I have been on and off this site for a couple of years now. The girls you still see online - have to be paid employees. I think you have to take your time to sort this out. I'm chatting with one woman who I never can catch online and I do mean NEVER. Sge says she's not communicating with any other guys now that we are connected. That makes me hopeful that it might be for real. Jury is still out. You can tell the ones who are playing you on chat. They talk dirty and try to entice you. Great way to unload your cash. I still think there are legit girls. Some I kept as a favorite a year ago are gone while others are still there. One woman got pissed at me for taking too long in responding and didnt think I was serious - well I wasn't then. Fair enough and she blocked me. Seems like to me she was legit too. Didn't want me on chat much either. I think you have to really be careful considering how their business model works. Time will tell. Good luck guys.