I have been using this site, and the fact is that a big percent of the Ladies letters are fake,
Here is something from my earlier communication with the administration:
Dear NN,
You have not received the lady's details from us so far.
Your request for the lady *******XXX, NN has been just submitted, the results should be available within 2-3 business days in the section "requested contacts" in your profile.
When the lady's information id officially delivered to you, your messages on the site will not be filtered any more and you will be able to send her the links.
Just fine; I received her information, found her on thisVKontakte site, and sent her an friend request. Surprise: she had never heard about me before! I had been communicating with the interpreter only for 6 mounts! Wonder about how many of the mail I have paid for that has been scam only? But the letters from this site continued to arrive with messages like: My Dear NN, are you going to answer me or not? Obviously there was also an communication error within this agency too.
Here is my advise:
If you met this lady through a site that offers pay-per-letter services, she's probably not "real" (i. E. her name, location, age, and pictures may be real, but she's writing you because the agency shares the pay-per-letter revenue with her). Many times the Ladies don't even have to write the letters, the agency have an database of letters and just extract letters from this. This is ESPECIALLY true if she is willing to wait a year or two to meet you in person.
If this lady wrote you first to your direct email address but you don't remember ever writing her, she is not real.
If you are 57 years old, 5-8 (173 cm), 240 lbs (109 kg, not muscle), earn $25K/year, and you're not especially good-looking and the girl is 24,5-10 (178 cm), 120 lbs. (54 kg), and drop-dead gorgeous, but she sounds like she's in love with you and desperately wants to come visit you she's not real.
Wake up! Use your common sense!