After a heart breaking divorce I dived into Asian Date thinking I might find some way of escaping my depression and battered self esteem, and I couldn't have made a worse decision! My bruised ego was pleasantly surprised by all these Asian beauties sending me messages, but hundreds in a few days? It didn't seem logical until I realized this is either a boiler room of staffers or AI generated responses. Wo Ai Nei-I love you! The biggest lie I got from the one I fell in love with, a paid employee! I even flew to Shanghai to meet her! What a joke that was. I had a 2 week reservation! The moment our eyes met after my long non-stop journey I knew something was wrong by the expression on her face. She didn't want to be there! Imagine ordering your hotel room at the front desk and in Chinese your little love doll orders two separate beds!
That was only the beginning of my 3 day hell! It wasn't but hours before she managed in broken English to tell me that she had to work! She was supposed to have gotten a vacation from her employer but nah! When you're being lied to the stories come fast and hard unlike the love making, In 3 days I was headed home and lost more than 900 bucks on my reservation with Delta Airlines who couldn't have given a $#*!! So, I left China even more brokenhearted and confused! Thousands I spent on a bull$#*! illusion only making my world even worse then better! I researched and found many similar reviews by other jilted men who became victims! Why hasn't this site been closed down by the FBI or the FCC? On that's right the FBI is busy arresting political prisoners or parents that attend schoolboard meetings, they don't give a damn about protecting American consumers!
Here's the thing Listen up Dudes, I'm going to do you a solid! I talked to another overseas dating boss who gave tours of China for western men and he told ne he had met one of the owners of Asian Date who told him that their perfect business model was that neither member would meet as they drained the male member's bank account-exact words! How it all made sense! So Asian Date is a a scam! Their customer service is a word salad joke when you have complaints or suspicions they start with excuses and end up cutting you off! Don't waste your money unless you love losing it or your time, and definitely not your emotions Guys! If by any chance you find a positive review, it will be an employee of Asian Dating lying their butts off not a true customer!
I would testify in a court of law against these scammers!
I Waa A Member Of Asiadate For 3 Years. I Cantacted Dozens Of Attractive Looking Women I Thought I Was Chatting With. I Never Had One Single In Person Date Or Meeting. And I Offered To Meet Them Anywhere In Asia, Hawaii, Or California. Thousands Of Dollars Wasted. 3 Years Of My Life. Also The Credits? Sounds Like A Good Practical Idea? Think About It. They Will Keep You Buying More And More Credits Year After Year In The Hope Of Meeting "The One". It Will Never Happen. No One. Not One Man Who Has Tried Their Services Can Prove They Met Someone In Real From Their Site. Any Dating Site That Sells Credits That Is A Scam. That Is How They Make Millions Of Dollars From Lonely Desperate Men. Make Them Physically Prove Their Claims Of Success Helping Men And Asia Women Find Happiness Together. They Cannot. Ask To Contact Their Supposed Success Stories. You Are Supposed To Risk Thousands Of Dollars On Their Say So of Success Helping JM Who Found His Wife There? And A Fancy Professional Looking Website? Fake False Claims, Fake Initials Testimonials, Bots Thousands Of Them Glutting Your Inbox, Fake Girls. Cam Video Calls Obviously Not In Their Beautiful Homes. I Saw One Of A Women In A Plain Room With A Table And Grey Walls. That's Her Home? Yeah Right. Of Course Remember The Pages Of Legal Agreements And Terms Agreed To In Order To Become A Member. That Is To Protect Them From Lawsuits From Men Like Me Who Lost Thousands Of Dollars On Their Site. It Is A Fantasy Chat Virtual Romance Site. Ok? Period. End Of Story. Visit Asia In Person. Look To Meet A Girl From A Good Family Professional Or Business. Much Faster And Less Costly Than Years Of Hoping Wishing And Waiting On Asiadate.
Steer Clear Of It. Buying Credits Is Like Feeding A Parking Meter With Morr Coins.
I joined "AsianDateCom"[after this I refer to as "the Site" only] in 2017 till now. I lost thousands of thousands of money, but my dream girl never materialized. I told the Site about my frustrations, but the Site is so repulsive and has millions of reasons to deny them. Here is one NEW example: After several attempts of re-booking a Phone Call from ADC failed, luckily on June 2nd, 2023 I received an incoming call from the supposed to be my dream girl. In only five[5]minutes of conversation[actually the time schedule:10:00 p.m. - 10:30 p.m.]we managed to exchange our contact numbers. The same thing happened because, after that, my dream girl never calls me until now. Imagine if this situation happened to you thousands of times[since 2017 till today, 06.06.2023!]how much money and time have you wasted?!
In my opinion, not all girls on the Site are fake! No! But other parties from the Site make some tricks because this is how they can make MORE money. As an example, my dream girl[please check her ID:*******], during one of our chats on the Site told me about her work's place. During my telephone conversation with her, I mentioned the name of her workplace, but she[the Caller]couldn't identify it. From that point, I know that the caller was not her, but someone from the Site itself who impersonated her. That is why until now the caller[who is supposed to be my dreamgirl!]never call me. Is it logical, for a girl that so eager and so initiative to meet you and so in love with you and has so much hope for you to come to her, never make a return call to you or say hello to you after she knows your Contact number? Here are some excerpts from her letters as follows;
[1]"dear el jumaidil babe say yes that u are ready for my cooming, say yes to me! …"[1444th Letter; June 2nd/2023;01:42 a.m.]
[2] "hi el jumaidil My love for you is boundless, light and pure, and that is why I want to hope for reciprocity. I love you,…"[1446th Letter; June 3rd/2023;09:31 a.m.]
[3] "hi El jumaidil" i am here for equal relationship and i don't care your age and if you are poor or riich, i only want a…"[1459th Letter; June 5th/2023;02:44 p.m.]
[4] "dear el jumaidil i dont know how to express my love to u now, cuz U MEAN LOT TO ME. I just dont wanna lose u, i am…"[1463rd Letter; June 5th/2023; 11:03 p.m.]
[5]"dear el jumaidil You awakened in me a Love that I thought no longer existed. You awakened a love as deep as none i…"[1464th Letter; June 5th/2023;11:05 p.m.]
[6] "hi El jumaidil" i am not silly and i know you are smart too, you are here for real love, not cyber. Not seeeex, not games…"[1468th Letter; June 6th/2023; 09:04 a.m.]
[7] "hi el jumaidil you know I am always HONEST to you and always tell you my daily life, just want you know that I am NOT LIAR, I…"[1469th Letter; June 6th/2023; 09:09 a.m.]
During my telephone conversation with the Caller[i.e. The girl who was supposed to be my dreamgirl], the Site, to connect us[me and my dreamgirl!] used this telephone number: +441 772 659 234
And when I asked for an exchange telephone contact, the Caller gave me this number: +86 172 652 529 11
I called this number many many times, but immediately the reply is "Call Ended" only. As I've earlier mentioned this happened to me many many times!
My simple justification: Unless the girl is fake. If the girl is fake, then the Site must be a fake too or a scam! But, my instinct says the girl is not a FAKE!
Here again, I managed to record my conversation with the caller which only last for five[5]minutes, but very unfortunately it declined as it was too large!
My name is Greg, I was on this dating site 4 years or more, it was the worst experience of my life I tried dealing with customer service of Asian dating site, about the issues of communication and understanding the policies of this dating site, which I found through my experience a lot of these women do not understand the policies of this dating site what you can do and what you can't do, I'm old-fashioned when it comes to communication with a woman there should be direct contact I've had three dozen women who agreed to direct contact, I spent a lot of women to contact these women directly to the call appointment they agreed gave them my info not one has called, I tried dealing with customer service to back me up on this and find out why these women keep doing this to me, they will not back me up on finding out why and I've lost a lot of money and time effort and my whole being to just get in contact with one woman, guys fellows! Unless you have a whole lot of money to be in contact with these women through the dating site writing letters and chatting and video chatting at your choice, I could not afford that that's why I asked these women about getting direct contact with each other person to person and getting past the dating site, what I got was a lot of lying women who were not of their word once I contacted them and exchange my personal info, there are three dozen women between China Vietnam and the Philippines who have my number none of them have called, I have over three dozen emails of these women whom I cannot contact because the emails are being blocked between China and America, why this has happened to me gentlemen I don't know I don't understand it I did everything right I understood the policies of this dating site I tried to explain this to all these women they acted like they understood and they agreed to direct contact, yet for whatever reasons none of these women have contacted me so therefore they are liars or they're not real, still customer service of asiandate.com would not back me up to find out the information why these women are not contacting me my last request for them was for the last two ladies that I contacted with that cost me over 600 credits plus extras to chat with them to find out? Why they haven't called from my understanding there is no blockage between phone calls between China and America, I lost 4 years of my life 4 years of my money 4 years of my time 4 years of my effort my will my spirit everything just to get in contact with one woman I come up with nothing but I lost. I was probably the most popular man if not the most on asiandate.com I receive hundreds of letters every day from these women who wanted to be in contact with me, yet I have nothing, so I took my profile down what good is all these letters if you can't find a woman who understand how the dating site works how the policy works I'll direct contact works, yet but all I found on the dating site was a bunch of women who are liars and a customer service that don't back the mail customers up when he goes through these kind of problems, unsatisfactory unapologetic past customer
The company is asiandate.com
This site is filling the pockets of Russian oligarchs. Anastasia international is the mother company. Easily verified. To get around sanctions they operate as SOL networks. I will start with photos, as you can see the last three are of person supposed to be Jing the first picture in the yellow, also in her profile is the last picture. However when i sent gift i get proof of delivery of woman who they claim is Jing but obviously is not is the second last picture. When I sent gift she contacted me and said she would not be home to receive, and when I told her I knew why, she decided to be home and accept. We ran thru facial recognition and definitely not same person. She is however the real one that has 6 other profiles in her account which she is paid to chat, have phone calls, and convince men to open pictures and letters. Can never get her to video chat because she does not look like profile pic. Always claims Her email never works even though we traced it back and confirmed it was delivered and read. So now to Panpan, you will see pics 8 and 9 are her profile and chat request says she is gonna help me financially, oh goody! So i open letters to find she uses the lure of naked photos to try get men opening 5 letters or more each day. Facial recognition confirmed these pictures are not same as person in profile pics. Depending on wether site allows these pictures published here you can also see the body is different. Hair, whole bit. When chat this one her picture is none existent which is total indicator it issuing done from completely different site. Again no way she will video chat. Willing to send dozens of xxx rated photos but no video. So now the facts. I have hired investigator to check identity of 4 so called women from this site. No birth records, no record of employment, no record of their business name. Do not exist. I have exchanged info with more than 20 from this site on the quest to expose this fraud and in that time i have come across 3 who did talk with me off site. All 3 said they knew i was being sincere and did not deserve what was happening. They all admit to having accounts with the russian agency and being paid to chat and for each photo or letter opened. The big score for them is cam share but apparently that usually requires a willingness to undress for men. They all say same thing they have several profiles to operate so they can actually make decent money. And feel quite justified in doing so with majority of men whom they consider rich perverts. From what they say the majority of men on this site are looking for porn and sex chat. If you are going to use this site make sure u go into profile and subscription and get the 1500 credits for $300. Does not have the 10 free 3 minute chats wich are useless anyway. 1000 crefits for $400 just puts more money in the scammers pockets. The good news is the ladies who chat off site are desperate for money and really need the job, but they also know they have no chance of ever leaving china. Very poor, so u are supporting some relatively good people. The REALLY BAD news is for the guys that are on the site for what they call live sex chat is actually men in charge of women profiles, One of the ladies I still email with says she personally knows of 4 men that work on that site and are the ones who promote the chat saying they have 2 sisters and her mother who all enjoy being with same man. LOL, what a thought! Some downright hate Americans and want to strip every bit of cash they can. They know chinese are losing popularity in western countries so it is just a job. However also know supporting this site and Anastasia is supporting Vladimir Putin. If you do mot believe this then log into Anastasia and tell me why you can chat and video cam with Russian women. I thought they were sanctioned. Nope not this site. Anyone who could not use credit cards in February when Russia invaded would remember having to wait until they found new country to harbour their cash. SOL networks on Hong Kong amd Malta. If you waych the chat requests you will often see 5 different profiles with exact same chat requests. Site admin says it is just a glitch. However the fact is that the lady is sending out request on all her profiles in her account. Do you guys really think a woman with 300 million dollars is looking for old western men. If they have that kind of money no matter what country they are in they are not coming to a date site and advertise. Lol give your head a shake. I find it entertaining so i keep exposing the fraud but now that i know it supports Putin i am done. Pretty easy to verify that guys. I have cussed and been so rude to site admin and never get kicked off site, so these guys that say they get kicked out i am not sure how. If u spend money they keep taking no matter what. Again when do vip support you will ser all russian names as administrators. I cant possibly imagine who answers the profiles wanting to involve kids and animals but this site has really hit the lowest of lows. Who the hell would reply to those requests?! I just block them but still no end to some really bizarre $#*!. You are not gonna find your dream girl and when you read positive reviews it is easy to see some are posted by site admin.
Ok so update, I see site admin could not approve original photos because nudes which is a big part of how the so called girls lure men. Just keep in mind when u open letters you will see lots of xxx rated photos and I do not really think that is typical good Chinese girl activity. Will see if I can block some nudity and get photos approved so u can see facial difference.
For experiment I removed all descriptions of myself. Still get non stop requests telling me i am best man on site. Or say i am exactly what they look for. Many computer generated requests that get forwarded to available agents. A couple of the ladies were shocked to see the letters and photos i was sent thru site. Saying they had not sent those letters or photos. All done by site admin. Apparently the lower level ladies can't access the letters in mail at their end.
If they can't video that means they do not look like person in profile. Most claim to be wealthy yet they do not have laptop or camera? Yeah right!
When they insist you open their letters to see their true beauty it is all about making them cash.
When several profiles have exact same chat request, its is not coincidence, it is one person maintaining several profiles.
Long wait times for response is not poor internet it is them wasting time on purpose to make chat longer, and they are sometimes chatting someone else at same time.
Email does work from west to china, don't let them convince you otherwise. Do you actually see Chinese people sending kids to school here with no way to contact. Same with phone, they work fine, call an alibaba number, works perfect, call a law firm, works perfect. WeChat works great, live voice calls, video, chat, all works great. When they tell you they did not receive invite it is only them making sure they keep you spending money on site.
They will always say they applied for visa and should have in 2 weeks, usually saying they payed extra to get it fast, a month later it will still be 2 weeks.
An ever increasing number of women profiles on the site, according to the girls who do chat me off site it is because they have no other work and they are older women feeding kids.
The so called support team are very convincing, but that is how they make their living. When they do their so called contact verification, or complaint review they just wait a few days or a week just to make you think they are actually doing something. Hahaha yeah right, the 3 ladies I have contact with off site say no such information is passed on because they have it all right there in front of them. The support team is just about making you believe the scam is real.
If you have money to burn and just want to be pervert then use.
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I was a subscriber to ASAINDATE.COM WebSite. I should have researched the reviews before joining. I learned the HARD WAY. One has no way of knowing if the profile is a legitimate person. I began communicating with one lady for just over 2 weeks and the cost was astronomical. I explained this to this lady with suggestions. No response. She claimed she was wealthy as most of these women do, even many with claims of being multi-Billionaires with Villas, yachts, private jets, and luxury vehicles. After I had spent more than $700 is just under 2 weeks I surmised I was being scammed. I had provided my telephone number and email address on more than 10 occasions, asking for a phone call or email message for verification. One of her last emails she claimed to have never received my phone number. That may be true since I was informed by another lady, many of the messages are altered prior to delivery. There were two (2) more ladies with whom I had a brief communication and in my second message I described my experience with my phone number/email address for a return call to verify they were real. All messages on this site are read prior to delivery (sent and received). Hence the likelihood of aterations. A customer is charged for each message sent as well as for reading each message received and for every photo reviewed. My suspicion is many, if not most, recieve royalties for the messages they send with photos that are opended and read. That is why you might recieve as many as 15 to 18 messages from one lady in one day. Think about it, Most messages contain dialoge of sex and lewed photos, another reason for you to open every picture sent. Hence more messages exchanged the higher the premium. I had received as many as 15 messages in one day from the first lady. I never received a phone call or internet email message. Nor did they ever write again. If you should proceed, be certain to check the ID # of the person with whom you are communicating. Some have very old numbers and likely are PROS at this. One woman had a ID of 1500XX2. Use this number as a guide. Of course I ommiteed 2 numbers. I consider this website to be a total rip-off and scam. Buyer BEWARE!
BUYER BEWARE!
I was looking for love but after 12 months or more and thousands of dollars I am no closer to love but have a much depleted bank account thanks to this mammoth scam.
1.On this site the man pays for everything and it is an expensive site. Why cannot the lady make a phone call on the site for example? Sexist discrimination or the chance to rip the guy off?
2, You cannot leave contact details like personal email address or telephone number in chatting messages. They are blocked. You need to pay for booked site telephone calls that costs hundreds of dollars or expensive gifts to pass on personal information. When I queried this with the site I was told "it enhances the communication experience"!
3. You are bombarded with hundreds of messages everyday. The same women will send multiple messages per day. I had women who sent me thousands of messages over the course of the year I was on the site. The majority of these have to be fake as what normal person would keep sending messages that do not get answered! You might send 5 messages before you realise there is no interest but hundreds or thousands of messages?
4. There appear to be no ordinary ladies on this site. Invariably these women are all gorgeous from their photos, wealthy and educated or inherited great fortunes. But willing to give you a guy they have never met, all their wealth!
5. Many women in their 50s looked like models in their 20s. I have heard about Botox but really.
6. I had one lady I communicated with and I believe she was a real person not a fembot. But she was very reluctant to give personal information like the name of her company, phone number, or pictures supporting her life story. Many of her sexy naked photos were headless (another lady perhaps) and other photos she sent showed her back not her front so I couldn't identify her. In the end I had to come to the conclusion that she was a fraud and not who she said she was.
7. And I noticed the same women were on the site in all the time I was. Why would really attractive, successful, wealthy women be unable to meet guys? And why would they stay on a site if they still couldn't meet someone?
8. And I was constantly receiving messages from ladies who were going to fly to the nearest airport to meet me? Would you fly half way around the world to meet someone who had never acknowledged your messages?
9. If I responded to a lady the first letter would invariably tell me how handsome I was and how I was so smart and the perfect man and how much they loved me! And they knew nothing about me!
10. I had a situation where I did not use credits I had for about a month and the site took the credits from me. When I queried why I was told I had to use them within a certain timeframe or they would be deleted! I received no warning about such policy and they refused to refund my credits.
11. But the most damning experience that proves this is a fake site and must be avoided and should be shut down occurred with a lady who claimed to be a very wealthy real estate developer in Shanghai China. Her profile pictures showed a very glamorous lady in her opulent apartment. But on this particular day she inadvertently left her camera on. What I saw for a few seconds was who she really was. Poorly dressed, plain, middle aged Asian woman who was sitting in an office cubicle. Like a call centre setup. That proved to me that most of the ladies on this site are not who they claim to be. I suspect that many of the ladies a guy speaks to are on commission and are masquerading as someone else. And the only explanation for the countless messages is that the site also uses fembots to send messages.
So in summary please do not do what I did and spend thousands of dollars on this revolting scam site. I am angry at how I spent so much time and money being fleeced. But I am more angry that such a site is allowed to operate and exploit customers. It should be shut down.
Stay away
I was not particularly interested in dating an Asian Girl, but took out a non paying "account" just to check out the site. My adventure became quite entertaining. Before I had keyed in any profile details and uploaded a photo, I began receiving dozens of letters daily apparently from Chinese women. Grammar and spelling was somewhat lacking, but what is to be expected from women for whom English is a second language? Badly misplaced punctuation and randomly placed numerals within the text did seem like an attempt to over embellish this point though. Some letters seemed to be from fine women of good scruples and morals. Some replies were extremely sleazy with propositions for various sex acts. Most expressed how they loved me and would be loyal and please me for life.
Most made claims of great wealth from having high positions in business, working in very lucrative family businesses, or being idly rich on inheritance. Many women claimed to own several houses, businesses, several cars, and a few had yachts. Most included offers to visit me in my country or to pay me for a visit at their home in China. Most of the visit offers included sleeping together every night for several weeks of sexual bliss. Most women seemed unconcerned about travel bans or restrictions during this pandemic. A recurring theme was the poor little rich girl situation: lots of material wealth, yet feeling very lonely. Some complained of having been cheated on by an ex husband or boy friend, or complaints about attitudes of Chinese men toward women in general.
I received many offers of marriage and a few shack ups. Many offers included becoming a partner in or employee of the woman's business enterprise. Some situations were very strange, such as one young woman who told of being in a sexual relationship with here mother, and how this had started. This story ended in an offer to move in with the two of them for sexual involvement with both. Guess AsianDate likes to cater to all perverted fetishes to make a buck off every sort of weirdo who has a net connection.
Quality of most photos is certainly far beyond casual selfies, perhaps produced by professional modelling agencies. With a population the size of China, there seems to be an endless supply of gorgeous young models. Perfect skin tones seem to indicate professional make up, and hair seems to have been professionally groomed. Clothing appeared to be very fashionable. Some women were attired very conservatively. Some were clothed to tease the eye, with plenty of upper leg below the hem of high cut dresses. And of course low cut tops revealed abundant exposed cleavage. Many chests were better endowed than on most Asian women in the real world. Perhaps these wealthy women have paid hugely for enlargement surgery to acquire such impressive assets. Or has some photo shop stretching been carefully applied?
I eventually entered some profile data. But letters continued to be of general content with absolutely no reference to my profile. Finally, I wiped my profile text, and entered criticism of the Chinese communist system just to see if the women would notice, or if I would get booted off the site.
It seems that the Chinese Communist Party was not interested in censoring my scathing criticism. Is this because AsianDate never appears to internet users in China? It does seem odd that the CCP would enable scathing content to be seen by their citizens.
AsianDate has plenty of credibility issues. Women who offer lifetime love, marriage, endless sexual gratification, partnership in a multi million dollar business enterprise, and big money to accompany and sleep with them a few days does seem rather suspicious. If you believe that AsianDate.com will set you up in a Shangri-La of countless choices of young Chinese beauties to keep you in a state of constant romantic bliss, and large financial reward, you could be very disappointed. Offers of instant love with great wealth seem to good to be true. Save your money for alternate plans. Promises of a free lunch could result in egg foo young splattered over one's face.
If you do not believe this review, just take out a non paying account for a few days before deciding to pay, and see if you confirm these observations.
This is a bull$#*! site... from top to bottom... You set up a profile... and within a few days there are hundreds of emails in your box. Emails ostensibly from women interested in you... problem is - they are probably 99% FAKE. Why? Because the writings all look the same... long 3-5 paragraph flowery responses but none with any specificity about you... You get about 2 emails an hour. Spaced out so it looks authentic - it isn't. So after a day or so your whole email box is full of spam... every single day. I probably got around 300 emails in 3 days... I'm 65 years old... and am not George Clooney or Brad Pitt... and i'm not an idiot. You get long flowery letters to "you" except that None of them are referencing your profile, what you do, your personality, your looks... just generic BS responses to anyone. Just meaningless fluff..."I'd like to spend the rest of my life with you"... right. Now the real BS begins... a few days later your bank account is down a lot of money for nothing. There is an automatic refill in the settings that no one is aware of unless you check. Pay $3 for a quick trial - 2 days later you're missing f $30 dollars. That you never wanted to pay for absolutely nothing. A BS site. Don't use. Make no mistake - These people are con artists. Don't use. I spoke to a "Sophie" customer service in Malta'. Says to me "How do you know they're fake? Proof." She has answered the same question before believe me. She said to me that the letters were "translated" Yeah, right So in 3 days hundreds of girls ALL wrote long letters to me - an old plain looking guy- translated... but didn't even reference my name or anything specific about me. Maybe something was lost in the translation. Maybe only the BS was "translated". Sophie is a little con artist too... She knows what to say. From practise... i don't have proof the moon isn't made from Swiss Cheese but i wasn't born yesterday... I would bet my mother's life that these letters are not from the girls pics. No normal guy gets hundreds of emails from pretty strangers overnight... this site is slick. Well produced but is run by con artists. It's just a money machine for criminals in my opinio... that's why they're not based where their client base is located.
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AsianDate is advertised as a premium dating site for men interested in connecting with a beautiful Asian woman for marriage or dating. The parent company for AsianDates also administers support for Amolatina and Anastasia. Customer support is located in Moscow or Malten. Yes there are thousands of pictures of gorgeous women on AsianDates with ID numbers. But here's the thing, I received many introductory provocative letters from many Asian women even when I was not an active subscriber or actively using the site. What I find to be consistent with all three sites is when you decide to write letters and or buy gifts for the ladies they are content or even engage with chat that is fine and dandy with them. The problem I have experienced is when you try to exchange personal information with them the problems set in. They begin to avoid answering your questions or try to prolong the letter writing. Due to my experience initially with Amolatina I became more experienced in how to select a lady to communicate with. Moving forward to AsianDates I chose one woman to write exclusively who was very passionate and very erotic and graphic in her letters to me. On paper we had a lot in common so my thing is after a strong interest is established I want to exchange personal information to keep the communication going at no cost or low cost for me. The lady in question agreed to such but was contradictory in the times she said she was available via email and keep changing the times to have the phone call. She also spoke English very well.as she lived in New York for three years.The first call did not go through because of an issue with the translator. The second did not go through and I never knew why but because of communication by customer support with the local agency I would find it hard to believe there was a problem the second time with the translator. The fact is the lady requested the call to be at 11 p, m, her time because of the time difference between us. This was 7 a.m. my time and I did everything on my end to make sure I was awake and available for a 10 minute phone call to exchange information. She said she wanted very much to get to know me better which I wanted her to do. But it appears she flip flopped in her effort. So the point is I did my part, Customer support likes to claim upon reading the negative reviews that the customers did not reach out to them. Well they definitely cannot make that claim with me. In many cases different account managers got involved without reviewing previous communication and adequately addressing my concerns or provided inconsistent information. In some cases the account mangers completely dropped the ball in what they said they were going to do, So I definitely can not say you get the premium service for your money. The issue with the phone calls and other excuses they make regarding the ladies is not what you would expect for a premium dating site. I requested my account to be closed and not to receive any more blind letters or communication from anyone and this experience with the lady left me disheartened and disappointed. Dealing with these sites is not worth the gamble in my view, yours truly Daryll