Awful... most if not all if the men on BPM are looking for sex and that's it. They are losers! This is all they have for there nasty lives. As far as the site it self, they are cons they will take your money and give you nothing... once again making money off of us again. I guess building this country was not enough! I to thought that I had met a really nice guy, but I later found out that he was having... yep SEX with a women from Brooklyn NY who gave it up fast... two weeks after he met her, well I can't compete with that, because I have self respect, class and dignity! I will never let anybody take that away. Oh by the way I caught him red handed. Beware!