• ChnLove

Overview

ChnLove has a rating of 3.46 stars from 621 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally satisfied with their purchases. Reviewers satisfied with ChnLove most frequently mention beautiful ladies, customer service, and live chat. ChnLove ranks 8th among International Dating sites.

  • Service
    98
  • Value
    92
  • Returns
    73
  • Quality
    89
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What reviewers want you to know

Positive highlights

  • I like the Chinese girls, i think Chinese girls are easy going.It got you great matches.
  • The best site one could use to hook up with beautiful Chinese women.

Critical highlights

  • Any site that wont allow you to exchange email addresses is a scam.
  • Once you spent more money to have the contact information, these ladies disappeared, do not answer emails...
How would you rate ChnLove?
Top Positive Review

“Honestly, it's sort of a good dating site”

Johnathan T.
2/1/21

I've been crushing on Asian girls and want to find an Asian girlfriend. So I look up online and found this online dating site. I've been chatting with several girls. Well, I should say it's a good journey

Top Critical Review

“So-so”

Phucker J.
4/23/20

This is a very good example of how a dating site that helps married people find affairs should be like. It's not the fastest to work but if you have half a bloody brain then you know theres no such thing as a quick bang when your married. It takes time and effort to plan ahead and pick the right chicks to meet. The good news is no strings affair ticks the boxes for me anyway.

Reviews (621)

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Thumbnail of user johnathant29
1 review
0 helpful votes
February 1st, 2021

I've been crushing on Asian girls and want to find an Asian girlfriend. So I look up online and found this online dating site. I've been chatting with several girls. Well, I should say it's a good journey

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Thumbnail of user dead3
1 review
0 helpful votes
April 11th, 2019

After having some problem of communication with my lady I was told that many factors can come into play and adversely affect even a genuine communication outcome. These advice and help is taken in good faith. On this basis, with the assistance of the customer care team, I will make contact with my lady once again. With patience and understanding it is my hope that we can overcome our past communication difficulties. I believe in my heart we can be a match finally.

Thumbnail of user beand2
1 review
1 helpful vote
April 30th, 2019

Thanks so much for the customer support team of this site, showing friendship... wisdom... understanding and sincerity. I have a greater appreciation of the culture and relationships with the ladies also. This site opened my eyes to new values of thinking and I know there is culture and language barriers and it is a big step for the ladies plus myself! The thoughtfulness and consideration from the team really appreciate. Hopefully I will find my loving Chinese lady soon...

Thumbnail of user hansh104
1 review
1 helpful vote
April 26th, 2021
• Updated review

I would like to add a few more things to my first review.
I can well imagine that there were also disappointments. To everyone who thinks this site is a scam site.
Take a realistic look from your side what the chances of success are. They are always at 50:50.
The more realistic you are, the more points you collect on the left. Deal with your appearance and how you want the woman by your side to look. The women pay an entrance fee. It is mostly women who have to make a compromise because they have little chance of finding a man on the Chinese marriage market.
Most prospects can be found on such a page.
Language barrier: All letters are translated from English to Chinese. Very few women can speak English.
A woman's first letter is always free, at least that was the case in my case. Don't be blinded by photos. It was also my first mistake with two women.
Note the age difference. When a single 25 year old woman writes to a man over 50, it is an attempt at fraud. No young woman of this age is really looking for a man over 50. And she is still under family wing. Parents pay attention to who they drag in. So stay away and ignore it at all. Letters from such women only generate sales. Women over 30 with children. The chances of entering into a relationship with such a woman are far from higher. These women can hardly be placed any more. The parents of such a woman know that too. Parents are more willing to give their consent to marry a western man.
This can sometimes be a reason why pre-arranged meetings do not take place. The woman is under immense family pressure. And the family counts once more than an unknown and waiting man at the airport. And a meeting with only two or three corrosponding letters is unrealistic.
Don't apply pressure to meet. The lady of your heart, as she really means it, will urge you to meet you. It was the same with my wife. She asked after a few letters whether it was possible that I could visit her in China. You yourself do not benefit if you suggest an appointment and flimsy excuses come up. I had seen it with two women before. One had to go to another city for work and didn't know how long it would take, and the other said she would have to meet another candidate with whom she was also in contact. That was at least honestly true, but I saw myself as a second choice. I broke off contact with both of them, although they were still writing to me. I saved the cost of reading. Then my current wife appeared.
Get names of hotels in their area.
At that time I asked my wife to choose and name several hotels in her area. She did this too. And via a hotel platform I was able to find all the hotels she named. A scammer won't bother.

My wife also wanted her translator to be there.
I found this to be an additional positive sign and of course I agreed.
I had also written down the address of the branch and took it with me when I met for the first time. As a precaution, there should be a meeting. In my last letter before the meeting, I gave the name of the hotel and my cell phone number. Of course, it was also a risk for me. But to my surprise, the translator announced on the same day of our arranged meeting that they would pick me up at a certain time to go out to eat. And in fact they had arrived by taxi at the appointed time. One more thing about behavior. Even if the lady visits you alone in the hotel. Keep your hands with you. Act like a gentleman. The ladies appreciate it. I met my wife on Wednesdays. On Thursday she bought a tablet with translation software. On Thursday evenings she was alone with me in the hotel room. I made no signs of wanting to get closer to her. And on Fridays when visiting the Water Museum in Shenzhen, it was she who took my hand in the taxi and couldn't let go of my hand. With that I knew I had won her heart.

Retouches the photos very well and puts the women in the limelight
April 22nd, 2021
• Previous review

To put it casually, the site has nothing to do with scam. It may be that one or the other translator has something else in mind. It's a business and of course the translators don't do it for free. I also got to know my wife through this site. Apart from that, the brides also have to dig deep into their pockets. The professional photos alone cost a lot of money. The only thing I have to complain about is that many photos are retouched too much. My wife was also portrayed as a beauty. The photos digress far from reality. My wife has a bunch of these photos What struck me, however, was the text of the letter. My wife referred to my letters in all of her letters. That gave me the assurance that I wasn't dealing with a scammer. When my wife sent me a real photo with her daughter, I was not disappointed, but she looked very different from the profile pictures sent so far. But to be honest, I also like her real pictures very much and so I knew what I was getting into. And when we first met, everything evaporated. She had made herself very well. Her translator was there too. And so it turned out to be an unforgettable 10 days. Despite her job as a piano teacher, she took a lot of time for me. Except at the weekend, when she had a full program, she couldn't meet me. For this she asked her translator to take care of me. Of course, I had to make up for the translator's loss of earnings. This annoyed my wife very much and so she ended the friendship with the translator. We no longer needed a translator in the following 10-day meetings. Apart from that, we got married in Hong Kong and celebrated with her colleagues in Shenzhen. And this in a manageable circle without a lot of frills. And when I look at the expenses for this wedding, the equivalent of 90 € for space plus decoration as well as food and drink. The expenses for all the translations are put into perspective.

Tip for consumers:
Pay attention to the letters whether the woman takes a position on the letter. If she barely remembers it, or only sends short and unimportant letters, to the trash. A woman with real interest will write longer letters and answer your letters.

Thumbnail of user edq5
1 review
0 helpful votes
April 29th, 2019

I met a young lady here, everything goes well except for I am twenty years older than her... Why Chinese woman ( or Asian woman probably?) loves OLD MAN? Anyway I would like to know her better.

Thumbnail of user boothef
1 review
1 helpful vote
July 19th, 2018

Thank you China love for letting me up with a sweet, pleasant person. Id never have met her if it were not for the chats and emails we could easily exchange across the distance. After four months of chatting, I cant wait to meet her in person.

Thumbnail of user silasl8
1 review
1 helpful vote
July 31st, 2018

I don't think I have had as much excitement in my life for some time now as I've had lately. So far, the girls I've met are warm and friendly, smart and witty! They do know how to peak a guy's interest and keep the conversation going. Good job in creating this site.

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Thumbnail of user trepenl
1 review
0 helpful votes
September 20th, 2018

In dating like chlove.com has been very enlightening for me. Asian girls are more laid back and down to earth than I expected. They're also very appreciative of the gifts I sent, thus making every delivery worth it. Give it a try.

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Thumbnail of user jimmyh60
1 review
1 helpful vote
September 26th, 2017

I tried some dating sites, and chnlove.com kept me. They do have many beautiful Chinese women, and these beauties can really talk with you. I wrote letters and now I prefer the live chat because it takes less time. I dont really like to wait, and the girls on site wont let you wait, they respond as soon as possible. Well, talking to a sexy stranger is so full of fun!

Thumbnail of user leroys48
1 review
0 helpful votes
July 11th, 2018

As a mid-aged man, I didnt really want to date someone half my age. Im glad Im being matched with Asians who are a bit more mature in thinking but are lovely just the same. Wish me luck on this one!

Thumbnail of user phuckerj
1 review
0 helpful votes
April 23rd, 2020

This is a very good example of how a dating site that helps married people find affairs should be like. It's not the fastest to work but if you have half a bloody brain then you know theres no such thing as a quick bang when your married. It takes time and effort to plan ahead and pick the right chicks to meet. The good news is no strings affair ticks the boxes for me anyway.

Thumbnail of user whites3
1 review
2 helpful votes
September 27th, 2018

My favourite feature of the site is the quick search function. It makes finding people meeting your standard effortless. This means I can spend less time combing through pages of potential partners and just see those who might have similar interests and goals as myself.

Thumbnail of user nathanb73
1 review
2 helpful votes
February 18th, 2016

I think the website has very sincere translators unlike my experience with one other website in the past. I actually had my doubts each time we communicated through translators. Because of how close we have gotten, my date decided to go for English lessons. After a few months we could communicate directly. To clear my doubts, I asked her a few things we have talked about before and her responses were not out of place. It is good to know I have not been wasting my time all these while.

Thumbnail of user jonnf
2 reviews
22 helpful votes
March 23rd, 2017

Sent my lady 3 letters letting her know when & what time I be at Shenzhen airport she never meet me I was left at hotel for 10 days after sending her another 4 letters telling address of hotel. This site is a total scam, fraud they need to be shut down. When I get back to Missouri that is exactly what my efforts will be. They scammed the wrong Missouri boy.

Thumbnail of user aliedisj
1 review
0 helpful votes
July 31st, 2018

For somebody who's a newbie to Asian internet dating, I thought communicating would pose a bit of a struggle. No worries there though, because I came across some do's and don'ts on how to communicate, introduce yourself, and build a friendship. So there. Problem solved!

Thumbnail of user adamh141
1 review
3 helpful votes
March 2nd, 2018

I have never met a paasionate person than the woman i am chating with. She is passionate about teaching children in grade school. She is passionate about life.Her zest for life is infectious.

Thumbnail of user priatl
1 review
1 helpful vote
June 16th, 2017

Chnlove girls are too good to be true. The first message I received just got me turned on. I talked with the girl and met in person almost four months later.

Thumbnail of user hocel
1 review
0 helpful votes
March 16th, 2018

Couldn't get my account to work after i forgot my password, so i contacted the customer service and they helped to resolve this problem within just a few hours. Customer servce in most other online dating sites is usually dead, so i was pleasantly surprised!

Thumbnail of user alteb
1 review
0 helpful votes
November 30th, 2017

One of my friends used to hang on dating site to have some fun, he always talked to a couple of girls, and just to enjoy the time chatting with them. But Im not. The day I logged in on chnlove, I was really trying to find a cute Chinese girl. The smart-matching system helps me to find the girls who really want a serious relationship too. Now I am talking to one of them, and she's really good. Hoping for the best.

Thumbnail of user somonr
1 review
2 helpful votes
June 30th, 2015

I want to express my warmest thank you for Chnlove. It brings my life lady to me. She is an absolute darling for me, we match each other perfectly. We have been communicating for quite some time now. The services of the site helps us a lot. Although my lady speaks almost no English, we could fully understand each other with the help of our translator. I’m glad that there’s meeting service on the site, so next month when I come to Qingdao, the translator can assist us as well.

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Thumbnail of user tecusanm
5 reviews
24 helpful votes
July 18th, 2016

I am verry amused when i see positiv comments about chinalove, and want to ask a simple question, did you get direct in touch with her? I am sure you will say no, i had hundred of admirers many told me they have a Ferrari in garage, if such a women send you a admirer mail just tell her to pay the compagny the money they need to gave her your email adress, then will come excuses, and if you want to see the ID of the women they will send you a picture with a women with a paper with her chinalove code, i have beein also to ukraine a amazing country, but didnt see on the street the beauties from the datting site, when i want to meet her personally, she told me i have to pay someone to translate with 150$ for half a hour a conversation, suddendly sh forgot english, we are growing mens, i am a kind of men who learn my mistakes, my stupidity cost me about 4000$, my advice look every day in the mirror and ask yourself why i young beautiful lady has choose you.

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Thumbnail of user vaclavu
1 review
0 helpful votes
April 22nd, 2019

It looks good so far but I am taking one step at a time. Online dating is tricky but this website has made it authentic with a huge database of profiles. I am in hurry and taking my time to look around and be sure before making the first move."

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Thumbnail of user urielr1
1 review
1 helpful vote
March 23rd, 2015

My friend married a Chinese woman. I think she is a good example of Chinese lady. I could feel their happiness and this strengthens my decision to find a Chinese wife. My friend recommended Chnlove.com to me. Even using the age group filter, I'm still amazed at how many lovely ladies are looking for husbands in China. God willing, I will find my love on it.

Thumbnail of user edwardd37
1 review
2 helpful votes
March 27th, 2017

Chnlove is making life interesting for me. So much to explore and the love call feature is something worth spending money for. You get to talk to gorgeous girls and get to know them well. I have so far spent time with my lady and we shared our thought on many different areas. I feel the accomplishment of not being a lonely man anymore :)

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Thumbnail of user arleyp4
2 reviews
7 helpful votes
April 26th, 2016

Whats all these buzz about online dating when I could go to a bar and grab a cute girl of my choice? Well, if I had a little shyness in me, I probably would be thinking in the same direction because it will help me build my confidence.

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Launched in 1998, Chnlove.com is a member site of Qpid Network, and now one of the leading and most trusted international dating sites dedicated to helping western men find their ideal match in China. Through its strong collaboration with local dating agencies in China, Chnlove continues to attract thousands of sincere single gentlemen every day, and achieves an amazingly high success rate among sites alike.

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