Getting back "out there" is hard! Meeting people online is easier because there's no physical hang ups, he's too short, he's too tall, his hair is too long, he's bald... You get to know the person by interacting a little bit (or a lot) before you meet in person to find if there is a physical attraction. Sometimes we are too quick to judge the book by it's cover and we don't take the time to find out what treasures it might hold.