I'm embarrassed that I got on Zoosk, I should have known better. The website is awe full to maneuver. I winked at a few members and I can't tell where it lists it on my account,. Not like other website (that you don't have to pay for) it doesn't keep track of who I am interested in. Also the "Carousel" keeps showing me the same match ups over and over even though I have "deleted" it from my list. I recommended NOT TO SIGN UP ON THIS WEBSITE (for your own good and $)