ChnLove

I am verry amused when i see positiv comments about chinalove, and want to ask a simple question, did you get direct in touch with her? I am sure you will say no, i had hundred of admirers many told me they have a Ferrari in garage, if such a women send you a admirer mail just tell her to pay the compagny the money they need to gave her your email adress, then will come excuses, and if you want to see the ID of the women they will send you a picture with a women with a paper with her chinalove code, i have beein also to ukraine a amazing country, but didnt see on the street the beauties from the datting site, when i want to meet her personally, she told me i have to pay someone to translate with 150$ for half a hour a conversation, suddendly sh forgot english, we are growing mens, i am a kind of men who learn my mistakes, my stupidity cost me about 4000$, my advice look every day in the mirror and ask yourself why i young beautiful lady has choose you.

Have spent a fortune and found 3, in chatting with women on here.ok I found 3 but when i paid for their details I never received a reply, The women concerned assured me that their details were correct but letters between us clocked up more and more money until i finally gave up. One did reply but insisted that we continue to use the site to translate and then changed her e-mail address, I get the impression that the women may be on commission on the chat and so encourage communication. Its a very expensive way of saying ' i love you' I now use wechat
Jim brown

I have been on the site for over a year now, and although I finally met a nice lady, most are not genuine. They will string you along with sexy talk, promises to meet, missed appointments etc. for as long as possible. I cannot prove it, but I suspect many are getting a commission from ChnLove to get you to spend as much as possible. They have no intention of meeting anyone.
Lady 1. Agreed to meet me in China, then when I arrived she told me she was in hospital for a stomach operation Never heard from her again.
Lady 2. Corresponded for 3 months, paid for her private email address, then told me her daughter was in a car accident and couldn't continue.
Lady 3. Corresponded for 3 months, went to China to meet her. Couldn't speak English and photos were 20 years out of date. I had phoned her but apparently I was talking to her friend - not her.
Lady 4. Corresponded for 3 months. She was travelling to my country so agreed to meet at Airport at arrival time. No show. Received email to say in a car accident on the way to airport? No further email.
Lady 5. Corresponded for 3 months. All going well until I asked for updated photos. Profile said 52kg no children. When I questioned this she changed it to 65kg and 3 children. How do you forget you had 3 children?
Lady 6. Corresponded for 2 months, paid for her private email address. Wrote 2 emails to ensue it was working ok. Agreed to meet in Hong Kong. Then she disappeared.
Lady 7. Lovely person. Real, genuine, spent time with her. Planning our future together.
Maybe I am a slow learner, but I got there in the end.

I have been using Asiame website for over 2 years, since when is was ChnLove website.

My experience on this website is that there are many both real Chinese women really look for life-partners & dishonest scammers that are only interested to cheat lots of your money.

However, Asiame website really charge a lot of money from its users, so if you are not careful & lack self-control in its usage, you will waste lots of money without gaining anything...

To begin with, before you even want to use this website to look for life-partner, you really MUST ask yourself honestly on whether this website really suit you in the very first place, before you even use it for your objective:

Firstly, the ladies from Asiame are not from your countries, like the Chinese ladies are nearly all in China. So to meet them, you either have to go to China & spend many days in there to spends lots of money & time to meet them, or you try to get your interested Chinese ladies from China to come to your country to meet you.

If you are struggling to earn your living, can't afford to sacrifice your job career & have little sources of incomes, well, BETTER, don't even get try to go to China to spend many days in there, just to look for such Chinese ladies as wives, unless you really want to get yourself financially broke...

Secondly, most of the Chinese ladies in Asiame are believed to have rather high demands for their husband due to their high educational backgrounds & high income earnings, when you look at their profiles in the Asiame website.

So, if you are lowly educated, have poor income earning powers, have little money, old & sick, BETTER don't look for such women as wives in the first place.

Thirdly, Cultural barriers really can be bad & hinder any lasting romance to take place, as well as, ruin marriage later.

So, before, you want to get involve with any women in Asiame website & such women come from different cultures as you are, you really have to ask your self honestly on whether yourself, your family, relatives, friends, working place colleagues & even your surrounding neighbours are able to accept & embrace woman from another race to be your wife & from another totally different culture in the first place.

Also, are you able to accept & embrace the cultural difference & thinking differences of this lady from another country & you change according as what she & her family want from you, but not the other way round.

If the answers are all NO from you honestly, better as well drop the whole idea of looking for wife in China, or any Asian nations. Then you better as well join the local match agencies & dating groups near your home, or in your state that cater for men to look for wives within their own hometown, or state.

KarmaThis site is a waste of money, the girls are VERY good and pull you into the dream of meeting... there may be one or two real ones on here but after my experience over 6 months most are fakes and get some sort of kick back from the fees charged. You will generally find most replies are only 10 lines long or are cut n paste "stories" that cost a lot to read and do not relate to the relationship. When it comes to the crunch and the chance to meet you will find they are suddenly "sick" or some family member is and they have to go away... they are going away on business... or won't be available,... then you will realise you have been sucked in to their world. If you have lots of money to waste then go ahead, the girls are pretty and will write you nice things and make you feel good... but DO NOT rely on this site to find you a wife. If you want a foreign wife just go to the country for a holiday and look around there are plenty of nice women available... I just hope that Kahma comes back to bite them one day.

I just read a review about a guy went to meet his girl but she fell and broke her leg on her way to the airport then after contacting the agency they thus tried hooking him up with a toothless fat ugly chic. Well, in all probability she was actually whom you'd been in contact with the entire time. The photos you were looking at (being sent) were most likely someone that used the site years ago, found her man, thanked the agency and had her profile deleted. Or at least she thought. I know that they give a lady a commission if she can indeed catch a man off guard and get him to spend lots of credits which in turn makes them both even more $ because we "The Men" are spending USD (Americans) and they are being paid in a currency whose net worth is only a fraction of a dollar. Therefore the scammer is happy but the agency is the one getting filthy rich. In some profiles the lady says her present age. Anytime you see this, scroll back to the top and see how old her birthday says she is. (90%) of them are lying. Also when looking at a profile, if there is a heading that says Lady's Videos or just plain videos... but there is no video... this lady is long gone and deleted her videos personally (herself). Bottom line guys... No video, No lady. Video chat is not allowed with Chinese women only. Reckon why? You can still request a video from the lady. Doing this only costs one credit or. 5 credit in chat. If she don't deliver... forget the $#*!. You can't have her anyway. Must be 100's of pissed $#*! off gentlemen wanting to sue Chnlove. Now AisiaMe.

Hi Guys.
I have written this review purely as a condensed, unbiased guide for those using ChnLove dating site and sites related to it. Whilst this is based upon my own extensive experience, you will see that it also echoes much of what has been said and validated by other users, both good and bad. So, to begin…

Firstly, accept that emotion and logic vary rarely work in harmony with each other. Once you have emotionally bought into the idea that you have potential found your hearts-desire on the site, your logic will be heading out of the window. Start with only logic and save your emotions until you meet the girl in the flesh. Not easy, but essential believe me.

Secondly; for those of you that have not yet spent any time in China, do not fall under any preconceived illusion that the country is full of single beautiful women, desperate to get married to anyone that will love them. Yes, there are some beautiful women, and some that have forfeited marriage for a career, or are now divorced. But, they are as astute as any beautiful woman anywhere in the World, and just as choosey with their match-making. That is not to say that single Chinese women are not pro-active; there are parks in the major cities with notice-boards full of single lady profiles and contact details, but you will not find many stunning beauties amongst them. Logic review: If you have not got the looks, charm or wealth to snare a beauty on your home turf, then accept that you have no advantage in China either. Beautiful women in China seek the same as beautiful women worldwide. Western men are only more desirable to Chinese beauties when they can fulfil film-star fantasies. If you think you've hit the jackpot, then chances are that your logic has already deserted you.

Thirdly; Ok, so let's imagine that your photo and your profile would put George Clooneys' to shame, and your Chinese stunner featured on the ChnLove site is as besotted with you as she sounds in her EMF messages etc. What lengths do you imagine she would go to in order to prove that she was not only genuine, but also wanted to get-her-man ASAP before some other beauty beats her to it?
How about a cell-phone "selfie" photo with a message on her hand saying " Hi Andy" or "I love you Andy" or whatever you request? I suggest that you ask her to do that as soon as she starts with the sweet talk, and see what happens. If she responds promptly with the photo attached to the next message, you are George Clooney and you have hit the jackpot! Now you can forego some of your logic and risk introducing some emotion. If she makes excuses, ignores the request, or promises it for a later date…. Then it's time for another review of logic: Ask yourself, would you do it for her? How long would it take you? Would the minor inconvenience of combing your hair and snapping a selfie be too much trouble for the chance of a match made in heaven?

If you do find yourself getting too emotionally involved with a beauty (or two) on the ChnLove site, take a break for at least a week or two (don't worry, if she's into you as much as she says, she won't desert you. Chinese women defend their territory pretty doggedly). Use the time to restore your logical bias with these two exercises:

(1) Become a member on one of the less expensive Chinese dating sites (usually just a few bucks a month with no additional messaging fees fees). Pick a lady that you fancy a little and send her a lovely message inviting her to get to know you. Observe the contrast in how these regular single Chinese ladies react and communicate in comparison to your ChnLove experience. I have found that they will usually contact me first with email address, QQ ID and Skype address, all in their intro message! The photos come flooding, satisfying any request. Don't get me wrong, it is a two-way street. They will want to scrutinize you too. I had one Chinese lady ask to watch me cooking while on Skype! Lol and I let her do so.

(2) Research ALL the other Asian dating sites, and I mean ALL of them. It's time for you to do your homework. You may not like what you find, but let me ask you; how many dating sites are you featured on, or have submitted your profile to? Well guess what, chances are you will find your ChnLove beauty elsewhere too. Now check the profile details and compare. Is the profile verified as authentic?( most are)
Is she the same height? The same weight and the same age? Is she from the same city? If you find that suddenly she is three inches shorter and four years older (don't laugh, I have experienced this) with two verified profiles on two separate dating sites, then I suspect your logical bias will be well and truly on its way back, if emotional anger hasn't taken over first. Lol
Now you have some serious questions to ask her. However, be prepared for some beautiful excuses intended to tap into your emotional sympathy, and appeal to your desperation for it all not to end. If you are lucky, the impersonator may do you a favour and run, but don't bank on it.
And lastly; If you've got the looks, the charm, the finances, the photo of her proving that she knows you personally, you've not found any anomalies elsewhere and she is eager to exchange qq ID and email addresses etc. then go for gold. I believe it can happen on ChnLove and other sites too, but you've got to cross these hurdles ASAP before your cash reserves run dry.

I hope that I have assisted at least someone with the humility for which I intended this to be delivered. It is not about being cynical, it is about being logical and a realist. ChnLove is a polished dating site featuring countless images of beautiful women with heart-warming messages. If you are emotionally broken and in need of an emergency ego boost, then use it accordingly as it will happily provide this service (for a justifiable cost). However, if you are sincerely looking to make a genuine connection, for your own sakes, let logic prevail.

Good luck and Keep in touch. *******@yesway.co.nz

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After reading all the requirements to make a real personal contact with the lady you keep writing, it seems that the man has to put out a awful lot of money. If this site is really here for matching the ladies on there with a potential mate for their lives, how come they block any chances of them passing personal info to each other, if the both of them feel they're ready to take it further instead of waiting; I understand the site wants to make much money as possible, but this really discourage the male after awhile and neither the ladies or men win, or have any chance to have the future they putting their trust in this site to bring them together. It has to be a better way if the company of this site wants not just a good reviews and everyone knowing this is the real place to come to meet that Asian woman, but the company will make a lot more money, by more clients wanting to use them by their reputation. I really like the site, but can't afford to be strung out for so many letters writing along with other pay requirements needed to take a chance on the young lady I have interests in. "We have to do better" ok. I rather give a lump sum that reasonable to make the more personal contact between me and woman. Thanks

Hello. I feel I am something of an expert when it comes to chnlove or any Qpid sites. I spent many thousands of pounds analysing the site. Analysing the women in order to work out what was going on. I went there looking for true love. All I got was true fake.

The bottom line is this. Do not go near it. If you do you will spend endless amounts of money and be heartbroken because the woman you fell in love with never existed. You will be emotionally damaged. But they don't care...

Here is a potted history of my chnlove experience...

I got divorced a few years ago. I wanted a change. I decided to try China and this site. I made a good profile, I paid my credits (1 credit = $6.99 = 10 minutes chat).

I met a nice woman, and she was nice. She was also real. She was in her mid thirties and very pretty. But one night I went online, in the middle of the night in China. To my amazement she was also online. I chatted to her. I asked her questions. She didn't know me at all. The next day I emailed my friend. She told me she had not been online during the night but that her translator often used her account to 'drum up' business. You see. Chnlove consists of a central hub. Agencies from all over China tap into that hub and get commission, from the hub, for communicating with men and keeping them chatting for as long as possible. My friend told me that she also got cheaper membership costs for allowing the translator/agency to use her identity. I soon fell out of love with this woman...

Well being me I kept on going. I chatted to many women. Some I think, the older ones, were a little more genuine. Others were definitely fake. So how do you get a feeling a woman is a fake? Here is what I found:

Ask for her email address. If she tells you she knows nothing about emails and internet then she really is not telling the truth. She can log into chnlove but she cannot create an email account? Guys. Let go now. I got hurt also.

Always check her home or business address. They will give it to you in the hope that it will impress you. But what normally happens is that the address starts with something link Unit 52... Do you are I live in a Unit 52?

If you speak to women from the same agency, do they use the same terms? I once got 2 women banned. They were from the same agency. I realised they were fake as they asked me the same questions. When I told them that I thought they were frauds, they both told me that I had sex with my 13th generation grandmother... Is this a co-incidence?... lol. I think the person pretending to be those women was actually a man. The site knows this goes on but says nothing as they need the business.

So let us get more complex. The woman of your dreams gives you her email address or phone number. Or does she? Agencies can also give these to you. The tell tail signs of a bogus email are this. The name is very generic and they give it a title of something like 'love'. Telephones are more difficult as you might never have heard her voice. But if you call her and she seems to be typing or generally not giving you attention, she is a fake. I know this all seems vague, but your instincts will tell you. These sites are very sophisticated. They are money making machines after all. China is good at that...

If she wants to talk about sex from the first conversation, she is fake. They do it to get your attention. If they say you are very intelligent or handsome, the same rule applies.

This is how I see things. In the UK, not that many women are attracted to me. Yet I go on these sites and everybody loves me. Now let's face it. Let's not kid ourselves. We are the same person. So always chat to a woman you like, and not a woman who chats to you and gives you attention.

If you get bored one afternoon and night. Go online and watch who tries to chat to you. After a while you will see the same old faces, same old chat lines. These are fakes. Never chat to them.The site need to keep their numbers up so lets them get away with it.

So how can you succeed?

Not easy, but I know how.

Chat to the woman for not too long. Get her onto QQ. It is like msn live. You can chat or video link. The latter is the most important. They do have Skype over there which is far better. When you see her the experience becomes real for the first time. Now you begin to know your lady. Don't look at her, look at the place where she lives. It will tell you a lot about her situation and life.

Language. Learning = no way! You cannot have a relationship with a woman when you cannot communicate. I tried it. I could not even tell her I needed the toilet. It was $#*!... haha... sorry.

Fair generally means ok. You can make reasonably good conversation on Skype. Chinese lady's are modest. Fair probably means quite good in my experience.

As a final. Chnlove belongs to Qpid, Hong Kong. They own another two sites at least, iDateAsia for places like Thailand And Vietnam; well they are poorer but the chance to be stitched up is greater, and CharmingDate based in Kiev. Kiev is also the prostitute capital of Europe. You have been warned... All the women look like models in the pictures... hmmmm.

Well I could tell you more if you like. I could get a PhD for this company but prefer to keep it light. My email is *******@hotmail.co.uk. I am happy to help you through this minefield. And women. The site will also do the same to you. Membership is about $1000 I think for a woman. So only rich-ish people go there.

Martin

Hey if you think the girls on other end of world were actually replies all your mails? No they don't even know you and read your mails. And agent will try to trick you fly all way to China make more money of you. I have insider in this business in HK

That is exactly what happen to me, then when the two lady's didn't show up. After I flew to Hong Kong, chnlove offered me lady's to choose from I hadn't chatted with.

All the women on this site are fake, and the pics are photo shop.It is the translators that people are talking to, because it is their job to let you buy credit to keep the business going.
Some of them will tell you that they will come to visit you in your country, so that you will buy credit and keep the conversation going. When the time is near, they will find so lame excuse to tell you, and then move to someone else.
All their success stories are fabricated, and if you look very closely, you will never see an African American that have benefitted from this site and are included in their success story.

I have read some of your reviews. As I have mentioned for Charmdates this is mostly a complete fraud; and I am saying "mostly" because I know that unlike Ukranian women many of these wome are for real, but besides obtaining an extra income, as you maintain, they probably get fake translations and not a single way to contact us. As I previously mentioned, I am Spanish, and haven't had the chance to lose too much money with this site (or all of the other "friendly sites" belonging to the same dating agency). Again, you find especially in this site many ladies that have successful jobs adn in my profile details appear at least, as a good Spaniard, one of my two surnames and where I used to work (at a University); just with these data you can find my email address or contact me through Linkedln (and posssibly if you are really interested even my skype address). I only contacted in this site a Xiongmei, divorced, with one kid and beautiful, supposedly upper manager/executive that could speak a real good English; whatever, first message, even when I asked her about any detail that could make me contact her outside the dating site (that it is a rip off), nothing meaningful. To my surprise, the second message that I received an exact copy of the first. Finally, I started receiving emails basically saying stuff such as "i'm deeply in love with you". Although I replied initially the answers had nothing to do with the kind of information that I would have required to contact her, arrange a visit for her to come to me or me to go to her. Right now, after 6 EMFs that I read for which I paid and were a total waste of time and money, I will have up to 20 in my EMF box out of her; do you really think guys that a lady that is earning truckloads is gonna give you replies such as those if she really wants to meet you?. I particularly think that, as the site mentions, the profile is not a 100% verified, they only receive part of the information, they don't understand a single word in English (kind of difficult to believe because even with a web translator, you can manage) or she is a real scammer. However, I think that not all of them are like this particular lady; some have provided me with for real photos with their IDs in their mails and even suggested that they would be willing to skip the dating site rules by providing me with their fb or sk accounts (if that's possible). Just for now, I'm not gonna risk it and when approached by a Chinese lady with her real name (in Chinese) I have tried to find her through skype, fb or googling her. No luck so far. If I get the feeling that any of them wants to really meet me and that the info is not gonna be biased by the dating site, perhaps I'll try again, but I'm not willing to waste a fortune (prefer to arrange a trip to China and meet the locals).

Be very careful or you will waste a lot of money. I have visited China for business on several occasion and there are some beautiful woman. These photos are not natural! I discovered on this site the profile pictures have been digitally altered to reflect beautiful women. I travel to China to meet four different women and not one looked like their photo. I was shocked and knew I had been scammed after writing for several months and paying a high price to have my letters translated. If I had known what these women looked liked I would not have wasted my money. They were average or below average in looks.

The site allows you to send or receive one photo for free. Then they push private altered photos of the lady at a cost of one credit. They also have the women to push for flowers and candy to show your affection and celebrate American holidays, which aren't celebrated in China. If you are foolish enough to write these ladies every day or send gifts at 10 times the cost you will spend hundreds of dollars each month. If you decide to join this site do not write more than one lady and ask her to take a selfie. One lady was so nervous about her looks she sent me a an unaltered photo and told me she wanted to show me how she looked without make-up. Make-up or no make-up she looked nothing like the profile photo.

Do not waste your money unless you are serious and you plan to visit China after a few months. Some of these women only want to practice their English and writing skills and keep you writing. You will not be able to share contract information and must use their service for 90 days, then you can purchase the ladies contact information for a high price. This can be a very costly dating site. This was a learning experience, and I have no interest in Chinese products or women. I am sure there are success stories, I am only sharing my experience.