When you are trying to find someone and you are seeing what has been pick for you and then you tried to say hi and also want to talk you get no response. I have tried to talk and meet a lot of men on this site and there was only one who really cared to talk and wanted to meet me. Please has the courtesy to either tell the other person yes I will have a talk with or tell them I am not interested in the other person. It will save a lot of heart aches.