I've been a big sucker for them for a long time; wasted thousands of dollars. The only way to get contact info is from a phone call... or "maybe" through a gift... I have done many calls with "ladies" to exchange email, phone, etc. But they slow down their speech enough to use up whatever credits remain on my account. Then, usually the info is fake. When it's real, the email and/or phone are NOT their real emails and phone numbers. If you get one that works you'll quickly learn the phone is never on, or never answered, and your emails are ignored - except for maybe 1 or 2 within days of your phone call to make you think it's not a scam. But trust me, ALL the sweet talk is gone as soon as you get contact info - and they'll never be in touch EXCEPT for on the site - where they'll continue trying to get your attention.