit you out then look for the next dumbarse to rip off. Just stop thinking with your $#*! and think with your logic for 2 seconds, this is a country where for decades female fetus were aborted, the country is awash in single men and every girl has her pick of hundreds of single guys per girl, half of them with a lot more money than you no matter how rich you are in your home country. Just use your brains seriously. I speak as a westerner who lives in China and everytime some dumb westerner starts asking me where he can pick up hot chinese girls and he's about as attractive as Rowan Atkinson I steer them straight to the local scam girls who usually buy me free drinks for helping point so many morons in their direction. The subject of guys crying about getting ripped off by chinese girls or dating agencies is an embarassement to those of us who live here and actually have a brain. To put it in some perspective for you I signed up for a chnlove account and had over 150 admirer emails in a few days, out of those 1, yes 1, was legit the rest were fake. The thing is though the fakes were so bloody obvious that if you're getting scammed by them you deserve it. Moral of the story is chnlove is a good site and you will meet some nice girls on there if you think with your head not your $#*!, if you're desperate and dateless in your own country you're a target, try Thailand

I have asked the lady who I was planning to get married three times to tell me if she has received my letter that I sent directly to her, because it cost me $66.00 to get her address and I want to know if she got my letter. But she has not written me back on my address or email. Also I required the interpreter to ask My lady to tell me if she has received them or not, but they have not returned to me. So I asked the customer care team to look into this matter for me. With their help, everything was ok and I withdrew my complaint with the interpreter later. I found out sometimes my lady forgets to answer all the questions and the interpreter also sometimes forgets to put in the letter to her. One thing I do know we all sometime forget, so everything is ok, I think the site is helpful.

In the past when I hear people talk about online dating, my novice mind will tend to equate it to a one-night stand little did I know it was nothing different from a physical relationship. I met this lady and we dated for months. It wasn't all rosy. We quarelled sometimes too but because of the closeness and affe

ChnLove is an Internet "Dating" site that is primarily used by a multitude of matchmaker agencies in China. Like any business, the agencies are in it to make money. ChnLove has little to no control over how a given agency uses (or abuses) the site.

My observations are based on personal experience, both with using the site, and with visiting China and meeting some ladies from the site there.

The agencies make money in a few ways: 1) the women who come to them to find a western husband pay them to "represent" them; 2) they receive a cut of the fees that the men pay to send an EMF letter, watch a video, have a "live chat", and so on; 3) from providing a translator should a man decide to visit China and meet one or more of the ladies he's "met" online.

There's a couple things guys should be aware of when using ChnLove.
1) Some (not all) of the profile are completely fake. The agencies post profiles of super-hot women to reel in the men, then do a bait and switch. If she looks too good to be true, she's probably a fake. One caveat - almost ALL the women look exceptionally good because the agencies are extremely good with Photoshop.

2) Chances are slim that you're actually corresponding with the lady when you exchange EMF mail; probably the same holds true if you spring for a "chat". A good sign that you're being played is if the woman rarely or never answers pointed questions, or keeps making excuses not to exchange information for direct contact.

3) If you are fortunate enough to communicate with a real woman that you're interested in, and decide to go visit her, hire your own translator! The agencies will try to charge 2 - 3 times the going rate for translation services. You can search out translation services for their city on the Internet.

4) I wouldn't suggest going to China exclusively to meet the "woman of your dreams" that you met on ChnLove unless 1) you've had video chats with her apart from ChnLove; 2) you'll already be in China for other reasons, or 3) you plan to meet several women and are ok with chalking the whole trip up as a "travel experience". I did travel to China and met several women I'd met on ChnLove and had had video chats with. All in all, the experience was fine.

5) Be aware that many Chinese women, especially those with kid(s) under 18 are seeking our a western man who will become their ticket to a better life. She may well be willing to get a job and work, but her main goal is a better life for the kid(s) - not necessarily an undying love for the guy. One thing I've done to try and discern this is to suggest that we could live in China, instead of the USA. This helped he weed out a couple ladies.

BYW, I did marry a great Chinese lady that I met through a different site. It hasn't been a cake walk - there's a lot of cultural stuff to sift through, in addition to all the other challenges of a marriage relationship. But she's definitely a keeper!

Good luck to everyone.

I have been a member of Chnlove.com for so many years in search of a nice lady to marry. My feeling towards this dating giant is not bad, but still not good enough. The good thing is there are so many beautiful ladies of different kinds to browse for free, but the services to communicate with them cost too much, and it is not allowed to exchange contact information. Hope there will be an improvement.

I like to date Chinese women via Qpid app, for it is more convenient and direct than web. The only thing that bothers me is that the services cost too much. Hope there will be a change in the near future.