kristen a.

I can't even begin to describe how much I hate this site. I tried multiple times on here, deleting and remaking a profile. I have finally given up and here is why. This site is not for serious people trying to find a serious relationship. First of all, the majority of the people on this site are disgusting, ignorant, trash. And when you think you've stumbled upon a decent looking guy who seems to be normal, has a good job, and seems to have the same interests as you, one of a few things happen: they don't respond to your messages, they do respond but its only to insult you, they respond but only to ask you if you'll suck their d*ck, and finally they respond and end up being a completely fake profile. Then they claim that the matches and top prospects are people who are similar to you and what you're looking for and you have a higher % chance at finding love with one of these guys. This is complete and utter bull$#*!. There is NO possible way for them to really be able to determine quality matches personalized to you without requiring further questioning and analysis of who you are and what you look for. Yes, they have chemistry tests and a needs assessment test both of which are extremely long and neither of which is required to be done by users. So how can they possibly claim that they are determining the best matches for you when the basic profile questions hardly explain who you are and what you are looking for. Next, as far as the "UPGRADED" membership plans they offer, it is completely ludicrous that they charge people to "upgrade" because they only offer about 3 other additional features when you upgrade. Now I was never stupid enough to upgrade, but when I re-created a profile at my last attempt with this site, it somehow was giving me these upgraded features and saying that I was an upgraded user. Here is what an "upgrade" gets you: you can see if your messages were read or not, you can see who clicked YES in the meet me, and you can see when a user was last online. THAT'S IT! That is literally all you get when you pay to have an upgraded membership. Total complete bull$#*!. I didn't have high expectations to begin with seeing as how this is essentially a free dating site, but what I experienced horrible. I got messages from ghetto and trashy people who don't have jobs, an education, or even know how to form a proper sentence when messaging someone. I got replies from men that I thought seemed like someone I would be interested that were unbelievably mean and uncalled for. Instead of simply ignoring me or responding saying they weren't interested, they would call me names and say horrible things to me and tell me I was way out of my league. Now a lot of you will read this and think "oh this girl must be fat, ugly, and desperate. I can assure you, I am none of those things. I am simply someone who leads a busy life and doesn't think that picking up men in a bar is a good way to meet a decent guy. I would go to meet someone and when I showed up, they were someone TOTALLY different and had used someone else's images. I am not the kind of person who reviews things or complains even when I really don't like something, but this site is just complete and total bull$#*!. They market themselves as a dating site and talk about ways to find real love and relationships but offer no real compatibly testing. Not only that, they have nothing on their site about contacting them or their customer service. That right there shows me that they know how $#*!ty their site is and they could care less.
So ladies, if you are someone who is really looking to meet a decent man and maybe find a relationship, PLEASE do yourself a favor and DO NOT waste your time on this site. But hey, if all you're looking for is sex and are one of the trashy women i've heard are on this site then by all means knock yourself out. And yes, i've been told by guys on this site that most of the women who contact them are disgusting and offer themselves up like whores. So if thats the kind of women you are, a women who clearly doesn't respect herself in ANY way, or you're the kind of man who wants a women like that, then maybe this site is for you. But as for us normal and decent men and women, do yourself a favor and just pay for a respectable dating site that has genuine capabilities for matching you with decent and normal people and the reputation to back it up.