• AdultFriendFinder

AdultFriendFinder

Overview

AdultFriendFinder has a rating of 1.95 stars from 664 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers complaining about AdultFriendFinder most frequently mention fake profiles, customer service, and gold membership problems. AdultFriendFinder ranks 721st among Dating sites.

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  • Returns
    41
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  • Customer service is beyond pathetic can never get a supervisor on the line.
  • You can pay for a Silver or Gold membership and meet people for sex.
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Top Positive Review

“Not for youngsters”

Seenvik H.
3/7/24

Youngsters, pass it by, it's not for y'all :) Jokes aside this is a great service uniting lone hearts around the globe =) I used it regularly and have no complaints at all. It was interesting for me how things are done here, but now, after testing the waters, I am like a fish in it. A couple of simple steps and you aren't alone anymore, and next day, and the following too. Ha, thank you guys for creating this dating service, for me it's of utmost importance having a such one under the belt.

Top Critical Review

“Illegal site. It is not free. Fake ladies that try to blackmail you. Do Not Sign Up. You regret it.”

Jerry B.
2/11/24

The site states "FREE". Wrong, it's not and the ladies are fake. A fake front to blackmail you. They threaten to post all your information on the web, but don't fall for it. They place very attractive pictures and a chart will start. You think you are taking to a lady but you are not. It's a scam. Do not send any photos of yourself. Avoid this site at all cost. I canceled and deleted all my information within a half hour.

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customer service (29) gold membership (26)
Thumbnail of user seenvikh
4 reviews
0 helpful votes
March 7th, 2024

Youngsters, pass it by, it's not for y'all :)
Jokes aside this is a great service uniting lone hearts around the globe =)
I used it regularly and have no complaints at all. It was interesting for me how things are done here, but now, after testing the waters, I am like a fish in it. A couple of simple steps and you aren't alone anymore, and next day, and the following too. Ha, thank you guys for creating this dating service, for me it's of utmost importance having a such one under the belt.

Thumbnail of user larryr467
3 reviews
15 helpful votes
July 23rd, 2022

I've already found my "adult friend" on
J4Luv.com
(a working site, by the way) but I'm still struggling to stop AFF from billing me. They say the auto pay box was checked which is not true. I'm always very aware about such things and security on the net. But AFF just do whatever they want with impunity. They get away with scamming people. Don't fall victim to their fraud. Be wary of AFF, they are money hungry rogues. They have lots of sneaky methods for getting your money without providing any service. One click pay and auto renewals are especially dangerous!

Thumbnail of user shawnr375
2 reviews
14 helpful votes
August 23rd, 2022

Mere rip off. I use JoySexFun.com as the easiest way. They have so many gorgeous sexy girls and it's possible to meet some of them in real. This is something that really works. In my experience it's worth every cent, because I get to meet with several girls every couple of weeks. AdultFriendFinder doesn't even compare. Free options don't work there and once you have made a payment with your credit card, they are going to overcharge you and you can't stop it. There is no choice for the money you pay. And no easy way to stop it.

Thumbnail of user adriany12
2 reviews
11 helpful votes
June 16th, 2022

I stopped using it and switched to J4Sex.com
I became a fan of cam sites like (this one is the best) and some others. I never thought it was my cup of tea, but you never know until you try. It's a gift to the eyes and to what's in your pants, especially when you get to hook up some of these girls for real - it's possible, moreover, it's way easier than on AdultFriendFinder, cause they have no fake profiles or catfishers – and that's the magic of it.
The only thing AdultFriendFinder company is busy with is swindling people out of money. It's bait and switch. They entice you into purchasing their overpriced membership by sending you auto-generated messages. When you join AFF as a paying member nothing happens. It's not possible to meet any of these girls cause they have mostly fake profiles and catfishers – and that's why it doesn't work.

Thumbnail of user kathyk652
1 review
6 helpful votes
April 18th, 2021

Fake profiles men are married women are married or hookers look up wit the better business bureau!
Here is a fake for an example

Thumbnail of user alisonb41
1 review
7 helpful votes
April 5th, 2017

Been on there off and on 10 or so Years. Been to SEVERAL meets and parties! I've made tons of fun friends and have more fun clubbing and swinging with them then any other peer genre! Too many nasty old, fat, desperate mean with high expectations. True sex addicts and swingers love this site and it works well for them.

Thumbnail of user johnc2096
1 review
20 helpful votes
April 19th, 2019

I am fed up with people on hear sayin AFF or hookuphangout or what ever other good site dont work fast enuff. Seriosly man get a grip! Ur not buyin a hooker here its an art form if u cant handle it get out eh! Free sex from birds that u can chat 2 an some times even do the $#*! buddy thing with. Cheaper and all that 2 man. Seriosly ppl nd to check their expectasions lol GET A GRIP WHAT DO U LOT WNT 4 NUTHING?! Enjoy stop moaning lol

Thumbnail of user geirb3
4 reviews
15 helpful votes
January 8th, 2021

$40 down the drain. Spent on bots and fakes, because I believed that my profile had been viewed and liked by real people. Of course after I paid those profiles were nowhere to be found. You can't decipher who is who on AFF, there are just way too many scammers and fakes there, they draw you in by sexy profiles just to pull in some cash from you. AdultFriendFinder's conception sounds good in theory but fails terribly in implementation. I wish they cleared out all scammers but nothing deters them from getting on AFF. Anyway I left it because I don't want to waste months and years on sorting out all the scammers who have many slick schemes of fleecing you out of your money.

Thumbnail of user reggieb10
1 review
4 helpful votes
February 20th, 2017

I use AFF. I search by zip n neva hav any trouble findin fly honeys to flirt wit. Only site comes close to this one is hookuphangout an you know im all over that. But it dont hurt nuthin to double down in this game. In short homies y'all could do worse than this site find out for yoself n dont listen to no haters. Hope you like my free advice! Reggie

Thumbnail of user roddym2
1 review
4 helpful votes
January 25th, 2016

Been a while, but i got in plenty of trouble, on that site. Mostly dude's wives on there.
If you're good looking & have a personality, it works fine.
Not my type of deal any longer, plus, it's been hacked & anyone can find your real I.D., if you're a member.

Thumbnail of user dong142
3 reviews
21 helpful votes
July 15th, 2018

I don't believe these people are saying it's fake! I've met LOTS of REAL people on it. If you're a single guy, it's more difficult, granted, but as a couple, it's easy as pie to get other couples to swing with. I live in a small city of only 70,000 people. Can you imagine what it would be like in a metropolis?!?!

Thumbnail of user deane33
1 review
3 helpful votes
October 23rd, 2017

I found this to be a waste of money and one massive scam. Lots of adds, replies to messages were fishing scams and profile views were only from Korea and China. There is a mountain of women on there from aldershot. Fake fake fake. Go elsewhere!

Thumbnail of user faithk6
5 reviews
3 helpful votes
June 27th, 2016

Great way to communicate

Thumbnail of user hildas47
1 review
6 helpful votes
January 22nd, 2021

EVERYONE ON THIS SITE ARE SCAMMERS I HAD TRANVESTITE REPORT ME! AND THE PIG WAS
JEALOUS OF MY BEAUTY QUEEN HILDA SPEAKS OUT DONT WASTE A PENNNY ON THIS SCAM SITE ITS FOR SUCKERS THE WOMEN REAL PROSITUTES HOOKERS BEGGING FIR REAL MONEY AGE
RANGE 42TO 64 I HAD A TRANVESTITE JEALOUS OF ME AND MY ACCT WAS DEACTIVATED WRONGLY
BECAUSE THUS FREAK WAS JEALOUS OF ME! WROTE ALL OVER PROFILE JUMPED ONTO FRIENDS LIST THE HE-SHE ASKS 4 REAL$$$ TO SHOW HIS GOOD. THAT IS AGAINST THEIR RULES
HES STILL ACTIVE BECAUSE THEY ARE BASED IN THE PHILIPINES AND THEY CUT YOU OFF AND CANT SPEAK ENGLISH AND UNDERSTAND THEM EITHER MY ADVICE TO ANYONE YOUNG OR OLD
SAVE YOU DOUGH! THEY BASED IN CALIF THEY SAY IN CALIF TOUGH SUE US. HOW RUDE CAN COMPANY BE?---------ITS A CHEAP CHEECHIE SITE FOR REAL MEN STAY AWAY THE WOMEN R
AGE 42- 64 WITH FAKE PROFILES. AND FAKE BREASTS AND SHOW SUCKING MENS GENTIALS WITH SORES ON THEM HOW LOW CAN YOU GO ANYONE READING THIS REPORT TO BBB HEALTH DEPT IN YOUR CITY. OMG WHAT A DISASTEROUS SITE FOR SUCKERS. THE QUEEN SPEAKS THE TRUTH I GOT OUT. AFTER A FREAK WAS AFTER ME ASKING FOR REAL MONEY
IN A PANDEMIC HOW LOW CAN THESE FREAK CAN GO! TWO PEOPLE I AM MENTION HERE
ARE ON candiegirl 6789 ASKS 4 $500 VIA PAY PAL TO SHOW HIS GOODS A SCAMMER/FAKE&bimlf1977 sucks sore on mens gentials is disturbing ON ADFF! SAVE YOUR MONEY
REAL PROFESSIONAL MEN! THE WOMEN ARE ON THEIR 4 YRS WITH OLD PICTURES THE QUEEN
HILDA SPEAKS THE TRUTH! GET A LIFE STAY OFF ADFF!

Tip for consumers:
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Thumbnail of user lf8
1 review
6 helpful votes
July 11th, 2013

The site is great even though you have to sign up and write a profile thats nothing out of the ordinal but once your on they have free web videos live streaming you can webcam back free and the best IM around for meeting women men transvestites couples and even group sessions dont get me wrong paying for the website is pointless but its the best for free adult hook up and even relationships just depending on what your looking for

Thumbnail of user jend17
1 review
6 helpful votes
May 1st, 2015

Since 2008 I only paid for a 3 month membership one time. I have had the "gold" for about the last 3 years and have not paid anything more ever. I guess it's due to the popularity of my profile and my being active in the online community of AFF. Even if you don't want to pay, you can still access a certain amount of stuff as a standard member. You can view 1 webcam at a time of live actual members(free), You can chat all day long in any public rooms, blog, join groups, send like 10 emails a day that you initiate. There are for sure limitations, but it really is legitimate.

There is going to be BS anywhere you go in real life or virtual. The experience you have with the BS is going to be based on your reactions to what you come across. Just ignore anybody asking for personal info from the start, and don't give out your credit card for any reason! It may take you a little time to feel out what is fake and what is not, but I say worth it! I have met many people from AFF and most I still keep in contact with even from 7 years ago. I even just blogged about this being a real site. It really is a fun community to be a part of.
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Thumbnail of user jasonb350
1 review
7 helpful votes
April 13th, 2018

Ive been a member of this site for almost 20 years its changed ownership about 10 I remember when it was free for everyone now you cant even view a profile now with Craigslist shutting dow its personals section they now went up 10-15 dollars in membership price...

Thumbnail of user belindas20
2 reviews
12 helpful votes
June 21st, 2017

I was on another site. Met a guy who told me about AFF. I signed up.

Have been on AFF for a little over a year and a half. Have nothing but praise. When AFF works, it WORKS! For the most part, I have met some truly wonderful men. Local men, business men coming through my area, couples. Overwhelmingly positive experience and exactly what I was looking for: no strings, no drama, casual sex. For this middle-aged, non-vanilla female, my inbox overflows. Every now and again there's a knuckle dragger or lunatic, but the MAJORITY of the men I've either met or chatted with have been funny, smart and kind. To the men out there, yes there are plenty of scammers, pros and fake profiles but you have to be patient, And yes, there are way more men on AFF then women. What works for me? Intelligence. If you approach me with that "wanna F***" crap, guess what, your email/message gets deleted. Do not expect a woman to f*** you that night. Use your other head, lol.

Tip for consumers:
Don't be a knuckle dragger. Don't be rude. Don't be sexually aggressive. Use your other head. Be patient. A photo of your face goes much further than a photo of your d***.

Thumbnail of user stevej20
1 review
10 helpful votes
March 28th, 2012

AFF is not a scam. I've banged around 5 women from the site. Yes, they false advertise with fake profiles, but once you're in the profiles are all genuine. Here's the trick to it: You have to send a PM to EVERY SINGLE woman in your area. You'll get around 3-4 replies to every 100 emails and all but 1 will fizzle out to nothing. IMO a batch of 100-200 PM's will get you sex at least once.

Thumbnail of user stever136
2 reviews
14 helpful votes
January 19th, 2017

I am guy from Singapore and I used many hook up sites in the past, also AFF. I am not sure how it works in other countries but in Singaore it good! AFF and CasualDating4u are the two only sites which work for me.

Thumbnail of user jasong96
1 review
3 helpful votes
January 19th, 2017

There is a lot of fake profiles that scam you into believing that there are in your local area visiting for a couple days for example California but are originally from another state/country. DO NOT! Fall for any one time fee for booking it is a total scam. They will go through great lengths and constant messaging to try to convince you to send money overseas or to the Philippines Manager EldieSandoval aka Rico villa

Thumbnail of user brianb164
1 review
1 helpful vote
April 8th, 2016

My name is brian I'm 29 yrs old looking for a wild friend who love sex and down to having a good time I live in jamestown north Dakota I'm down to earth caring and loving and have so much to offer can't wait to hear from you

Thumbnail of user fransp
1 review
1 helpful vote
May 14th, 2015

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Thumbnail of user jacobm119
1 review
8 helpful votes
March 31st, 2018

Now that Craigslist removed personal ads, reliable hookup sites like Adultfriendfinder and CasualDating4u are even more important. I know they ain't perfect but with all the scam sites out there those are the only legit options left. Keep it up guys.

Thumbnail of user sethj6
1 review
2 helpful votes
November 17th, 2013

I've been on the site for a week now. I've hooked up with one single girl and two girls while their partners watched (straight only). Let's be realistic here. I'm 29, very toned/athletic, and am very well hung. I have brown hair, blue-green eyes, and am probably a 7.5 - 8/10 realistically. If you aren't on the higher levels of attraction with a large 3rd leg you probably won't have any luck.

Of the people I met the single girl contacted me, one of the couples contacted me, and I contacted one of the couples. The one I contact was really hot. She was so hot she actually won a contest on the site.

The single girl wasn't too attractive but I already made the drive out there so whatever. The other girl that had a b/f was ok. Blonde hair, blue eyes, fake boobs, decently smooth stomach.

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