Right where to begin: Between June 2014 and July 2015 I lived in Tokyo and it was bit of a 'lonely' time so started looking at online datey stuff and came across Asianbeauties and was blown away by the stunners so signed up for it and its sister sites. Slight digression now but bear with me: the teaching job I had in Tokyo meant I worked some odd hours so I came across some 'odd' non-Japanese people including Chinese prostitutes working in and around Shinjuku train station. I DIDN'T 'use' any of the them but I did happen to become friendly with one called Yuyu who hated her 'job' but loved the money. Because I wasn't interested in their services I got to know Yuyu and one or two of her friends out of their 'working hours'. Now Yuyu and her friends were absolutely stunning so I could believe that at least some of the beautiful profiles on Asianbeauties (AB) were real, but I believe very few are real at all.
Back to the main plot: I got chatting with a couple of women on AB and a couple more on Anastasia and the sister site Middle Eastern scamming. Before I knew it I'd spent a couple of hundred quid chatting! One Chinese woman did give me her Ten Cent ID whilst video chatting so we actually chatted for free outside of AB where she basically told me most women who are on AB aren't real or are basically prostitutes making money a different way. I also found out that a number of profiles on AB's sister sites were either fake or the women were in relationships. This was easy to do via Facebook when the 'women' used their FULL real names in their profiles and the same photos from their FB accounts.
For a 'giggle' just today, I decided to go back on AB with a fake and totally ridiculous account. My new AB profile name is Deadpool (with a great photo of the red fella) and my hobbies are searching for Francis, killing bad guys, being shot in the $#*!, and touching myself after killing loads of bad guys. After a while I got lots of sexually suggestive messages from Chinese girls saying how they like my profile/hobbies/interests.
'Deadpool' only chatted with some girls using the free 3 minute chat limits, not paying AB anymore money, but it looks as if AB has a new scam going on. I seem to remember that when I was chatting with the girls whilst in Japan, we weren't allowed to exchange photos during chats. During the latest chats I had girls offer to send me pu*** and t*t photos in for me to open there and then for 15 credits a pop! So now not only is AB and its sister sites massively expensive to chat and open letters, there is a new way of scamming men out of their money with instant photos.
Stay far, far away from Asianbrides and all associated 'dating' sites!
It's a scam site! Only scam! Damn it!
This site is a total fraud and scam! In my last review on this page, I explained how I was on this site for 9 months and spent over 8 thousand dollars screening over 538 women. I narrowed my search down to 14 women and of these 14 women, I focused my efforts on 4. I wrote letters to these 4 woman and they all agreed to meet me if and when I flew to China. I flew to China in January/February 2014 and stayed in country for 3 weeks to meet these women.
Since the Aisandate.com site won't allow the men and women to exchange their personal information like email addresses, cell phone number, street addresses, flight schedules etc., I got all 4 women to agree to use the "Call Me Service" and I spent the money to set up the calls. I spoke with all 4 women - during separate "Calls" and through a Chinese translator. I got their private email addresses, cell phone numbers, and arranged to communicate off-site with them because the site simply cost to much and is to expensive. What really upset me was that one woman I wrote letters to, told me how much she loved me. She wrote me over 500 letters in 3 months and said she wanted to marry me. But, when I flew to her city, she won't take my phone calls and wouldn't meet me. They only want you to write them so they can get paid a commission from the credits we suckers spend on opening and responding to their letters. Once I got their FREE Information, they didn't want anything to do with me. And, when I flew to China, they avoid having contact with me. WOW! Was I stupid to believe this site was real...
They all agreed to exchange emails through private emails sites like QQ, which is the Chinese version of Yahoo etc. But, here is where the scam really took off running. Although all 4 women agreed to write to me off-site, most of them did not. I wrote letter after letter "FREE" and they would not respond. They would only respond to me if I wrote them at the "PAID" site - Aisandate.com, which is really Asianbeauties.com using a new name. They are both one and the same!
You can use Google Translator to Type in English and communicate in Chinese. Simple or Traditional Chinese, it doesn't matter. In other words, I was writing to these 4 women in their own language. No excuses! I went to China and after weeks of getting the run around with 3 of the 4 women, I did manage to meet with one. She lives in Dalian. Yes, I flew to 4 cities in China to meet these women and they didn't show up. Two received my phone call but hung-up as soon as they heard my voice. I met the young lady in Dalian for 3 consecutive days. It was total night-mare. I hired an interpreter for 500 rmb per hour ($16) and she was very nice and had a Master's Degree in English. To make a longer story shorter, the woman I went to see wrote on her profile that she was fluent in English - NOT TRUE! She spoke maybe 5 words of English over 3 days and didn't really understand me when I spoke to her in English. The bottom-line here is DON'T WASTE YOUR MONEY!
These women are EMPLOYEES OF THE WEBSITE - NOT ACTUALLY LOOKING FOR DATES AND MARRIAGE. They tell you they are serious, sincere, honest, caring, loving, but it is all lies. If you want to write me about my experiences with Asiandate.com you can reach me at *******@gmail.com
I personally feel it's important to start naming names so that we all know who the "bad" ones are, who the fake people are on that AB website.
The name on the profile said "Jiaolei(Laura)" and her "interview" page noted that her nickname is "Lala." Since I speak fluent Chinese and can type Chinese, I thought I had a chance to meet a real lady there.
I typed, "Your name is very nice. It sounds lovely."
Her response: "Really? You mean my Chinese name?"
I replied: "Your name Lala."
"Lala? What does that mean?"
"Your interview page said that."
"Laura? Lala? Are they the same thing?"
"No, your interview page said that."
"Oh, yeah, haha. I thought you meant Laura and Lala have the same meaning. I guess I'm not that smart."
THAT should have been a red flag right there. How can someone not know her own nickname? I overlooked that, and then I continued chatting with her for 20 minutes before I had to attend a work meeting.
Later on, when I logged into my account, I saw SEVENTEEN letters from her--all on that same day. Each letter costs 10 credits to open, and she was basically saying the same things in each of those letters, garbage like "It was so nice to chat with you," "where are you now? I don't see you online," "let's chat online again soon. I'm waiting for you," etc. Her letters were all at least 2 paragraphs long but essentially said the same thing. The other red flag was that each of the photos she attached was titled "s" or "ss." Who does that? (All of the photos are different pictures but each one is titled "s" or "ss.")
Ultimately, I got on the chat system again and explained to her in Chinese, in her own language, that I would order a phone call so that we could exchange contact information. I explained, clearly, that this letter system and chat system wouldn't work because of the heavy costs. She agreed to do it. And yet the next day she sent me another FOURTEEN letters on that website.
After we spoke on the phone through the AB system--I didn't need a translator since I spoke Chinese but still the phone call was pricey--she sent me an email. One sentence. That was it. So, in the letters through that site she sent at least 1-2 paragraphs. In this email she sent 1 sentence. Obviously she is sending form letters through that website. And then soon enough she sent more letters through that website. And I see her online on that website every single day. She is also on there for very strange hours every day. I sometimes do meetings with bosses in China so I am familiar with the time difference. I see her online on that website from 11 pm to 7 am or so China time. That is a major red flag. This means Jiaolei(Laura) is not a real lady. She is either a slut or someone paid to chat with men online. There is a lot more to this Jiaolei(Laura) but I want to tell you these points for now to let you all know not to be tricked by her. She is definitely a scammer. Avoid her at all costs.
Anastasiadate "sister"-site spamming and payed services exploiting women (and men)
This Asian Beauties website requires that you purchase expensive credits. You must pay 10 credits to open/read every letter, and pay 10 credits to respond to every letter. 10 credits = about $5.00.
If you continue correspondence with female members, you continue paying $5 for every read/respond letter. ($5+$5=$10) You never stop paying the Russians who operate this website.
When Asian female sends letter with extra pictures attached, AB website permits you look at 1st pic free, then PAY 10 credits to open/view each additional picture.
If you try to insert your direct email, or personal address into your letter, the AB website has computer software which censors/blocks personal information. AB does not want you to exchange email/phone/address with the female members, because you are not allowed to communicate with the girls off the AB website.
When you ask for their personal email/address/phone, the girls will not
Provide it, and you will be told excuses, that they wish to communicate with you only on AB, where, of course, you keep paying credits to the Russian administrators.
In addition, the local Chinese translators may very well not provide/transfer your
Personal data/information to the girl when they do English--Chinese translation so the female may read your comments.
On the video/chat box online, you must pay 1 credit per minute just to send
A text message with no cam. Or, you pay 2 credits per minute to see girl on cam. Credits cost between 40 to 80 cents determined by how many you buy in bulk in one transaction. One hour = 60 minutes X 40/80 cents = $24 to $48 per hour for text box, or $48 to $96 per hour for girl on web cam.
(All the Anastasia websites for Russian/Ukrainian/Asian, and AmoLatina websites operate on these same PAY always policies.)
Online, you type message, PAY, transmit message, PAY, girl reads message, PAY, girl thinks response, PAY, girl types, PAY, girl transmits, PAY, you receive/read, PAY, and keep on. PAYING every minute. You burn through your bank account, and Russian administrators go to luxurious nightclub and eat caviar/drink expensive vodka thanks to you!
On scam report websites, some former AB male members report spending $$$ hundreds, even $3,000 worth of credits, and never make progress with these female members toward a serious relationship.
On Asian Beauties, my personal profile received several hundred letters from pretty Chinese females. I couldn't open/read them, because AB would charge thousands of dollars to do it, and thousands of dollars to respond to these nice women.
Two Chinese women claimed to have wealthy daddies, to be affluent, and offered to come to USA, buy me a house/car if I'd be their husband! Wow!, I was getting ready to write them a letter of interest, inviting them to make the trip here. And I reviewed the profile of a stunning Chinese girl who said she was here in Los Angeles. We exchanged 1 letter.
Then I noticed that I stopped receiving email from AB website, or notifications of new letters. I tried to log in, and was rejected. Tried to call their Customer Support with difficulty, sometimes on hold for 1 hour. Then I talked with Christina, Customer Support Manager in Russia. She was unable to provide explanation for why Ruslan, the 'Risk Manager,' deleted my account. I wanted to talk to Ruslan over telephone, but he was never available, and didn't telephone me later even though Christina promised he would.
Instead, Ruslan transmitted multiple emails asking me to photocopy both sides of my credit card, the back/front, and photocopy my personal ID, which could mean passport or state ID, and send both to him via email or fax to prove who I was!
What? Does this sound like an attempt to rip off my Identity, and tap my Credit Card until wiped out? Bank of America Customer Care and I both thought it did, and I certainly wasn't foolish enough to comply with Ruslan's request.
Now that Ruslan deleted my membership, I'll never find out if those Chinese girls were serious, or bluffing, about buying me a new house! And Ruslan/Christina never explained why I was dropped. My suspicion is that I wasn't spending enough money, not responding to the hundreds of letters. Some AB girls wrote me eight or nine letters trying to prompt a response from me.
So maybe AB drops male members who are reluctant to blow big $$$, and spend just a small amount, and are highly selective in answering the females.
I just don't know, but I really wanted one of those rich Chinese girls to buy me a Beverly Hills mansion, and now I have to keep living in my tiny apartment instead!
Sincerely, JOE Duffy
Los Angeles, California