Back in December of 2014 I became a paying member. I went through hundreds of profiles. I was being viewed by the same men at one point so I began messaging them. Several times. I never got a response. There was one in particular that I wanted to meet. But he never got back to me. But he continually kept viewing my profile. I tried one last time, got no answer so I blocked him. One man approached me almost at the end of my membership. He was Syrian and had an advanced degree in biomedical engineering. I thought it was a fake profile or I was being catfish. But we talked more then moved to hangouts and I finally felt comfortable enough to video chat with him. He was real. But then things got ugly really fast. Like on that first chat. He began to ask me about sexual things. Like masturbation. How much I do it. Do I like it. I was very uncomfortable and felt like I had truly wasted my time. I tried to steer the conversation away from that but he was persistent. So I told him that he was disgusting and I closed the video chat. I felt like I had been assaulted. His intelligence was what I really liked about him and now I had never felt so stupid. Nobody else contacted me and I knew that this site will bill you like a week before the end of your subscription so I got a new debit card and cancelled the one that they had on file for me. I was more than disappointed. I was traumatized. Because I truly liked this man and he immediately ruined it once we were face to face.