Secret Benefits has a rating of 3.74 stars from 434 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally satisfied with their purchases. Reviewers satisfied with Secret Benefits most frequently mention customer service, sugar baby, and nice guys. Secret Benefits ranks 721st among Dating sites.
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I admit that I spent a lot of time just looking at the women and considering options. Guess you can call me a tire kicker. Once I finally gathered myself and decided to get credits to message a beauty that grabbed my attention in particular I realized that this site was legit as we struck up a great convo and are currently dating on the reg.
Lots of users and many contacts. All of whom seem to have ADD and so never reply past their initial contact. It's almost as if they're contacting you to get you to spend your credits (it's 10 credits to reply to a message or initiate contact) My biggest complaint however is that site administrators will edit your profile info if they don't like the tone. They even removed text from my profile because I said I didn't smoke and didn't want to match with those who do.
I admit that I spent a lot of time just looking at the women and considering options. Guess you can call me a tire kicker. Once I finally gathered myself and decided to get credits to message a beauty that grabbed my attention in particular I realized that this site was legit as we struck up a great convo and are currently dating on the reg.
Tip for consumers:
no, thank you.
Products used:
Dating service
I found sb to be a well balanced date site. Modern with many women in my area. Not all respond to my outreach but the ones that do are pleasant and open to meeting and discussing what we both want. Haven't settled one anyone but having fun with the process
Tip for consumers:
Not really
Total scam. Took my $170 and deleted me the first day for unspecified violations of their rules. When I specifically asked them how I violated they didn't answer and said I would receive a refund in five to ten business days. But they charged my account the same day. And I didn't get my refund so I'm complaining to my credit card company.
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Hi. Just for those wondering about secretbenefits.com, it does work. I was on for about 4 months and met many fine ladies until I met my current gf. Could say was love at first site. I recommend to try if curious to find a good match.
Tip for consumers:
You pay for credits to chat.
I'm still on the search for a man that can pay the bills, but is not old enough to be my actual daddy, or grandpa for that matter! The last couple of men I went out with were for sure older than they said. Ok, whatever, I understand that's typical in the sugar daddy world. Personally, I just wish Secret Benefits would try to get some younger affluent guys on the site. Otherwise, the site works as it should, but for the aforementioned reason, I feel 4 stars is fair.
I enrolled on SB, wrote a profile with my preferences such as women between 50-65, non-smoker, etc. Not one of the responses was from a supposed woman in this age group (almost all were in their 20s-30s -- I'm not interested in a woman young enough to be my daughter or granddaughter), about half or more were smokers, etc. It was as if the responders didn't read what I had written or were bots automatically responding to every new man on the site. I got off the site quickly, spent nothing, and was glad.
Tip for consumers:
I spent nothing, so there is no refund.
This hasn't been my first choice, but 2nd time giving SB a try, and I'm actually meeting women now.
This site is restoring my faith in finding someone special to share my very fortunate life with.
Tip for consumers:
Spell check. Be respectful.
I jumped on SB mostly out of curiosity to see if I would have better luck than I was with a couple other major dating sites I'm on. I understand I'm the "new girl" in my area right now, but I've been getting a lot of positive attention so far. I went on my first date from the site last weekend. Really nice guy, a bit older than I normally date, but he was really fun and generous. I agreed to see him again. Happy with how things are going so far.
Thanks for taking the time to share your experience with others. I'm glad to hear you found a nice guy and I hope that continues to go well.
I emailed Secret Benefits to share with them that couple of clients were posting false photos. I was a paying member and they just shut down my account and band me. What do honest people get punished for trying to help/aware to be stand up company!
Tip for consumers:
If they were a stand up company they would not take that kind of action on honest customers!
Lots of beautiful women but I'm suspicious if there is a kick back to the girls for getting you to message them or unlock their private photos (nothing special). Smallest credits package is 200 credits for $89 (about 45 cents per credit). 10 credits for unlimited messaging to a user or to open private photos. Do both and you're out 20 credits (or $9). Women message you and when you reply, you never hear from them again. Some will converse a basic sentence until you also open their private album and then you never hear from them again. One was kind enough to reply and even agree for a date to meet, and then disappeared. May be they are just looking for a billionaire but there must be some type of incentive to get guys to pay to read their generic/general message in the meantime.
UPDATE:
Shortly after this review was posted, Liz from SB Support contacted me with some possible explanations for low response and tips (I wasn't aware they even had support). SB also credited me my last purchase and encouraged me to give it a little more time. Rating is updated from 1 Star. May do a follow up to this one.
Tip for consumers:
Still up in the air and can't change my title for this review
I gotta Give a shout out to the SB support. Very fast response and it was clear that I was communicating with a real person that understood and sympathized with my situation. This is one of the things that makes a dating website like this one great👏🏻
Tip for consumers:
Dont hesitate to reach out to the se guys for anything you need!
This is definitely a scam site. My guess is that the girls get paid a commission to up charge you. Example: They send you an email. You pay to read it and respond. They don't respond to your email. Instead they share their additional photos which you need to pay to see. But they never respond to the email.
Tip for consumers:
There are real sites out there. This is not one of them.
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I've been on SB for couple years now. I have met a few interesting women but not long term. Some women think very high of themselves and I'm sure some guys are obnoxious as women have told me. I tend to be older and selective so I may not be best judge. There are many different choices if you live in high population area.
I do often wonder why so many women say hi but never respond again even after you keep trying.
Many more misses than hits but isn't that true about dating in general?
Tip for consumers:
Have low expectations and persistence and be prepared to spend for quality.
Products used:
Online dating service with twist.
I've been using this dating website for several months now and can attest to it being a good service. Secretbenefits is better than others in the space if you are looking for somewhat unconventional dating
Tip for consumers:
You can start a simple profile just too look
I am happy that I found this dating site. Really fair pricing to start chats with real beauties. Not all have worked out but on average I am doing alright with finding dates when I want to.
Cheers
Karo
Tip for consumers:
Just don't let the convos drop because there are probably a lot of men messaging the same babe especially if she is hot.
Wow, nice to meet guys for nsa hookup. All things are secret, that is crazy. Not like other dating apps, you need to avoid the offender or sexual assault.
You will receive short, ambiguous, bot generated messages from fake users. You must pay to open the messages.
When you pay and respond you don't get a reply.
Sucked into a waste of money...
Don't be fooled.
Tip for consumers:
Hope I help someone
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I am giving a shout to Secret Benefits for their service particularly support today getting back with resolution.
I haven't found serious log term but there are some real people looking for connections from my experience.
Tip for consumers:
Not really. They run a good operation
Yeah most definitely bots here, I'm a fan of most Credit systems in general however on this site it seems that you get tons of interest from girls who favorite you, give you access to their private pictures and message you, then seem to ghost you after you unlock the messaging portion. I honestly would not bother. Secret benefits was nice enough to refund me and provide additional credits, I did get marginal success with more credits so there are some real girls out there!
Tip for consumers:
Just don’t
Lots of users and many contacts. All of whom seem to have ADD and so never reply past their initial contact. It's almost as if they're contacting you to get you to spend your credits (it's 10 credits to reply to a message or initiate contact)
My biggest complaint however is that site administrators will edit your profile info if they don't like the tone. They even removed text from my profile because I said I didn't smoke and didn't want to match with those who do.
After my initial review about presence of bots, SB came back and explained the situation. So I am going to give them benefit of doubt and continue using the site. Will update this again later based on the outcome.
The structure of payment strongly encourages fakes, meaning, you pay to contact a woman, even if she's only on the site for one day and then vanishes. That happens all the time. You'll see a cute new girl, you reach out (which is how the site makes its money), and the next day she's listed as "no longer active." It just feels like a lot the people I write are set up by the company, and it makes me wonder if they should be investigated. I could be wrong. And there ARE real girls on there, too, I've met some really nice ones. It just feels like I should get a bunch of credits back for all the times I write someone who's on the site for one day and then is gone.
One more thing -- it's kind of fun and diverting. I have my system set to log on regularly, it's kind of like a coffee break. If I find a real girl -- there are some -- great. If not, I lost some money to a bot scam, but what do you expect, it's a sugar daddy website, I can't find a single one that gets good reviews. All the same, it'd be nice if they refunded credits wasted on girls who pop up for a day and then vanish.
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Thanks for taking the time to share your experience on the site. All of the profiles on the site are submitted by real users and we encourage you and others to report any profiles that you feel are not playing by the rules. I'm glad you have had some fun and hope you'll have even more in the future.
Secret benefits is not going to be for everyone but for those looking for a more straightforward arrangement this should serve u well as it has been serving me.
Tip for consumers:
get the verification done
This site is hilarous. I really don't think I've encountered a site so full of scams in my life. It's just so blatantly bad… and as for the reviews, I mean come on, who's writes this nonsense.
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I am writing here to say that I have met a real beauty that has captured my heart. I honestly never thought I would meet someone like Rebecca. Pinching myself right now.
How can I take my profile down or hide it is my question now.
Tip for consumers:
Pursue the one you want with total honesty and an open heart
Secret Benefits is a dynamic online meeting place where generous and attractive people can find their dream relationship. Millions of people have used Secret Benefits to find adventure and companionship, creating unique relationships that are mutually fulfilling. Find your ideal date today.
Thanks for your fair review Gretchen. If you've seen someone who is being dishonest on their profile please report them to our customer support team. There are lots of different sugar daddies on the Secret Benefits, including the young affluent type you speak of, keep at it and I'm sure you'll find one that suits you.