Total fraud! I met many scammers who said I was their ideal man and I heard all kinds of excuses regarding why they were still not ready to meet me. I signed up for J7Love.com
And promptly started meeting women for real: open, sweet and down-to-earth women. So please don't fall for AsiaCharm fake profiles, it's a con site with unlimited opportunities for scammers: no fraud is ever being scrutinized and scammers' profiles are never banned.
I can't write that all profiles on this site are manufactured. Some must be genuine but there is no way to determine which and all are verified. I had several pics of myself along with a very lengthy description and answers to the drop-down questions. I received 30 to 100 messages/day. After reading assorted reviews I deleted all pics except 1 of the landscape of my area (no people), all answers to the questions, and reduced the description to "This site is such a ripoff I cannot know if u r real or not. BTW I have no money." Oh and changed my age to 95. Guess what, no significant change in the number of messages or letters or the age range of senders. One must ask what does an 18 y.o. Want with a 95 y.o. Great grandfather?
I spent almost 3 years and thousands of dollars only to have my heart broken by 3 different women, each one closed their profile after they told me that wanted to marry me. Call me stupid, but I was just hoping to find someone. What ever you do do not trust anyone on this site. After some research, I have that each of the women that I corresponded with, all work as escorts and porno stars, but their profiles listed as hotel managers and business owners
I'll give it a 0 star if there is that option. I use to paid about $3000 - $6000 a month to interact with the ladies there. You need to accumulate 3000 chatting credits to ask for a lady personal information. Once you accumulate enough, the ladies will find ways to reject you, for example, like, "I can't go to the US because I can't speak English well", etc. If you want to spend money just to chat to women, not to date or marry them, then it's a good site. Although, a times, I feel like I am writing to bots.
I have spent 2 years on this site and thousands of dollars. The women are fake. Multiple duplicate messages from women are proof to the fact that there are moderators behind profiles. After obtaining a woman's contact information they disappear. These women are here to make the men use up credits! Better off visiting the country to find your dream lady! Learn from a fool who spent thousands in pursuit of a dream girl!
Almost a year ago my friends recommended this site to me, everything look unusual and strange. The first girl I met there didn't look serious... But a few days I met my beloved, the first real meeting were half a year later and then we decided that we didn't want to let go each other, and now a year after registering there - we already live together, what I wish you too! I recommending the site! And I if you feeling chemistry - don't wait and meet her!
100% con company! They hire people for chatting. They call them "translators" or "chat operators". But the fact is you chat with different person than the one you see in pics. I wish AsiaCharm ladies were real, but it's just a very expensive illusion that has nothing to do with reality.
They really exploit the vulnerable! I want to warn all lonely men: don't fall victim to this scam! Avoid Asiacharm like plague! It's utter scam! Most Asian sites have gone 100% fraudulent now, there is total chaos there, everyone's just making money: the sites, local agencies, girls or boys who pretend to be the girls. They are making profit on lonely and gullible men: just avoid this con site, there are better and more honest alternatives.
None of the girls would reveal any contact details. When you ask them to use free media they side step it and beat around the bush. They are not really interested in relationship. They are interested in the flow of $. They are not genuine. They have other interests and goals.
Even if you are ready to travel to see them tomorrow, it's impossible to find at least 1 genuine girl who will meet you for real. I suspect that AsiaCharm pays their female members for chat sessions. An old trick in the scam book - f*#*ing disgusting and despicable!
I stopped using Asiacharm because of scammers and also because it's not the right time to travel to Asia. Well, you can't travel pretty much anywhere this time. So I just have fun online on
http://J4Dating.com
when I'm in the naughty mood, I like their girls better than Asiacharm girls, you can see them all on video and most like to show themselves on video and share fantasies. When corona goes away Ukraine will be my first priority travel destination.
This site wants you to pay them and you can get womans email after about 800 credits. But no phone number. If you think she can send you her phone number in email you are crazy. The CCP block it. If you send your phone number to her she will never get the email. The CCP block it. Bastards... Your only option is to go to China and stay in hotel. Tell her to come to hotel and meet in lobby. It is that bad.
I met my woman on J4Dream.com She is from Ukraine. We live together now. Women from Ukraine, Moldova, Poland, etc are more honest. I'm not saying that all Asian women are liars. There may be an honest dating site in Asia, but I haven't been able to find it. They all are tarnishing their names because of greed. Apply your common sense and stay away from AsiaCharm, fellows. They employ local girls who pretend to be looking for husband. Women imitate falling in love with you and chat with you for commission. It's really one of the lamest sites!
There is nothing charming about AsiaCharm, it's a complete rip off and money fraud. They operate on underhanded scammy business model. They employ local Asian boys and girls. Their job is to lure you in, seduce you and correspond with you so that you spend money on the site. I tried to set up dates with nine AsiaCharm women from China and Thailand and all of them escaped personal meetings at the last moment. Some of them came up with silly excuses. Others just suddenly lost their interest in me, stopped responding to my messages or disappeared from the site. Just avoid this scam!
You have to pay exorbitant fees to chat with these women who seem to be incentivized to guilt you into chatting. Try to suggest making contact off-site - they will all refuse. Whereas women from legit sites usually have normal reaction to this suggestion (most would agree if you have had a regular contact for a month or two). Exchanging emails or phone numbers is nothing out of ordinary for people who are interested in each other. But it's not something that women from AsiaCharm agree to. I deduct that they are shills for the site and they certainly get their percentage from what the men spend on them. Basically you just waste your money. Part of it is wasted on these scam artists and another part goes to fraudsters who run this money-scam site.
I set up an account with NO picture and garbage text from just dragging my hand across the keyboard.
Already I have 16 messages, 7 have added me to their favorites etc.
I have not paid this site a penny and never will. It's so clearly all fake.
Wasted time and money on this site.
When a lady was interested and we'd planned to meet in ho chi Minh, the site deleted her account. NO refunds, NO apologies, ONLY request for more money...jc
Gentlemen, I have read all your bad reviews about Asia Charm. But I needed to confirm it myself, so I registered and talked to just one girl for a month and she was doing everything you have said in your reviews. This is a 100% scam. By the way, I used my credits wisely.
Oh, I was forgetting suddenly she did not want to talk to me anymore and changed her profile photo twice and with totally two different people.
It's beyond me anybody could spend 100's or even 1000's of dollars on that site. Before I even used my 20 welcome credits I new it was fake. Got first messages like; you wanna marry me... What is your favorite dish, babe I want you now and cute messages like:
Dear Kenneth, My fingertips are too long to hurt my flowers. Can you do this difficult and beautiful task instead of me?
The welcome page for this site looks exactly the same as so many others. If you ask any of the girls you're chatting with to give their contact info you will never get a response, meaning either that text is censored and removed from your messages or the girls are just paid employees who cannot really provide the info. And their credits are structured such that you can only buy each of the cheaper schemes a maximum of two or three times. The next time you need to buy credit to continue chatting with their girls you have to buy a more expensive scheme. I never understood this because, why not allow the members to pay for what they can afford? And also consider that the girls never pay anything and they are forever sending you videos that cost 50 credits to view.
Please ' brother', do NOT get snaked by a pretty Asian girl! The letters are professionally written: not by the girl on the page or what you perceive in your mind. A scam, NOT real money gone; ALL a joke on us! ( I'm out $200.00!) My advice, local woman dating site or Fate- best regards, Robert
Another fraud, They want only the money from the people. Take care, most of pictures of wonderful ladies are made for professionals. If you want to get the details to contact any woman you have to spend 3000 credits as minimum and that means you have to pay more than one thousand dollars for at least.and only sending messages.
Answer: I lean towards scam too, and I'm pretty sure, because I could compare it with a legit site https://j4l.com/402007 Real girls on a legit site act differently: they aren't online 24/7, they don't want to chat for 4 hours and they are ready to meet pretty soon. None of that on Asiacharm, on the contrary, all they want to do is chat with you so that you keep spending your money, apparently they get a certain commission from what you spend in chat.
Answer: Lol no no no alla scam and i got over 700 mails fromseveral girls so it cost 10m credits to send mail ok so at 700thats a lot of cash lol. Also got aabout 5o0 bucks of messaages a day from several girls aand women lolso they all would have to make lots of cash every day lol no way and most girls are on all the time lolso whendo the so called doctors. Or any of them work at the jobs they say they have? Lolo like you have to be blind not to see that this is allfaake; ololo Just to add ive got several pgotos sent also ar 10 credits each lolso again on aaverage most of thse girls spent like well over 200 american bucks a day lolowow...
Answer: It seems to be a computer program that processes your mail and in most cases gets back at you with a question designed for you to spend more money. Specific questions in 99% of cases will not be addressed and you cannot exchange personal contact info, the site will block it out
Answer: Maybe because they would have to have them to post them. Zero real connections equals zero to post.
Answer: They get paid by how many credits they get you to spend. The profiles are supplied by "Independent Contractors " who get paid by how much money these profiles generate for the site. The site denies any responsibility for the quality of the "Ladies" that are supplied to them from these independent contractors. They also deny any responsibility to their male customers.
Answer: Absolutely, yes. There are a several, but from the ladies I've spoken with told me that they received a lot of pervs asking for naked photo's, so they're real cautious with those. Keep in mind that these ladies do work, but many are retired, and most of them left their husbands because of being cheated. Men to women ratio is unbelievable. I believe when they are 50 years of age, they receive a set amount from the government. It's not much to us here in the states, but it's enough to them by, so this is why many are looking for a way out of their country. But, think about. Wouldn't you do the same too. Overall, I found a few, but some are very limited, less members. I'll end it with this. These ladies are legit! Good, honest, respectful and kind. They just want to find a man that will do the same. They are such a loyal ladies. I only wish that I knew about this a long time ago. I am in my 50's and I've probably have 30 women that wants to communicate with me, but you need to stay focused. Don't jump the gun and reply to the first one. Believe me, more and more signs up every day, and majority are very nice, so I would say give it about a week, then make your picks. I have one that I've been talking with and she just sent me an email saying that she wants to come next month in November to make see that I'm for real, so I can't wait. There's one important thing though. Do not visit them first. This is very disrespectful. Let them come to you, and if things go well, She'll want you to go back with her to meet her family. When that is asked, you're done... of the market! Good luck to all of you! Austin Texas.
Answer: 1) Approach these types of sites for foreign brides with extreme skepticism. I have no doubt there may be some real diamonds in the haystack, but they are likely less than 10% of the profiles you will see. 2) If you want to interact with someone on the site, a good analogy is playing the slots or blackjack in a casino. At the casino, you keep dropping quarters or $1 coins and occasionally get a few back At the blackjack tables, in the afternoon, you might be lucky to find a $2 or $3 table, but by 5 pm the minimum play per hand is $5 and by 8pm $10. The e-mail on As Charm is the same, first letter $20 credits, everything after is $30 credits 2a) Just like in Vegas where the casinos make you buy chips, this site makes you buy 'credits' to play. Anyone in Psychology 101 knows the reason for this is the average person is reluctant to part with 'money' (it's too easy to see how much you've spent) but more difficult to keep track of the value of the red/blue/yellow/green and black chips in front of you. The casinos create an environment where it seems like you are playing with monopoly money, not the real stufff. As Charm does the same, it's trickier to have you pay 2 credits, 10 credits, 50 credits when you forget that each credit is costing you between $0.28 and $0.44 each (depending on which 'package' you buy. If you can train yourself to think in 'real' dollars, you'll be much more aware of how quickly you are draining your $25, $45, $70 package. 3) NEVER, EVER use your own credit card or debit card, if you feel you must purchase credits, go to your local market and buy a gift Visa or Mastercard and use that to pay. Then, As Charm and sister sites will never be able to tap your actual bank account, only up to the max value of the gift card. 3a) Credit card companies will reimburse you for fraudulent/disputed transactions as well as they can put a block on that payee from hitting your account again (but you could be playing whack-a-mole if the sister sites start billing). YOU DO NOT HAVE THE SAME PROTECTION if you use your debit card, banks are not required to offer the same dispute standards 4) If the photos look professionally done, they are, and they are obvious. Examples might include the girl's hair blowing in the wind. If you have kids, you know when they take school photographs that they can pose your child in front of all types of fake backgrounds, like standing next to the library shelf or in front of a green foliage background. Again, be skeptical, look for the same type of faux background. Clues might be no shadows on the ground, or the girl is standing in front of everything and all the action is behind her. 4a) Real people might only post 1 or 2 picture. The bot profiles will usually have 6 - 10, with multiple shots in the same outfit but in different poses and 3 - 5 hidden photos that you can only see once you begin to chat with the girl 4b) It's pretty easy to spot real pictures that were not taken of models, the framing and lighting won't be perfect, the backgrounds won't be so pristine. 4c) If the girl has perfect smooth, silky skin, BULLSHIT ALERT. Real people have wrinkles, crows feet around the eyes, double chin, blemishes, scars, freckles, blackheads etc, 5) If you start to see the same clothing being worn on multiple profiles, probably a fake profile 6) Anyone asking you to buy them gifts in the first 40 messages, BULLSHIT ALERT 7) Anyone asking you to send money for thier sick parent/grandparent/sibling/child, BULLSHIT ALERT 8) If you are receiving the same cycle of messages over and over, sometimes only 1 message, sometimes 2, the most I've seen is three, BULLSHIT ALERT. 9) If you are seeing the same message wording on multiple profiles, BULLSHIT ALERT 10) If her message says not to worry about money and you'll never have to work again because she/her family are fabulously rich, BULLSHIT ALERT 11) Does the age /weight/ height of the person in the picture 'fit' the profile description? I'd estimate most of the 'potentially legitimate' profiles I've come across belong to women over age 45, but you will see pictures of some older women make them look 20 - 25 years old. 11a) Most older women 'plump out' as they age, so you should see some rolls of fat, love handles, turkey neck hanging from the upper arms, thickness in the face 11b) The vast majority of Asian women, don't age well, they tend to look more shriveled up, like a raisin, again, look at the skin characteristics 12) Fake boobs. I don't know how prevalent silicon breasts are in Asia, particularly China, but the overwhelming majority of profiles I've come across all have fake racks 13) If you've found someone you think is the real thing, when you message back and forth, is the response appropriate to the question. AI works off of key words, so you may see an automatic response rather than a specific response 13a) Ask open questions that a AI bot can't answer. My favorite is "which of you photos do you think is my favorite?" Out of asking that question 30+times, in only two instances did i receive a response that seemed to make sense, if the girl responded to the question at all. 13b) Another favorite of mine is to tell the girl she reminds me of (fill in the blank) actress or singer and ask if she knows or has seen them I would expect the answer to be 'NO,' just as I couldn't name more than 2 or 3 chinese actors or musicians. You might use the name of a male actor to see if the girl catches it. For bonus points, send a YouTube video link and see if you get any response to the action in that scene. 113c) Send a message of total gibberish, random keystrokes and see if the reply makes sense. Since it won't translate, a real girl would reply What, I don't understand, what do you mean? 13d) Send a sentence in Spanish, French or German, does the reply make sense 14) Hong Kong, Korean and perhaps Filipina women can be very forward, like New Yorkers, but most Asians are not. Any opening messages that claim how much they love you, know you are the right fit and want a trustworthy loyal husband to take care of, BULLSHIT ALERT. 15) A number of times you may get messages indicating they have their visa and can you pick them up at the airport on (the 30th), You might say yes you will, but expect them to ask you to send money for the cost of the flight or other costs BULLSHIT ALERT 16) In controlled counties like China, where even internal travel is difficult (you need a permit to travel from the countryside into most larger cities, any girl sying how much she loves to travel should be suspect, BULLSHIT ALERT. 16a) If the girl says she wants to travel the world, ask where she has been so far? 17) Be conscientious of time zone differences. Is it 3am in China when the girl is sending you emails or messages?) 18) Remember, be skeptical, rinse, wash, repeat. It's your money, spend it as you wish. I for one, think of As Charm as being equivalent to the 'virtual' weapons or similar you might buy if you are a gamer. 19) NEVER, EVER click/pay to see more photos, open an audio or video message or any of the other 'up-sell' gimmicks, especially if they are being sent without your asking. They are click-bait to get you to use your credits up faster 20) Don't pay for stickers and other click candy. You can insert emojis in a message reply. You may need to create the sentence in Word, cut and paste into the message box 21) My last test, since the site wants you to part with 3,000 credits to exchange contact information, is to indicate will be traveling to 'country' soon, you will be in such & such city at such & such hotel and ask them to meet you there. Pick a name of the city which is different from the one in her profile, or don't name this city, but something it is known for that AI likely wouldn't process. For instance, I'll be in Guangzhou for the toy fair or Chengdu for Cherry Blossom Festival, or make up your own event. Does the reply match the information you've just given? BULLSHIT ALERT 22) If you are receiving messages from potential brides telling you how handsome you are, and your the man they've always been dreaming of, before you've posted any pictures, BULLSHIT ALERT. 23) Websites based in Cyprus or an island in the Caribbean should ALWAYS be treated with skepticism. These countries have very lax fraud and consumer protection laws. Think of this as similar to the way US cruise ships use a Panamanian flag of convenience' to avoid US regulations 24) There are no doubt many more red flags out there that should be activating your BULLSHIT ALERT, but I hope you find this list to be fairly comprehensive.
AsiaCharm has a rating of 1.5 stars from 73 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers dissatisfied with AsiaCharm most frequently mention asian women and fake profiles. AsiaCharm ranks 73rd among Asian Dating sites.
Hi Kale,
We appreciate you sharing your experience. Ensuring a safe and trustworthy environment for all users is a priority for us. Our platform has strict guidelines in place, and we encourage users to report any suspicious activity so our moderation team can review and take appropriate action.
If you’ve encountered profiles that seem fraudulent or misleading, please don’t hesitate to reach out to our support team at support@asiacharm.com with the details. We take such concerns seriously and continuously work to improve the security of our platform.
Kind regards,
Luna from AsiaCharm