I have written an extensive review about Zoosk, but think it is only fair to add this last one. When I joined, I connected with a real person, met him twice, talked on the phone extensively, but it fizzled out. That was my only luck. That was January of last year! January of this year I got a call from same guy, & we continued our friendship, & this time he was ready to accept my "no sex before marriage" condition. Well, we got married 2 weeks ago. So, hang in there, you never know... or try Steve Harveys site. At least you know who owns the site, & you can always contact him if something goes wrong. Goodluck y'all.