I've been on this site for a few years now (before the collaboration with Hi5). I find that this site has men who are ready to take advantage of any girl that is seeking a decent relationship or friendship. They'll say anything to fill your head just so the can continue their mission to get some a$$ then leave or just stick around for a while and reap the benefits.
I also find that there's tons of scammers on there, plus pyramids schemes (ain't no way you can get rich by doing jack all). What irritates me the most about this site, are people who have decades old pictures of themselves. C'mon now... if you don't look the same as you did ten years ago, maybe it's time to update you profile pic/pictures, all it takes is to have one up dated pic just ONE. It's so easy to tell how old a pic is just by looking at the comments underneath the pic. I find the site to be okay, but the users need to stop playing games and be upfront on what they're really looking for. And as for the married/attached ppl looking to have their cake and eat it too, OMG that's so annoying.
My past experience on the site has me going on there seldom, and when I do go on, I make sure to take at least a month or two (to interact with someone through msgs or phone convo) to make sure me and the other party are on the same page before I meet them in person. It ain't hard out there to go out and get d! Ck, what IS difficult for me is finding someone who's single, that wants to date and that's eventually ready to settle down, or at least build a friendship over time.
Dear User, We encourage our members to use our free cam chat feature to avoid having to give out personal Skype or contact details and thus avoiding problems such as you experienced. We are pleased you were able to find someone to enjoy cyber sex with on your first day and hope you will continue to use the site for longer than two days so you are able to meet some of our other happy members.