Hi Deborah,
This is Jill, the owner. I have a team of wonderful customer support people who take great care of our members. I also personally reply to messages sent to me as well, however I do receive hundreds a day, so sometime I miss a few. Jan, if you have questions, please contact my fabulous support team: Support@SpiritualSingles.com. And just a note, that it's rare for the owner of a dating site to correspond directly with members, but I always have, as I truly care about our members. Hope this helps! Much love, Jill

I did write the owner. She wrote back the first time. The second time, no answer. Both were legitimate questions.