The approval format is a sham. I basically uploaded an x rated perfect date, and of course, it was approved. I think this company is linked with many dating sites of members long gone. Look at the profiles, many have a different format. How can a girl that appears about 20 be listed as a 61 year old if any approval system is used? The scam here is a woman contacts you after reading your profile, asks a couple of simple questions and you never here from her again. That's when you have the option of paying for 'coins' to determine if she read your message, or to pay extra to boost your profile. If you notice practically all of your matches are far away. This way it takes some time before you know you've been duped. If some were local you would figure out right away it's odd that you never ran into them over a 30 year period in a town of 600. I wouldn't doubt it a bit if someone in a third world country is being paid a dollar a day to answer questions or send winks for both sexes. This cons are smart enough to understand that many people looking to date may pay to figure out why they are being blown off or not solicited. This is a total waste of money.