The worst site for either side of the infidelity horror. The wayward side is filled with spouses of the betrayed spouses on that site so you can't trust any of their posts. They have a contest, basically, to see who is the most "remorseful". It's honestly pathetic. Can't believe their spouses buy that crap. The betrayed side is just as bad. Competitive bitterness. The absolute horrific "advise" given is almost criminal. There are several posters, sunflower30 is one for sure, Hope2b another, that are so bitter and vile you can't help but understand completely how their spouse cheated... and I'm a betrayed spouse. You almost fine yourself rooting for them to dump these entitled, vulgar, vile $#*!es. Men are screwed on that site. I'm no longer posting and many awesome members no longer go there either because of the terrible moderating or because they were banned for speaking the truth. Uncertainone was a brilliant, sage, wayward (although I never thought she was) that posted gems. You won't find them anymore because Deeply Scared deleted all of them. That petty little cheater broke her own site's guidelines. Shocking. Horrible site, terribly run with damaged dangerous posters. Reddit and other sites far far better than that absolute mess