This dating site seems to be filled with fakes. Not only have I experienced this, but also others I have spoken with. They usually start out, "looking for a relationship " when in reality they are looking to hook up with no serious intentions. Beware the "sucessful", handsome, athletic (Aka, gym rat), who drives a luxury vehicle. There is a reason a 40 something year old man (never married) is on dating sites. NEVER MARRIED, big red flag. Why do you think that is?!? Um, can you say, "personality disorder?" Haha. Scary.