Joined as a free member as many did here. Got several messages from ordinary looking women asking for my information. Paid for one month and answered all plus several more.Not a peep. Then I went on every profile and posted what had happened and said if things did not change I would go to every review site annd post what had happened. Today after less than one week in my membership they won't recognize my user name. I compare them with "If you want o keep your doctor you can keep your doctor"