This site isn't a scam. But its definitely not easy. I'm a 24 year old male, in great shape, and not to sound conceited, but I'm not hard on the eyes. I've been on the site 12 1/2 months. Over this period of time I've had sex with 5 women. All 5 were beautiful and all 5 looked like their pictures. With that being said though, you have no idea how many emails I had to send to various women. And like a post I read about adult dating sites... you have to be original and appealing. It doesn't happen over night. Through my experiences so far though, this has been the best site that I've experienced. Yes there are plenty of fake profiles... and the statement "If it's too good to be true, then it probably is." applies to some of the profiles. My suggestion: if you are an overweight, anti-social guy trying to find a way to get laid... this is NOT for you. Guys out number the girls easily 20 to 1. But if you are in decent shape, aren't hard on the eyes, and can actually carry on a conversation in person, you might have a chance. Case in point, this site will not give you what you don't already have...