Guys, there are millions of men and much fewer women on this site, so ALOT of competition from other men. If you are a man, before spending any money on this site, create a fake profile as a woman. They don't charge women any money, so it's free. Make sure to put in attractive stats (5'8" tall, 115 lbs - you get it). You don't even need a pic, but if you can find and include a nice looking one, it will help. Then see the hundreds of messages from men you will get. Look at some of their profiles and pics. That's what you'll be competing against. If you think you can compete, then spend your money and go for it. If not, find another way (NOT the internet) to meet someone. Good luck!