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Tim W.

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2 Reviews by Tim

  • AdultsWithBenefits

2/24/14

Do NOT trust the other positive reviews of this site. Before I explain, let me say that I am in my late 20's, I'm very attractive, muscular, and I am pretty adept at creating a clever profile and sending effective messages. I've had plenty of success on sites that are notoriously hard to get action (ashleymadison). I don't say that to brag, but just to emphasize that I'm not some hairy, chubby guy sending "hey, wanna hook up?" messages.

Here's the truth from an experienced user of a few of these websites: this is a total scam. As far as I can tell, this site has zero real women on it. I have yet to receive a real reply or an email outside of the site's messaging service. When I ask specific questions, I get very vague, generic responses that barely even make sense. It's obvious that I've just been communicating with bots. Very frustrating. There are a lot of attractive female profiles on the site. Unfortunately, they're all fake.

I will say that this site has done an exceptionally good job of making it seem real. The profiles are not obvious fakes like the ones on other sites. I've gotten pretty good at spotting fake profiles and scam sites, but I have to say this one got me hook, line, and sinker. The profiles def look real and there is a good mix of women from the entire attractiveness spectrum. They've also been very thorough in writing fake reviews on sites like this one to promote their brand. But again, this site is a complete SCAM and filled with bots. If I were tech-savy enough to launch a major cyber attack on some of these sites, I would.

  • Ashley Madison

12/14/13

Here's the truth about AM, you can meet and hook up with attractive, married women. BUT (and this is key) you better:
A) be an attractive guy
B) be at least 5'10
C) be intelligent and able to come up with a creative and appealing profile
D) live in a fairly large metro area

If you meet those criteria, you can definitely have success on AM. I've lived in one of the largest metro areas in US and have only been a member for about 4 months. I've met about 8-10 women and slept with about half of them. And they were all quite attractive, a few them extremely attractive. You can do it, but as I said, if you don't meet most or all of the criteria I mentioned above, you'll have a very hard time.

Next, yes, there are tons of fake profiles on the site. However, it's not as bad as other sites I've tried, and unlike other sites, there are a lot of real women on there. AM is free for women to join, which I actually think is a pretty good idea because these sights need to attract women. Anyway, I'm pretty sure AM has paid employees that pose as women and set up fake profiles. They will contact you with very generic messages (like: "hey, wanna chat?" or "are you online?") when you first sign up. They're just trying to get you to buy the credits (and then use them). After a couple of months, I've learned how to spot them and not waste any credits on them (there are about 60-70 profiles in my area that are literally always logged in, 24/7 - dead giveaway).

On more thing you need to know about AM: The ratio of men to women is probably at least 15:1 in most areas. I don't care what other reviews say or what AM claims. This is just a reality, and it means the competition is fierce and you better bring your A-game. You'll get turned down by a lot of women that probably aren't as attractive as you are and some of them are rude. It's just the nature of the game. Tons of women's profiles are simply a list of demands or criteria that you better meet. You on the other hand, as a guy, better come up with a charming and creative profile if you want to get any action at all. When a half way decent looking (or just sounding, bc many don't add public pictures) woman joins AM, they are literally flooded with hundreds of emails. So like I said, you better figure out a way to stand out in a huge crowd.

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