It's a scam

You get verified by having a sign or sharpie pen written somewhere on your body that has your "name" (handle... whatever moniker you chose for yourself) on it and post the photo in you file and (I think) there is a button that says "verify me" or something similar to that. If you answer every (or most) emails that come your way (and this doesn't work for men) then they will upgrade you to gold or just keep renewing your membership for free since there are so many men and not as many women who are willing to get out there and find a FWB. OMGawsh! You cannot believe the number of men on site jabber who gave me crap about posting my review of AFF, but I think it is legitimate for women to want/need a FWB just as much as for a man! Will it never cease? ~~Melinda